The Consolididated "Tipping for Take Out or Delivery?" thread
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Admittedly I never saw an itemized receipt, only the credit card slip with the tip line. The only way to order online is through one of the food delivery platforms, and the prices appear higher compared to the subtotal on my order from last night for the same items. I just found it odd that they had the signs out and visible at the pickup tables if the dine in and bar were both closed.
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(On the flip side, if the Fed does conclude that credit cards aren't significantly more expensive than cash/debit for merchants, it'd effectively ban surcharging at the national level with hopefully something that would survive a court challenge. Additionally, regardless of what the Fed finds, these rules could eliminate a lot of the remaining resistance to stuff like contactless payment, meaning that it could finally end up getting turned on at e.g. Walmart and Home Depot.)
As for the restaurant gratuity thing, that's a completely separate issue related to the general culture of the restaurant industry and how it's run. Though mandating customer facing hardware at places that want to surcharge could very well increase pay at the table prevalence too, another plus.
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I used to always tip for restaurant meals, both there and carryout. I know it’s polarizing.
now we rarely go to restaurants and with pandemic and/or bad Sf air, I tip more percent because it’s brutal. And I rarely get any form of carryout food now. I cook so much and I know how much less we spend for restaurants.
that said, for people who don’t want to tip for carryout, they shouldn’t have to deal with a sign about 20% and they can choose to eat or carryout elsewhere.
but I hope that the food was still yummy.
now we rarely go to restaurants and with pandemic and/or bad Sf air, I tip more percent because it’s brutal. And I rarely get any form of carryout food now. I cook so much and I know how much less we spend for restaurants.
that said, for people who don’t want to tip for carryout, they shouldn’t have to deal with a sign about 20% and they can choose to eat or carryout elsewhere.
but I hope that the food was still yummy.
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Most of the takeout we've done since March was fully paid for in advance of pickup, I assume to facilitate contact-less curbside pickup if one is so inclined, so it hasn't really been an issue. I'm certainly not tipping in advance of receiving my order.
We've seen one restaurant advertise a 4% surcharge for COVID, regardless of whether it's takeout or dine-in. Even though it's a small amount, and it's on the menu, I find it tacky. Just raise the price. I don't see any other stores adding a surcharge, even the ones that were shut down for a couple months by the governor.
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I would never tip for takeout, unless the person I'm picking it up from does something more than just hand me a bag of food (throw in some extras or whatever).
Most of the takeout we've done since March was fully paid for in advance of pickup, I assume to facilitate contact-less curbside pickup if one is so inclined, so it hasn't really been an issue. I'm certainly not tipping in advance of receiving my order.
We've seen one restaurant advertise a 4% surcharge for COVID, regardless of whether it's takeout or dine-in. Even though it's a small amount, and it's on the menu, I find it tacky. Just raise the price. I don't see any other stores adding a surcharge, even the ones that were shut down for a couple months by the governor.
Most of the takeout we've done since March was fully paid for in advance of pickup, I assume to facilitate contact-less curbside pickup if one is so inclined, so it hasn't really been an issue. I'm certainly not tipping in advance of receiving my order.
We've seen one restaurant advertise a 4% surcharge for COVID, regardless of whether it's takeout or dine-in. Even though it's a small amount, and it's on the menu, I find it tacky. Just raise the price. I don't see any other stores adding a surcharge, even the ones that were shut down for a couple months by the governor.
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At the risk of opening a huge can of worms, considering that in-restaurant dining in general has dropped significantly in light of the pandemic, I think it's only fair to replace at least some of the tipping revenue lost by one gravitating towards takeout. Whatever percentage that ends up being is going to depend on the person and of course, should not be made mandatory via surcharges et al.
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this is why I tip for carryout and it’s a brutal system. Now that I rarely get any restaurant carryout or dining, I tip more for those times that I do. I simply know that I’m not going to willingly return to restaurants on a general basis because I’m happier to cook. I probably used to tip minimum $100/week, spread out with many meals.
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At the risk of opening a huge can of worms, considering that in-restaurant dining in general has dropped significantly in light of the pandemic, I think it's only fair to replace at least some of the tipping revenue lost by one gravitating towards takeout. Whatever percentage that ends up being is going to depend on the person and of course, should not be made mandatory via surcharges et al.
In these times, I won't discourage charity in any form. Just my choice not to tip when no service is provided.
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We got carryout last Friday, and I noticed on the bill that they discounted the food by the same amount as the tip. Tipped 20% and had 20% knocked off the bill.
That actually made it cheaper, as it lowered the taxable amount of the bill by 20%.
Win-win!
That actually made it cheaper, as it lowered the taxable amount of the bill by 20%.
Win-win!
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Well, except for the restaurant that lost 20%. But if they can afford it, I think it's a novel, and fantastic, way to pay servers while keeping taxes down.
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Did an online order to fetch something and highest tip option was 20%. I would have given more if that option was available.
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stop it. Pay people properly and tip for good service for which tipping was properly intended!
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The tip culture in America annoys me where everyone has their hand out looking for a few bucks. I used a service to get my stuff from the room to my car in Vegas - with all the hand offs, it cost me 20 bucks and that was nearly 15 years ago. I dread to think what it would be like now.
stop it. Pay people properly and tip for good service for which tipping was properly intended!
stop it. Pay people properly and tip for good service for which tipping was properly intended!


