got ejected from my exit aisle seat(777) because arm has a quarter-size bruise
#106
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Because it is a rare thing to happen. And I have no doubt that any airline has some bad apples. Let's say, for argument sake, that United has twice as many bad apples as Delta. In my million-ish miles on United I have not been dragged off a plane or booted out of my reserved seat by an FA. I have run into "less than enthusiastic about their job" FAs on occasions (not just on UA, though). How much better would I have done on Delta? And how much of a downside to me would have been a less convenient route network based on my travel needs?
Note: I am not defending the behavior of the FA in question; see my earlier posts.
Note: I am not defending the behavior of the FA in question; see my earlier posts.
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Because it is a rare thing to happen. And I have no doubt that any airline has some bad apples. Let's say, for argument sake, that United has twice as many bad apples as Delta. In my million-ish miles on United I have not been dragged off a plane or booted out of my reserved seat by an FA. I have run into "less than enthusiastic about their job" FAs on occasions (not just on UA, though). How much better would I have done on Delta? And how much of a downside to me would have been a less convenient route network based on my travel needs?
Note: I am not defending the behavior of the FA in question; see my earlier posts.
Note: I am not defending the behavior of the FA in question; see my earlier posts.
Flying 200,000 miles on VX and now AS starting in 2013, as a Gold, I have had one notable CS issue (my AS upgrade disappeared, and I got booted back to an aisle seat in Y-) which no one could explain, but which everyone was very apologetic about. The GA then told the FAs and they plied me with free drinks and JoCoCo chocolates.
Flying about 300,000 miles on UA/CO since 2012, as a GS, then 1K, and now MM gold, I can not count on my fingers and toes the number of customer service fails/face plants I have had.
I have no relevant experience on AA, but I don't think there is a 2:1 ratio, its more like about 15:1 IMHE.
#108
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It was clear that she was a non-rev going on vacation. The woman's husband or boyfriend was in the seat next to her.
How many people think that the FA used some BS excuse to kick me out of my seat just so that her friend and boyfriend/husband who were non-rev employees can sit together?
How many people think that the FA used some BS excuse to kick me out of my seat just so that her friend and boyfriend/husband who were non-rev employees can sit together?
I think it's more likely you came to the wrong conclusion than it is that an FA was trying to play favorites to a non-rev.
#109
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by the way, if anybody wants to examine my bruise, they can come to the UC at EWR right now... I'll be here for the next 5 and half hours. I'm wearing a long sleeve light grey shirt with white collars so nobody will notice my bruise for this evening's UA flight to Europe. (yes, I got another emergency exit door aisle seat again) I'll be easy to spot.. the AC in the UC is not working right now and I'm the only person wearing long sleeves. (if not, look for the old geezer playing on a big ... red Acer gaming laptop. Yes, it's 86 degres inside the UC!!!!!
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If what you're saying is true, write in and complain. Keep the filler out of it. Stick only to what's important. But since your story is so strange, rambles, and doesn't follow the tracks, I find it very hard to believe in its entirety.
#111
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Okay....Because your original post said she was talking to another FA--not the one who asked you to move. And you also said you watched this conversation, not overheard the conversation such to clearly hear what they were talking about. Why not say that right away?
If what you're saying is true, write in and complain. Keep the filler out of it. Stick only to what's important. But since your story is so strange, rambles, and doesn't follow the tracks, I find it very hard to believe in its entirety.
If what you're saying is true, write in and complain. Keep the filler out of it. Stick only to what's important. But since your story is so strange, rambles, and doesn't follow the tracks, I find it very hard to believe in its entirety.
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Flying 300,000 miles on DL starting in 2013, part crediting to my AS account, and part as Gold/PLT, I have had one bad apple (during borderline IRROPs on oversold flight, agent off loaded my paid F ticket w/o telling me, call me up to the gate, and tried to stick me into Y on replacement flights, claiming my P did not allow her to give me an F seat) and luckily a good GA stepped in and fixed the issue ( putting me on replacement flights in F on both legs, and called over to the gate to let them know I was coming).
Flying 200,000 miles on VX and now AS starting in 2013, as a Gold, I have had one notable CS issue (my AS upgrade disappeared, and I got booted back to an aisle seat in Y-) which no one could explain, but which everyone was very apologetic about. The GA then told the FAs and they plied me with free drinks and JoCoCo chocolates.
Flying about 300,000 miles on UA/CO since 2012, as a GS, then 1K, and now MM gold, I can not count on my fingers and toes the number of customer service fails/face plants I have had.
I have no relevant experience on AA, but I don't think there is a 2:1 ratio, its more like about 15:1 IMHE.
Flying 200,000 miles on VX and now AS starting in 2013, as a Gold, I have had one notable CS issue (my AS upgrade disappeared, and I got booted back to an aisle seat in Y-) which no one could explain, but which everyone was very apologetic about. The GA then told the FAs and they plied me with free drinks and JoCoCo chocolates.
