Americans fear solo travel
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Since I travel solo often, I'm often seated next to another solo traveler. True in most premium cabin configurations, as well as RJs in any cabin...and occasionally you just run into a poor bloke who get stuck in a middle seat. If a gripping fear of traveling alone was a "thing", you think at least some of these people would have a story about how they overcame their fear. Or are still dealing with it but got sent on a business trip with no choice and are visibly terrified.
Yet this is never the case. People are pretty chill, sometimes like to chat a bit about where they're going or what they're doing, and the topic of navigating through an airport, through ground transportation, and to a hotel without someone else to navigate them never comes up.
I'm sure there are a few people so paralyzed by this fear that they'd never allow themselves to get forced into this position to begin with. But these are most likely people terrified of flying in general, or perhaps terrified of international destinations in general, and it's unrelated to whether someone is there to guide them through it.
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American female here. I enjoy solo travel and have done it for many years in many counties. Now that I'm a mom I don't get to do it much any more. But I really enjoy my solo dinners out when on a biz trip.
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I prefer travelling alone, as a Canadian living in the US. Many of my friends have expressed views of wanting to go places, but don't want to go alone. I just go. 2 years ago I did a trip to Russia with 5 others. Never again, what a pain. It was fun regardless but what a pain. The one girl that lost her phone, and then her passport. The other girl that barely wanted to eat local food and beelined for US chains. And so on...
Going to Morocco solo in November, going back to Japan solo in January, and couldn't be more excited. I don't even want to invite anybody else along!
Going to Morocco solo in November, going back to Japan solo in January, and couldn't be more excited. I don't even want to invite anybody else along!
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I'd suggest that there really isn't a "common Brooklyn accent" (can't comment on Buffalo).
A non-New Yorker might think such a beast exists because of what they see depicted in film and television. But there are some real differences between various neighborhoods in Brooklyn and certainly among various ethnic groups (you can even hear differences between 2nd, 3rd, etc. generation Jews and Italians in Brooklyn).
A non-New Yorker might think such a beast exists because of what they see depicted in film and television. But there are some real differences between various neighborhoods in Brooklyn and certainly among various ethnic groups (you can even hear differences between 2nd, 3rd, etc. generation Jews and Italians in Brooklyn).
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like it better when I can share that experience with someone close to me.
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I am English, I can easily tell the difference between Canadian/American, Australian/NZ, Dutch/SA, but that is not to say everyone can. I can also tell someone with English as a foreign language as to where their English came from - ie. was it English English, or American English. Some people have an "ear" for it, or have a broader experience of listening to lots of different accidents.
The variation in regional accents around the US is far larger than the gap between the US and Canada. I don't think anyone could consistently and reliably detect the difference between a US and Canadian accent. Of course some, like a Boston or deep south accent, are easy to detect, but many aren't.
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Part of the reason, I think, also includes the fact that Americans in general, when they thing abut vacation, tend to think getting away from cities, not necessarily going to them. I know that is not a direct correlation between single and group travel, but I think it might impact the situation in that when Americans do travel overseas, they tend to being doing it specifically because it is a "shared" experience, such as a honeymoon, romantic trip, or family exploration. I am curious as to people's anecdotal experience with larger group travel. Do you tend to see most Americans traveling as a couple or larger groups?
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That sounds like the most wholly unappealing way to travel, as you have to move at the pace of the slowest member of the herd.
I've done a couple group trips...both while I was a student...and the best times we had were the unplanned days when we were free to roam and do our own thing.
Of all the Americans I know who travel frequently, I don't know any who like group tours. Even my in-laws, in their 70s, prefer to arrange their own travel.
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My anecdotes: whenever I see large group travel outside the U.S., they're usually *not* American. That seems popular among Japanese and other Asian cultures.
That sounds like the most wholly unappealing way to travel, as you have to move at the pace of the slowest member of the herd.
I've done a couple group trips...both while I was a student...and the best times we had were the unplanned days when we were free to roam and do our own thing.
Of all the Americans I know who travel frequently, I don't know any who like group tours. Even my in-laws, in their 70s, prefer to arrange their own travel.
That sounds like the most wholly unappealing way to travel, as you have to move at the pace of the slowest member of the herd.
I've done a couple group trips...both while I was a student...and the best times we had were the unplanned days when we were free to roam and do our own thing.
Of all the Americans I know who travel frequently, I don't know any who like group tours. Even my in-laws, in their 70s, prefer to arrange their own travel.
My theory is that when people in a country start to travel, they first do it in large groups on organized tours. Americans did that several decades ago when international travel became affordable. Chinese people, many of whom are starting to be able to travel for the first time, are doing that now. In a few decades, once the Chinese are more comfortable with the idea of traveling internationally, they will start to plan their own travel.
Solo travel is the next step in this progression. Seasoned travelers, who have taken a few trips abroad and are comfortable taking care of themselves, will be most likely to travel solo.
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This sums it up. Part of the great joy of travel is discussing what we've seen over dinner. Without my wife there, it loses so much.