Tip envelopes in rooms
#46
Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 474
Let's face it, until the US adopts a living wage minimum wage, and we are willing to pay an extra couple of dollars a night to ensure the lowest paid staff get such a wage, then as with wait staff, it becomes the customer who must subsidize the employer by leaving tips for the poorest paid. Unfortunately, the government also "tips" by providing food stamps, medicaid and other support programs because companies like Macdonalds and Walmart won't pay a living wage...surely they are great Corporate Welfare Bums!)
#47
Join Date: May 2014
Programs: UA MP, AF FB, SAS EB, KA SP
Posts: 17
Very surprised any Marriott would allow the use of tip envelopes. This is very tacky!
Personally, I usually leave a tip of a few dollars a day, but that's just me. I understand most people don't tip and as pointed out above, maids make at least minimum wage and so do not have to be tipped.
Personally, I usually leave a tip of a few dollars a day, but that's just me. I understand most people don't tip and as pointed out above, maids make at least minimum wage and so do not have to be tipped.
#48
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 8,142
Even though I've never seen an envelope, I kind of like the idea. I'm a tipper and many times I've left money on the dresser for the staff who cleans the rooms only to find it still there when I come back.
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#49
Join Date: Feb 2011
Programs: United, Alaska, Amtrak, Southwest
Posts: 3
Many excellent comments and a couple of points not covered. I travel more for business than pleasure and stays average three nights. Although the housekeeper name placard is common, I have only rarely seen a "tips envelope." When I do leave a tip I always leave it in an envelope - usually from the hotel - and write either the maid's name on it or "housekeeping." This eliminates any confusion as to whether it was intended as a tip.
I am an easy guest, neat and clean, and usually inform housekeeping that I don't require daily service. If I do need an extra towel or toiletries I ask. One benefit of knowing the housekeeper's identity is I can greet her by name if I see her in the hallway, and thank her for preparing my room so well. That small gesture of respect and recognition might mean as much as or more than a two-dollar tip.
If the room was exceptionally spotless and well-organized upon arrival, I make a point of telling the GM and / or writing a brief note letting him or her know what a treasure they have employed.
I am an easy guest, neat and clean, and usually inform housekeeping that I don't require daily service. If I do need an extra towel or toiletries I ask. One benefit of knowing the housekeeper's identity is I can greet her by name if I see her in the hallway, and thank her for preparing my room so well. That small gesture of respect and recognition might mean as much as or more than a two-dollar tip.
If the room was exceptionally spotless and well-organized upon arrival, I make a point of telling the GM and / or writing a brief note letting him or her know what a treasure they have employed.
#50
Join Date: Nov 2005
Posts: 33
I read through the entire thread and did not find a single complaint about this. I guess people are afraid to appear cheap. I, for one, feel that I am already paying for my room and its service when I pay the hotel bill. Sorry, maids, but it is up to your employer to pay you, not me.
#51
Join Date: May 2006
Location: FRA
Programs: MR Gold, IHG Gold AMB
Posts: 262
Neither is being a teacher, a policeman, a TSA agent and so on. Do you tip them?
Tautology. Yes, if you give a person a dollar, he/she gets a dollar. That's quite basic math. How is that relevant?
Yes, think about it after taking Economics 101. Room rates are mostly determined by supply & demand, not by expenses (or do you think during the Superbowl hotel employees' wages jump tenfold and hotels are forced to raise the rates accordingly? )
Big business profits may decrease slightly, and I'm fine with that.
Even if the rates increased, quoting you, are you really going to miss a dollar a day to someone who really deserves it?
I'm really fed up with the absurd idea that if someone works hard and his boss pays him measly wage it somehow becomes client's obligation to add some dollars. And if he doesn't, there comes shaming and name-calling... But no, by some convoluted logic not his boss is a cheapskate, it is absolutely fine if the company earns a couple of millions more by paying minimum wage (or below) to hard working employees... No, turns out the client is at fault here, he is stingy and did not tip!
How can anyone (but the boss) advocate for such a system?!...
Big business profits may decrease slightly, and I'm fine with that.
Even if the rates increased, quoting you, are you really going to miss a dollar a day to someone who really deserves it?
I'm really fed up with the absurd idea that if someone works hard and his boss pays him measly wage it somehow becomes client's obligation to add some dollars. And if he doesn't, there comes shaming and name-calling... But no, by some convoluted logic not his boss is a cheapskate, it is absolutely fine if the company earns a couple of millions more by paying minimum wage (or below) to hard working employees... No, turns out the client is at fault here, he is stingy and did not tip!
How can anyone (but the boss) advocate for such a system?!...
