Flying Etiquette
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Flying Etiquette
Ok, to have a little fun, and because some of this stuff keeps me up at night ( ), I thought I'd throw a few situations out here and see what the "polite" thing to do is.
Most flyers know the basic etiquette rules such as boarding when your zone is called, and allowing the airplane to deplane starting with the people in front of you....ok, maybe not "most flyers" but certainly everyone here
But what about some other situations what should you do when:
1) The (very) loud snorer is near you - either on a short flight or a long one - but especially on a flight where one normally doesn't sleep (not a redeye for example)...
2) you have a window seat and you need to go to the bathroom and the person next to you is asleep and /or the 1, 2, or 3 people in front of you have their seat reclined (note, even in first class, this makes getting up pretty impossible)...
3) You order a (another) glass of wine about 40 minutes before landing. The flight attendant would have to open a fresh bottle just to accommodate you...
4) The person next to you (behind you, infront of you) is playing their music so loud you can hear it through their headphones...
Most flyers know the basic etiquette rules such as boarding when your zone is called, and allowing the airplane to deplane starting with the people in front of you....ok, maybe not "most flyers" but certainly everyone here
But what about some other situations what should you do when:
1) The (very) loud snorer is near you - either on a short flight or a long one - but especially on a flight where one normally doesn't sleep (not a redeye for example)...
2) you have a window seat and you need to go to the bathroom and the person next to you is asleep and /or the 1, 2, or 3 people in front of you have their seat reclined (note, even in first class, this makes getting up pretty impossible)...
3) You order a (another) glass of wine about 40 minutes before landing. The flight attendant would have to open a fresh bottle just to accommodate you...
4) The person next to you (behind you, infront of you) is playing their music so loud you can hear it through their headphones...
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1. Put on your headphones.
2. Wake the aisle person up and say excuse me.
3. So?
4. Put on your headphones.
2. Wake the aisle person up and say excuse me.
3. So?
4. Put on your headphones.
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The FA shouldn't make an issue out of opening a new bottle. Totally inappropriate for them to make the passenger feel guilty in that respect.
As for the music turned up too loud, I'd ask the FA if they could ask the noisy one to turn it down.
As for the music turned up too loud, I'd ask the FA if they could ask the noisy one to turn it down.
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Regarding the wine: 5 years ago, in C and F, when that would happen, I would tell the FA, "No, let's not waste a bottle like that. I'll just have a _____ ." And 9 out of 10 times the FA would thank me and later during the seat belt check hand me a bottle of my favorite wine wrapped in a napkin to take with me!
That is pretty rare now.
That is pretty rare now.
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2) you have a window seat and you need to go to the bathroom and the person next to you is asleep and /or the 1, 2, or 3 people in front of you have their seat reclined (note, even in first class, this makes getting up pretty impossible)...
3) You order a (another) glass of wine about 40 minutes before landing. The flight attendant would have to open a fresh bottle just to accommodate you...
4) The person next to you (behind you, infront of you) is playing their music so loud you can hear it through their headphones...
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Are you kidding? Since the advent of earbuds, it's become an epidemic! Those are often louder to the people around than for the person wearing them. On the subway, you can sometimes hear them about 4 or 5 rows away.
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Since this isn't UA specific, please follow this in Travel Buzz.
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Too bad we all had to suffer with it as well.
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I've honestly never noticed. I'll have to conduct a test with Mrs. PTravel -- I'd hate to think that I'm bothering other people and, if so, I'll switch back to my less comfortable but more sound-proof Bose.
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There is no reason that an FA should decline to open that last bottle. It is catered for pax use, not to be saved for a rainy day.
You can wake the snorer if you want, but he's just going to fall back asleep and snore again!
You can wake the snorer if you want, but he's just going to fall back asleep and snore again!
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1.. I do nothing because I am watching a DVD so it is not an issue.
2.. Not an issue because I can't have a window seat due to being too Sasquatch-like.....I would try not too wake my wife next to me (remember she is disabled so I have to be with her).....If I was petite but still could not get pass I would ask the pax(s) in front of me to please move the seat so I could pass.....If they were asleep same same as they nor I have a choice.
3.. I do not drink alcohol.....My wife brings her own so it would not occur.
4.. See answer 1...
2.. Not an issue because I can't have a window seat due to being too Sasquatch-like.....I would try not too wake my wife next to me (remember she is disabled so I have to be with her).....If I was petite but still could not get pass I would ask the pax(s) in front of me to please move the seat so I could pass.....If they were asleep same same as they nor I have a choice.
3.. I do not drink alcohol.....My wife brings her own so it would not occur.
4.. See answer 1...
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Here's the results of an Australian newspaper's blog about airline etiquette.
http://blogs.smh.com.au/travel/archi...lpage#comments
Am sure that there are lots of things written about here that will mean people do not have to write about them here. But when they are written here they will still be as funny.
The following entry really summed it up for me:
http://blogs.smh.com.au/travel/archi...lpage#comments
Am sure that there are lots of things written about here that will mean people do not have to write about them here. But when they are written here they will still be as funny.
The following entry really summed it up for me:
A Boeing 747 doesn't smell so nice after 24hours of flying. It smells like a mixture of B.O, Farts, Burps and every other body function you can think of. Be kind to the person opening the door to that aircraft and wear some deodorant, brush your teeth and try letting fluffy off the leash in the bathroom.