Baby Stroller Incident on AA591 SFO>DFW April 21st
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As I suggested in the post of mine which you quoted: use of passenger name and "other PNR stored items" for the passenger's SFO-DFW flight may be used to try to find at least some of her prior travel history. And my bet is that she's had an AA account, as a large proportion of US-flying Argentines seem to have.
You know it's a secret that there is a field for FFP account info in PNRs, right? That is included by my mention of "other PNR stored items" in the post of mine to which you responded.
You know it's a secret that there is a field for FFP account info in PNRs, right? That is included by my mention of "other PNR stored items" in the post of mine to which you responded.
Don't insult posters by calling their opinions that happen to differ from yours "delusional."
I'm not suffering from any delusions. I think that if anyone is suffering from delusions, they are people who shrug off years and decades of incidents like these as minor, and then, when the news media finally hits a trifecta of well-videoed examples, shrugs it off as merely an exception.
I'm continuing to posit that these examples are symptoms of the underlying cancer in the airline business these days, and that the airlines themselves will never take the steps necessary to restore civility to their product. So let the government try.
The car makers were just like this in the 60s and 70s. They screamed, delayed, postured, deflected, claimed stuff was "minor," shrugged off incidents, and had to be dragged into headrests, seat belts, air bags, and antilock brakes by...government regulations. It wasn't their gallantry or "doing the right thing" that got safer cars on the road.
Now we need safer airplanes. Not mechanically safer; environmentally safer.
I'm not suffering from any delusions. I think that if anyone is suffering from delusions, they are people who shrug off years and decades of incidents like these as minor, and then, when the news media finally hits a trifecta of well-videoed examples, shrugs it off as merely an exception.
I'm continuing to posit that these examples are symptoms of the underlying cancer in the airline business these days, and that the airlines themselves will never take the steps necessary to restore civility to their product. So let the government try.
The car makers were just like this in the 60s and 70s. They screamed, delayed, postured, deflected, claimed stuff was "minor," shrugged off incidents, and had to be dragged into headrests, seat belts, air bags, and antilock brakes by...government regulations. It wasn't their gallantry or "doing the right thing" that got safer cars on the road.
Now we need safer airplanes. Not mechanically safer; environmentally safer.
OH PLEASE STOP IT... why must so many of you blame the victim. Can you believe it there are people out there who don't fly that often and may not know where the stroller goes. Perhaps we should have everyone who is going to fly pass a quiz before they board... just to make sure the know the rules.
Sorry, this is where the Flight Attendant steps in and provides customer service...THIS IS THIER JOB. The American Airlines Staff was in the wrong, from the captain to the flight attendant.
Sorry, this is where the Flight Attendant steps in and provides customer service...THIS IS THIER JOB. The American Airlines Staff was in the wrong, from the captain to the flight attendant.
I'm not convinced one way or the other whether there are sufficiently small umbrella strollers for twins sold somewhere in the world that fold to a size small enough to be brought on board.
If the mother typically travels outside of the USA or uses other carriers, she might assume that she won't see the stroller again before baggage claim at her destination, which would be a "major pain" as a previous poster (who seems to have experience traveling with kids) describes the situation of long airport walks with one or more kids and all of their paraphernalia.
By all accounts the flight attendant was trying to educate the passenger on what to do with the stroller and that's the route of the problem. I think we all agree that it's the airline crew's job to maintain a professional demeanor in the face of adverse behavior by customers, but I think most would agree sometimes customers behave poorly, and it appears that may have been the case in this situation.
Are we saying that no matter how poorly a passenger acts, that they should not bear any of the blame for a bad situation if the crew behaves poorly? So then a passenger behaving badly should just continue to escalate their poor behavior until they elicit a poor response from the crew, then they can't be blamed! Sounds like a fantastic plan.
Are we saying that no matter how poorly a passenger acts, that they should not bear any of the blame for a bad situation if the crew behaves poorly? So then a passenger behaving badly should just continue to escalate their poor behavior until they elicit a poor response from the crew, then they can't be blamed! Sounds like a fantastic plan.
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http://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/...cident-n750081
I don't know how much more unequivocal he can possibly be. Her child did not get hit by the stroller. She did not get hit by the stroller. Period.
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NO, telling the other FA that you want to make a complaint is likely to get you thrown off the flight. In fact, you can be kicked off by crew even if they think/believe/fear that you might file a complaint or if they remember you from some earlier flight where a complaint was made.
FAs tend to protect their own. They will not tell you their colleagues' (first) names when you ask, no matter how justified. GAs behave the same way even when they obviously think that their colleague is seriously wrong.
FAs tend to protect their own. They will not tell you their colleagues' (first) names when you ask, no matter how justified. GAs behave the same way even when they obviously think that their colleague is seriously wrong.
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By all accounts the flight attendant was trying to educate the passenger on what to do with the stroller and that's the route of the problem. I think we all agree that it's the airline crew's job to maintain a professional demeanor in the face of adverse behavior by customers, but I think most would agree sometimes customers behave poorly, and it appears that may have been the case in this situation.
Are we saying that no matter how poorly a passenger acts, that they should not bear any of the blame for a bad situation if the crew behaves poorly? So then a passenger behaving badly should just continue to escalate their poor behavior until they elicit a poor response from the crew, then they can't be blamed! Sounds like a fantastic plan.