Last edited by elva; Jun 17, 2014 at 11:45 pm
#52
Join Date: Oct 2001
Programs: LTP, PP
Posts: 8,698
"Why tip someone for a job I'm capable of doing myself? I can deliver food. I can drive a taxi. I can, and do, cut my own hair. I did however, tip my urologist, because I am unable to pulverize my own kidney stones." - Dwight Schrute
#55
Join Date: Aug 2011
Programs: Marriott Platinum
Posts: 58
[QUOTE=writerguyfl;23012779]Just speculation, but I would guess that a formal tip envelope is there to eliminate the "is that a tip or just money left on the table?" that Housekeepers sometime face. QUOTE]
This. In hotels I have stayed at with the envelope, if I left a tip on the bed or anywhere but in the envelope itself the few dollars will inevitably still be sitting there when I get back to the room.
If I had to guess, there was probably a precipitating event at any hotel that uses these tip envelopes- i.e. some guest claiming that housekeeping "stole" the $2 that the guest just happen to leave sitting out for no apparent reason
This. In hotels I have stayed at with the envelope, if I left a tip on the bed or anywhere but in the envelope itself the few dollars will inevitably still be sitting there when I get back to the room.
If I had to guess, there was probably a precipitating event at any hotel that uses these tip envelopes- i.e. some guest claiming that housekeeping "stole" the $2 that the guest just happen to leave sitting out for no apparent reason
#56
Join Date: Apr 2000
Location: Palm Beach/ New England
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Posts: 4,382
#57
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 5
Most awkward tip environment I have ever witnessed was at the CY in Page AZ.
Very nice breakfast buffet style. The waitperson brought your drinks and left the check.
The hotel seemed to have a large portion of touring Euros who were on a package deal.
The check folio was plopped down on the tables with a very loud"there is no tip included in this total, delivered in a somewhat challenging tone of voice. The entire waitstaff did it the same way.
It felt pretty uncomfortable after the first couple of hearings. Of course it was a buffet anyway, so I'm sure some people weren't sure how much to tip. A a US native, I felt the entire episode was over the top and embarrassing to our foreign guests. We got no comment when our bill was delivered.
Very nice breakfast buffet style. The waitperson brought your drinks and left the check.
The hotel seemed to have a large portion of touring Euros who were on a package deal.
The check folio was plopped down on the tables with a very loud"there is no tip included in this total, delivered in a somewhat challenging tone of voice. The entire waitstaff did it the same way.
It felt pretty uncomfortable after the first couple of hearings. Of course it was a buffet anyway, so I'm sure some people weren't sure how much to tip. A a US native, I felt the entire episode was over the top and embarrassing to our foreign guests. We got no comment when our bill was delivered.
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#58
Join Date: Aug 2003
Posts: 324
Very nice breakfast buffet style. The waitperson brought your drinks and left the check.
The check folio was plopped down on the tables with a very loud "there is no tip included in this total", delivered in a somewhat challenging tone of voice.
... it was a buffet anyway, so I'm sure some people weren't sure how much to tip.
The check folio was plopped down on the tables with a very loud "there is no tip included in this total", delivered in a somewhat challenging tone of voice.
... it was a buffet anyway, so I'm sure some people weren't sure how much to tip.
In this case, given the rudeness, I'd be inclined to tip little to nothing, and if need be explain to the manager why.
#59
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Virginia
Programs: UA 1 MILL CLUB, UA Gold for life, Marriott/SPG Platinum, Hilton Diamond
Posts: 12
After reading the boards, I wonder what is wrong with some people. Being a housekeeper is not an easy job. Leaving a dollar or two sure adds to a basic wage that is fully earned. It seems the people who worry about tipping a maid, also have a problem with a waiter. Think about it, if higher wages were paid the cost of the room would be more. As far as not being reimbursed are you really going to miss a dollar a day (or more if you are feeling generous) to someone who really deserves it. Believe me after seeing what is expected and accomplished by a maid, I have no qualms about sharing a dollar or two. If your really concerned make it up by taking the soap and shampoo with you. With a tip is just might be replaced everyday, needed or not.
Bottom line: If you want to tip, do it, if not, don't try to "justify your actions" of being a cheapo! Admit you are cheap and call it a day!
Here is a great article to help put it in perspective:
http://money.msn.com/saving-money-ti...7-5a2f79590dc6
#60
Join Date: Oct 2001
Programs: LTP, PP
Posts: 8,698
Here is a great article to help put it in perspective:
http://money.msn.com/saving-money-ti...7-5a2f79590dc6
http://money.msn.com/saving-money-ti...7-5a2f79590dc6
I think this says it all! But lets face it, we know when it comes to cleaning, there are different levels of thoroughness and doing a conscious job. The best are probably not driven by money, like most of our moms!