Last edit by: BadgerBoi
The Definitive Guide to Seat Poaching
1. Don't do it.
2. Alternatively to #1: Asking politely (and not demanding) to swap for an equal or better seat is acceptable by most (but the final decision always lays with the original seat holder)...but, be warned, some FT'ers may breathe fire at you.
3. Keep in mind that Point 2 is not seat poaching.
1. Don't do it.
2. Alternatively to #1: Asking politely (and not demanding) to swap for an equal or better seat is acceptable by most (but the final decision always lays with the original seat holder)...but, be warned, some FT'ers may breathe fire at you.
3. Keep in mind that Point 2 is not seat poaching.
Seat Swapping, Seat Poaching and Seating Etiquette: The Definitive Thread
#1532
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: MSN
Programs: Delta DM, Bonvoy LT Titanium, Hertz PC
Posts: 1,987
Going back to some examples, the FAA requires the airlines to allow families with children < 13 to sit together for free. Does anyone know if this means that they sometimes move people involuntarily? http://familytravel.org/congress-pas...ying-together/
Last edited by bergamini; Oct 9, 2017 at 3:41 pm
#1533
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Northern Minnesota, US
Programs: DL Diamond, SPG/MR Plat, Kimpton IC, IHG Spire Elite, Hilton Gold
Posts: 659
Here's a quick one. Walk to my seat 10c. Guy is in 10c. I said, hey your in my seat, he says what seat, I point to the seat he's in and say that one 10c. He says no, the aisle is A, I point at the little seat map and he says, yeah thats 10a next to the aisle. Right then a FA walks by. I ask her what seat is this, she said 10C loud enough for him to hear. I pointed at 10a, and smiled and said enjoy the window.
#1534
FlyerTalk Evangelist
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Newport Beach, California, USA
Posts: 36,062
Going back to some examples, the FAA requires the airlines to allow families with children < 13 to sit together for free. Does anyone know if this means that they sometimes move people involuntarily? http://familytravel.org/congress-pas...ying-together/
#1535
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: Olde Dominion
Programs: DL Silver - uh huh!
Posts: 948
Here's a quick one. Walk to my seat 10c. Guy is in 10c. I said, hey your in my seat, he says what seat, I point to the seat he's in and say that one 10c. He says no, the aisle is A, I point at the little seat map and he says, yeah thats 10a next to the aisle. Right then a FA walks by. I ask her what seat is this, she said 10C loud enough for him to hear. I pointed at 10a, and smiled and said enjoy the window.
Although he might have been seat poaching, it could have been an honest mistake.
Some of those seat diagrams make it look to me like 10A is the aisle, even though I know that 10A is the window.
#1536
FlyerTalk Evangelist
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: San Antonio
Programs: DL DM, Former AA EXP now AY Plat, AC 75K, NW Plat, Former CO Gold, Hilton Diamond, Marriott Titanium
Posts: 27,046
First, it's not the FAA, which imposes regulations, but Congress, which passes laws that came up with this one. From what I've read, it means airlines can't impose a charge, e.g. for a seat reservation, so that a parent can sit with a child. I'm not aware of anything that gives parents with children superior rights to seating over those traveling without children, i.e. I doubt if people are going to get displaced, but I may be wrong.
#1537
FlyerTalk Evangelist
Join Date: Jun 2015
Location: Back in Reds Country (DAY/CVG). Previously: SEA & SAT.
Programs: DL PM 1MM, AA PLAT, UA Silver, Marriott Bonvoy Titanium
Posts: 10,360
Does This Sound Like the "FAM Bump"?
Wondering (although we'll never officially know) if this was a FAM bump based on experience. Friend and I are doing a TATL trip in November (outbound in approx 30 days). Separate reservations. He originally had 3A and I have 4A. Aircraft type: Airbus A330-300.
Today he noticed he was moved to 8J (the only window seat left, now all A/J seats are gone). I'm still in 4A. He reached out to Delta to see what happened. They said "there was an aircraft swap" (which isn't true as the flight was booked, it was an A330-300 and it's still an A330-300).
A little disappointed at the swap as we had back-to-back seats while both getting a window. Now if we want to sit together, we'd have to move to a pair of two in the middle section.
Has anyone else had experience with mysterious bumps if they previously selected 3A on an A330?
Today he noticed he was moved to 8J (the only window seat left, now all A/J seats are gone). I'm still in 4A. He reached out to Delta to see what happened. They said "there was an aircraft swap" (which isn't true as the flight was booked, it was an A330-300 and it's still an A330-300).
A little disappointed at the swap as we had back-to-back seats while both getting a window. Now if we want to sit together, we'd have to move to a pair of two in the middle section.
Has anyone else had experience with mysterious bumps if they previously selected 3A on an A330?
#1538
FlyerTalk Evangelist
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: San Antonio
Programs: DL DM, Former AA EXP now AY Plat, AC 75K, NW Plat, Former CO Gold, Hilton Diamond, Marriott Titanium
Posts: 27,046
Wondering (although we'll never officially know) if this was a FAM bump based on experience. Friend and I are doing a TATL trip in November (outbound in approx 30 days). Separate reservations. He originally had 3A and I have 4A. Aircraft type: Airbus A330-300.
Today he noticed he was moved to 8J (the only window seat left, now all A/J seats are gone). I'm still in 4A. He reached out to Delta to see what happened. They said "there was an aircraft swap" (which isn't true as the flight was booked, it was an A330-300 and it's still an A330-300).
A little disappointed at the swap as we had back-to-back seats while both getting a window. Now if we want to sit together, we'd have to move to a pair of two in the middle section.
Has anyone else had experience with mysterious bumps if they previously selected 3A on an A330?