Are we saying that no matter how poorly a passenger acts, that they should not bear any of the blame for a bad situation if the crew behaves poorly? So then a passenger behaving badly should just continue to escalate their poor behavior until they elicit a poor response from the crew, then they can't be blamed! Sounds like a fantastic plan.
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In the video I've seen I see a busy-body passenger threatening to 'knock him on his ...' to illicit his response. Of course he should have reacted more calmly, but he also shouldn't be threatened in such a manner by a passenger. I have not seen any evidence that leads me to believe the FA wasn't 'in any way trying to assist the woman' before the situation escalated.
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Far cry from cops beating the sh** out of a 69-year-old man and then the United CEO saying "he got what he deserved." Today's revelation of the police report, which reads like every other police report after cops have beaten the sh** out of someone (a mix of "he resisted" and "he fell and that's how he broke his face") does not help matters at all.
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I have personally seen that FA be abusive to a passenger, therefore I have no reason to think he was anything but abusive to her. Before the merger I used to regularly hand out US Above and Beyond cards. After the merger, not a single one.
In the video I've seen I see a busy-body passenger threatening to 'knock him on his ...' to illicit his response. Of course he should have reacted more calmly, but he also shouldn't be threatened in such a manner by a passenger. I have not seen any evidence that leads me to believe the FA wasn't 'in any way trying to assist the woman' before the situation escalated.
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I'm not advocating torches and pitchforks, but think there is a pattern with the eyewitness accounts worth noticing:
(a.) There are no fewer than three confirmed eyewitness accounts of the incident, and to my knowledge they all seem to side with the mother and the man.
(b.) There is only "eyewitness account" that seems to side with AA flight crew.
(c.) The reason I used scare quotes for "eyewitness account", is because it is anonymous and unverified.
(d.) The confirmed eyewitnesses all seem to largely agree in their accounts, while the anonymous account contradict the verified ones (and even contradicts the video in some aspects).
This is a problem. This is not right.
(a.) There are no fewer than three confirmed eyewitness accounts of the incident, and to my knowledge they all seem to side with the mother and the man.
(b.) There is only "eyewitness account" that seems to side with AA flight crew.
(c.) The reason I used scare quotes for "eyewitness account", is because it is anonymous and unverified.
(d.) The confirmed eyewitnesses all seem to largely agree in their accounts, while the anonymous account contradict the verified ones (and even contradicts the video in some aspects).
NO, telling the other FA that you want to make a complaint is likely to get you thrown off the flight. In fact, you can be kicked off by crew even if they think/believe/fear that you might file a complaint or if they remember you from some earlier flight where a complaint was made.
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I have two observations.
1) I cannot imagine what kind of attitude a person might have after trying to get through checkin and security with two toddlers alone. Her stress level must have been in overdrive!
2) How did this alleged contact of the stroller on the head of the mother occur? She's holding two babies in her hands in the pictures, and the story is the agent grabbed the stroller and it almost hit her head? How was the mother holding on to the two kids and a folded up stroller such that it could hit her head, if she's got the two kids in her hands.
Something doesn't make sense. Who is the source of the story about the pax getting hit on the head that makes this all so sensational (in addition to the interloping male passenger, who just needed to stay in his seat and was not helpful in defusing anything, and certainly not needed with the captain presiding over the discussions).
I do note that on a LAS-SFO flight yesterday, an elderly guy was putting his metal cane into the overhead and accidentally popped the guy sitting below with the cane on the top of his head. Accidents do happen like that without any ill intent.
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It doesn't read like every other police report after police abuse - it's worse (which I didn't think was possible). "I'm providing this report 'under duress,'" when he doesn't claim that anybody told him what to say or pressured him to say one thing or another, or anything except his own accurate recollections. He's only writing down what he claims to be the truth because he's being forced to.
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Oh for goodness sake, that is EXACTLY what he said. Did you even watch it? At 1:02 of the attached video, the female host asks him point blank "did she get hit by the stroller?" and Demetreo responds "She did not. She did not".
http://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/...cident-n750081
I don't know how much more unequivocal he can possibly be. Her child did not get hit by the stroller. She did not get hit by the stroller. Period.
http://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/...cident-n750081
I don't know how much more unequivocal he can possibly be. Her child did not get hit by the stroller. She did not get hit by the stroller. Period.
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I wonder what's going on here. The lawyer represents the mother, yet he seems to say on network TV that she has no case. Since he seems to be very smart, I suspect that there's something deeper at work here. [I hope the lawyer isn't selling out the mother in favor of Dr. Dao somehow, which I assume would be unethical.]
The mother here may not be looking for a payout as much as altruistic resolution. Her objective could be to demonstrate that federal regulation is needed as her incident following the UA event shows a lack of customer service in the US airline industry to a level where the airlines are creating unsafe environments.
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Oh for goodness sake, that is EXACTLY what he said. Did you even watch it? At 1:02 of the attached video, the female host asks him point blank "did she get hit by the stroller?" and Demetreo responds "She did not. She did not".
http://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/...cident-n750081
I don't know how much more unequivocal he can possibly be. Her child did not get hit by the stroller. She did not get hit by the stroller. Period.
http://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/...cident-n750081
I don't know how much more unequivocal he can possibly be. Her child did not get hit by the stroller. She did not get hit by the stroller. Period.