Flying about 300,000 miles on UA/CO since 2012, as a GS, then 1K, and now MM gold, I can not count on my fingers and toes the number of customer service fails/face plants I have had.
I have no relevant experience on AA, but I don't think there is a 2:1 ratio, its more like about 15:1 IMHE.
I am definitely not claiming that 2:1 is the right ratio; my point merely was that experiences like the OPs are in my personal opinion and based on my personal observations are so rare that I don't expect to fare significantly and measurably better on Delta. But I would have had to deal with a much worse experience based on their network and my routes.
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I don't think there's really a reason for me to write a complaint to UA. What would be the benefit for me if my complaint cause the FA to be disciplined or worse, lose her job? It's not like she threatened me personally or dragged me out of my seat physically. I believe in karma and maybe she'll get what she deserves some other day. I don't wish to be the cause of her losing her job. What if she has three little kids to feed at home or something? I think ranting about it here is as far as I'll go.
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Well, what can I say... our experiences with UA are clearly different. Perhaps because of pure luck? Or expectations? (I was never GS, flew a lot of coach, almost always on my own dime). Or because we flew different routes with different legacy crews (based at SFO, most of my travel was with PMUA, but I personally didn't see any real measurable difference when I flew with a PMCO crew).
I am definitely not claiming that 2:1 is the right ratio; my point merely was that experiences like the OPs are in my personal opinion and based on my personal observations are so rare that I don't expect to fare significantly and measurably better on Delta. But I would have had to deal with a much worse experience based on their network and my routes.
I am definitely not claiming that 2:1 is the right ratio; my point merely was that experiences like the OPs are in my personal opinion and based on my personal observations are so rare that I don't expect to fare significantly and measurably better on Delta. But I would have had to deal with a much worse experience based on their network and my routes.
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This is way easier than everyone makes it out to be.
On ##/##, I was seated in seat ##. The FA asked me if I would switch seats, and I declined. The FA later said that because I had a small bruise on my arm (picture attached), I was not qualified to sit in the exit row, and demanded I relocate to middle regular economy seat ##, and moved the non-rev passenger from seat ## into my seat, next to his/her boyfriend/spouse.
As a long-time UA elite flyer who picked this seat well in advance of my flight, I am beyond mortified at the treatment your FA subjected me to. I am not seeking compensation, but hope that you may act to prevent this person from treating your other loyal paying customers so poorly.
Hopefully, UA looks at the seat record, notices there was a pass rider in the seat that you ended up in, and fires the FA and the pass rider for stealing E+ seats from the airline.
Because that's how we all get better service. If she has three little kids and really needs the job, then she should act like it.
When someone does something egregious (and this was egregious), speak up. Otherwise, you lose your "rant on the internet" privileges.
If you're not willing to subject the FA and (more importantly) the pass rider to a complaint, don't subject the rest of us to your rant.
On ##/##, I was seated in seat ##. The FA asked me if I would switch seats, and I declined. The FA later said that because I had a small bruise on my arm (picture attached), I was not qualified to sit in the exit row, and demanded I relocate to middle regular economy seat ##, and moved the non-rev passenger from seat ## into my seat, next to his/her boyfriend/spouse.
As a long-time UA elite flyer who picked this seat well in advance of my flight, I am beyond mortified at the treatment your FA subjected me to. I am not seeking compensation, but hope that you may act to prevent this person from treating your other loyal paying customers so poorly.
Hopefully, UA looks at the seat record, notices there was a pass rider in the seat that you ended up in, and fires the FA and the pass rider for stealing E+ seats from the airline.
I don't think there's really a reason for me to write a complaint to UA. What would be the benefit for me if my complaint cause the FA to be disciplined or worse, lose her job? It's not like she threatened me personally or dragged me out of my seat physically. I believe in karma and maybe she'll get what she deserves some other day. I don't wish to be the cause of her losing her job. What if she has three little kids to feed at home or something? I think ranting about it here is as far as I'll go.
Because that's how we all get better service. If she has three little kids and really needs the job, then she should act like it.
When someone does something egregious (and this was egregious), speak up. Otherwise, you lose your "rant on the internet" privileges.
If you're not willing to subject the FA and (more importantly) the pass rider to a complaint, don't subject the rest of us to your rant.
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Agreed. I have seen very bad non-rev related behavior on United (that was disruptive to paying passengers). When I reported it I got one of those canned "we're sorry if you were disappointed" response. Now when I see it, I don't even bother reporting it because it's a waste of my time. Until they start taking these complaints seriously, this type of behavior will continue. Do most crew engage in this behavior on most flights? No. But many crew do engage in this kind of behavior at least sometimes, and if you fly enough you will encounter it. It's not unique to United-- Delta, AA, etc. also have this problem, but United crews tend to have a level of audacity that is unsurpassed. They know they can get away with it.
By the way, there is one airline where I have never seen any shenanigans-- Southwest. Perhaps I have missed it but their culture seems different (I don't love everything about flying Southwest but I've never met a "disgruntled" Southwest employee).