Today he noticed he was moved to 8J (the only window seat left, now all A/J seats are gone). I'm still in 4A. He reached out to Delta to see what happened. They said "there was an aircraft swap" (which isn't true as the flight was booked, it was an A330-300 and it's still an A330-300).
A little disappointed at the swap as we had back-to-back seats while both getting a window. Now if we want to sit together, we'd have to move to a pair of two in the middle section.
Has anyone else had experience with mysterious bumps if they previously selected 3A on an A330?
This far out I doubt it was a FAM.
#1539
FlyerTalk Evangelist
Join Date: Jun 2015
Location: Back in Reds Country (DAY/CVG). Previously: SEA & SAT.
Programs: DL PM 1MM, AA PLAT, UA Silver, Marriott Bonvoy Titanium
Posts: 10,360
Just because there wasn't a change in plane type, doesn't mean there wasnt a plane swap. Could be an assistant seated behind a passenger in 2A that needs medical assistance. 2A is bulkhead and they have to allow assistant to be by the passenger.
This far out I doubt it was a FAM.
This far out I doubt it was a FAM.
Also is there still a "hard bulkhead" requirement in a seating configuration that doesn't even have a true bulkhead seat? I get the issue with getting a row with no reclining seat in front for access but how is that true for the current D1 seats?
#1540
FlyerTalk Evangelist
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: San Antonio
Programs: DL DM, Former AA EXP now AY Plat, AC 75K, NW Plat, Former CO Gold, Hilton Diamond, Marriott Titanium
Posts: 27,046
That seems odd as if it was an assistant for another passenger who is in 2A, they could have taken 2C (aisle directly across) which is both open and probably a better viewing angle. Also, 1G and 2G are both open if the desired set up was back to back.
Also is there still a "hard bulkhead" requirement in a seating configuration that doesn't even have a true bulkhead seat? I get the issue with getting a row with no reclining seat in front for access but how is that true for the current D1 seats?
Also is there still a "hard bulkhead" requirement in a seating configuration that doesn't even have a true bulkhead seat? I get the issue with getting a row with no reclining seat in front for access but how is that true for the current D1 seats?
#1541
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: MSN
Programs: Delta DM, Bonvoy LT Titanium, Hertz PC
Posts: 1,987
First, it's not the FAA, which imposes regulations, but Congress, which passes laws that came up with this one. From what I've read, it means airlines can't impose a charge, e.g. for a seat reservation, so that a parent can sit with a child. I'm not aware of anything that gives parents with children superior rights to seating over those traveling without children, i.e. I doubt if people are going to get displaced, but I may be wrong.
It pretty clearly says that it "requires airlines to generally ensure that children 13 years of age or under are seated adjacent to an adult or older child traveling with them" and later provisions state within the cabin purchased. I look forward to the smug elite who is convinced that they don't have to move for a family and then become the next Dr. Dao.
#1542
A FlyerTalk Posting Legend
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Minneapolis: DL DM charter 2.3MM
Programs: A3*Gold, SPG Plat, HyattDiamond, MarriottPP, LHW exAccess, ICI, Raffles Amb, NW PE MM, TWA Gold MM
Posts: 100,417
Thank you for focusing on the semantics. If you Google the term "FAA imposed regulations" you will find that the FAA does indeed impose a lot of regulations. And since those semantics are important to you, I'm sure you meant to say that Congress passes bills; they aren't laws until signed by the president or a presidential veto is over-ridden (although you didn't).
It pretty clearly says that it "requires airlines to generally ensure that children 13 years of age or under are seated adjacent to an adult or older child traveling with them" and later provisions state within the cabin purchased. I look forward to the smug elite who is convinced that they don't have to move for a family and then become the next Dr. Dao.
It pretty clearly says that it "requires airlines to generally ensure that children 13 years of age or under are seated adjacent to an adult or older child traveling with them" and later provisions state within the cabin purchased. I look forward to the smug elite who is convinced that they don't have to move for a family and then become the next Dr. Dao.
BTW, IIRC the rule that Congress has specified says that a (ONE) parent or guardian (or perhaps other family member over some age) must sit "near" a child, which could be in front or behind instead of adjacent. There's no rule that entire families sit together or that a child sits near both parents.
#1543
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: MSN
Programs: Delta DM, Bonvoy LT Titanium, Hertz PC
Posts: 1,987
Congress has instructed the DOT to do this, but there's a deadline that's fairly far in the future for implementing such a regulation.
BTW, IIRC the rule that Congress has specified says that a (ONE) parent or guardian (or perhaps other family member over some age) must sit "near" a child, which could be in front or behind instead of adjacent. There's no rule that entire families sit together or that a child sits near both parents.
BTW, IIRC the rule that Congress has specified says that a (ONE) parent or guardian (or perhaps other family member over some age) must sit "near" a child, which could be in front or behind instead of adjacent. There's no rule that entire families sit together or that a child sits near both parents.
#1544
FlyerTalk Evangelist
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Newport Beach, California, USA
Posts: 36,062
Thank you for focusing on the semantics. If you Google the term "FAA imposed regulations" you will find that the FAA does indeed impose a lot of regulations. And since those semantics are important to you, I'm sure you meant to say that Congress passes bills; they aren't laws until signed by the president or a presidential veto is over-ridden (although you didn't).
It pretty clearly says that it "requires airlines to generally ensure that children 13 years of age or under are seated adjacent to an adult or older child traveling with them" and later provisions state within the cabin purchased. I look forward to the smug elite who is convinced that they don't have to move for a family and then become the next Dr. Dao.
Smug elite because someone who chose a seat doesn't want to give it up to some parent with a young child? Whatever.
#1545
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: MSN
Programs: Delta DM, Bonvoy LT Titanium, Hertz PC
Posts: 1,987