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Old Nov 30, 2007, 10:23 am
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Originally Posted by thegeneral
Your examples are more of that variety and thus are not applicable. The OP didn't note any irony in what the person said or that the comments didn't hold merit. Just that they were not fitting.
Thanks for your opinion, Stranger.

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Old Nov 30, 2007, 9:26 pm
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thats rude.but there are people who are tactless.

i may just shrug, smile and makes an excuse. There are other things or other people which I persnally know who can ruin my trip or my day, but not with total stranger like him.


I hate persons who are insensitive, but I also hate myself for sometimes being sensitive , but now I learned, it pays to be insensitive....
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Old Nov 30, 2007, 10:51 pm
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What a clown. I can't imagine doing that to anyone, though apparently there are plenty of people who can. I don't know what kind of smart-aleck retort I'd have used, but probably not as good of one as the others posted here.
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Old Dec 1, 2007, 6:09 am
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Originally Posted by htb
But I don't think it makes sense to discuss obese people and smoking people in the same context.

HTB.
Why do you say this, exactly? Is one more or less human than the other?
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Old Dec 1, 2007, 10:31 am
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Originally Posted by sdsvtdriver
Why do you say this, exactly? Is one more or less human than the other?
Not that I can speak for htb, but IMO the difference is that members of only one of the two groups can affect my health or comfort by practicing their unhealthy behavior in my presence.
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Old Dec 1, 2007, 11:05 am
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"Well, you're ugly and I can diet.

...and your have a booger hanging out of your nose."
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Old Dec 1, 2007, 11:36 am
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I usually just tell them to STFU. It's straight, to the point and very effective.
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Old Dec 1, 2007, 1:35 pm
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Originally Posted by htb
But I don't think it makes sense to discuss obese people and smoking people in the same context.
Because secondhand smoke is more dangerous than secondhand fat? Perhaps not entirely:

Spread of Obesity Through Social Networks
Study Strengthens Link between Virus and Weight Gain

Perhaps the stranger who confronted the OP was merely afraid for his own health (she says, tongue firmly planted in cheek).
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Old Dec 1, 2007, 8:55 pm
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Originally Posted by sdsvtdriver
Why do you say this, exactly? Is one more or less human than the other?
SJC1K already answered for me. Smoking is something that affects everyone around, being fat affects primarily the person that's fat.

iff's mention of fat spreading through social networks seems to indicate the necessity of strangers to point out the obvious... Social checks inside the family network don't seem to work then.

I haven't heard about the link to viruses yet -- but it doesn't seem to be far-fetched. I just hope a cure is found (if it's true), otherwise it will be used as an excuse and lead to more weight gain.

HTB.
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Old Dec 2, 2007, 9:39 pm
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Originally Posted by Jenbel
^^^

Or something along the lines of 'I may appear unhealthy, but at least I'm not judgemental and rude. Unhealthy can be reversed more easily'

Yes, it's a play on dear old Winston's retort.
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Please refresh us on Winston Churchill's quote.
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Old Dec 3, 2007, 4:32 am
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I would have asked that person do they often go around passing judgement on strangers? If so I would hate to think how they threat those closest to them
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Old Dec 3, 2007, 3:05 pm
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Originally Posted by htb
SJC1K already answered for me. Smoking is something that affects everyone around, being fat affects primarily the person that's fat.
Unless, of course, the fat person sits next to you in coach :P
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Old Dec 3, 2007, 5:06 pm
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Originally Posted by FlyingNone
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Please refresh us on Winston Churchill's quote.
Bessie Braddock: "You are drunk Sir Winston, you are disgustingly drunk."

WC: "Yes, Mrs. Braddock, I am drunk. But you, Mrs. Braddock are ugly, and disgustingly fat. Tomorrow morning, I will be sober."

(There are minor variations in how it's quoted.)
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Old Dec 3, 2007, 8:28 pm
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Originally Posted by FlyingNone
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Please refresh us on Winston Churchill's quote.
And there's another classic.

It is said that Lady Astor, in one of many verbal jousts with Sir Winston, said "Sir, if you were my husband I should poison your tea!"

To which he is said to have replied "Madam, if you were my wife, I should drink it."
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Old Dec 4, 2007, 12:30 am
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Originally Posted by SJC1K
Do you think she didn't know the causal relation between eating ice cream and her obesity? What would a stranger's words have told her that the collapse of the chair didn't?
Something like: "Are you at least going to pay for the chair you broke?"
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