By the way, there is one airline where I have never seen any shenanigans-- Southwest. Perhaps I have missed it but their culture seems different (I don't love everything about flying Southwest but I've never met a "disgruntled" Southwest employee).
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This is way easier than everyone makes it out to be.
On ##/##, I was seated in seat ##. The FA asked me if I would switch seats, and I declined. The FA later said that because I had a small bruise on my arm (picture attached), I was not qualified to sit in the exit row, and demanded I relocate to middle regular economy seat ##, and moved the non-rev passenger from seat ## into my seat, next to his/her boyfriend/spouse.
As a long-time UA elite flyer who picked this seat well in advance of my flight, I am beyond mortified at the treatment your FA subjected me to. I am not seeking compensation, but hope that you may act to prevent this person from treating your other loyal paying customers so poorly.
Hopefully, UA looks at the seat record, notices there was a pass rider in the seat that you ended up in, and fires the FA and the pass rider for stealing E+ seats from the airline.
Because that's how we all get better service. If she has three little kids and really needs the job, then she should act like it.
When someone does something egregious (and this was egregious), speak up. Otherwise, you lose your "rant on the internet" privileges.
If you're not willing to subject the FA and (more importantly) the pass rider to a complaint, don't subject the rest of us to your rant.
On ##/##, I was seated in seat ##. The FA asked me if I would switch seats, and I declined. The FA later said that because I had a small bruise on my arm (picture attached), I was not qualified to sit in the exit row, and demanded I relocate to middle regular economy seat ##, and moved the non-rev passenger from seat ## into my seat, next to his/her boyfriend/spouse.
As a long-time UA elite flyer who picked this seat well in advance of my flight, I am beyond mortified at the treatment your FA subjected me to. I am not seeking compensation, but hope that you may act to prevent this person from treating your other loyal paying customers so poorly.
Hopefully, UA looks at the seat record, notices there was a pass rider in the seat that you ended up in, and fires the FA and the pass rider for stealing E+ seats from the airline.
Because that's how we all get better service. If she has three little kids and really needs the job, then she should act like it.
When someone does something egregious (and this was egregious), speak up. Otherwise, you lose your "rant on the internet" privileges.
If you're not willing to subject the FA and (more importantly) the pass rider to a complaint, don't subject the rest of us to your rant.
OP, please submit the complaint. The wording suggested by raehl311 is perfect.
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Agreed. The reason this kind of thing continues unabated despite severe consequences, is precisely because so few people ever follow through on documenting and reporting the bad behavior. Allowing bad apples to continue benefits nobody.
I have PERSONALLY witnessed an GA bypassing people on the Upgrade standby list to put their Non-rev friend into a first class seat. As with the OP here, I know it was a non-rev because they were gossiping about schedules, other FAs and United management loudly in the gate area. I wish I had reported it then, because clearly people continue to get away with this stuff.
I have PERSONALLY witnessed an GA bypassing people on the Upgrade standby list to put their Non-rev friend into a first class seat. As with the OP here, I know it was a non-rev because they were gossiping about schedules, other FAs and United management loudly in the gate area. I wish I had reported it then, because clearly people continue to get away with this stuff.
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Agreed. It is doing everyone here (including United) a disfavor if the OP doesn't submit a complaint. It's not my decision on whether an incident causes a termination of an employee (I don't know the employer's rules and the history of said employee), but as a manager myself I believe the employer should be made aware of severe service problems. Otherwise there is little opportunity for them to prevent future reoccurrences.
OP, please submit the complaint. The wording suggested by raehl311 is perfect.
OP, please submit the complaint. The wording suggested by raehl311 is perfect.
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Pretty much the whole story sounds exaggerated and like it is missing some info. I have flown a lot (both as a passenger and a crewmember) and it doesn't seem realistic that a F/A would tell someone that sitting in the exit row because of a simple bruise is against the rules.
It is also way overblown on FT what airline employees will do to get a nonrev into a better seat. 99.99% of airline employees know they could get fired for manipulating the boarding / seat selection process in this way and wouldn't take the risk. I am not denying the existence of that 0.001% who are stupid enough to do it, but they are often caught and fired, especially if it was something as brazen as described in the OP, IME.
The whole scenario as described seems excessively far-fetched.
It is also way overblown on FT what airline employees will do to get a nonrev into a better seat. 99.99% of airline employees know they could get fired for manipulating the boarding / seat selection process in this way and wouldn't take the risk. I am not denying the existence of that 0.001% who are stupid enough to do it, but they are often caught and fired, especially if it was something as brazen as described in the OP, IME.
The whole scenario as described seems excessively far-fetched.
But here? I do not see it.
Unless the OP totally fabricated the story there is simply no exaggeration or alternate version that could explain it. He was yanked out of an exit row for being injured while certainly more able to handle his duties than most others who claim the seats.
I am not asserting any cause to why the FA did as she did. But I see virtually no possibility that it was a proper seating action by her.