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Old Feb 18, 2011 | 10:07 am
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Originally Posted by elusive1
Servers who without asking, top off my coffee. Thus destroying my perfect balance of cream and coffee.
+1. This ticks me off to no end as well. Sometimes I will intentionally put my mug in a hard to reach place for the waitress to top off.
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Old Feb 18, 2011 | 11:39 am
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Originally Posted by elusive1
Servers who without asking, top off my coffee. Thus destroying my perfect balance of cream and coffee.
I drink my coffee black, so this doesn't bother me, although Mr. Kipper's pet peeve in regards to coffee is when they give you the individual creamers, and don't bring more when they top off your coffee.
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Having to butter my own toast, with frozen butter no less.
This annoys me. If customers are expected to butter their own toast/biscuits, and the butter is like an ice cube, bring it right after placing the customer's order, so it has a chance to warm a bit.
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Old Feb 19, 2011 | 3:06 pm
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Originally Posted by mjcewl1284
Improper pouring of the wine or wine etiquette. Not that hard, 1- present the bottle to me with label in front of me, 2- remove cork in my presence, 3- let me take a look at the cork, 4-pour, 5-let me try it and 6-I'll nod or say no. It is amazing how many times I see people screw up 2 through 4 (4 they'll either pour too little or too much).
And my continuation of this. When they're pouring your wine from a bottle the glass should just be partially full. It's different when you're buying just a glass. Then the glass ought to be slightly fuller so the restaurant doesn't look like they're being cheap. I'm not referring to oversized wine glasses but normal sized ones.
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Old Feb 20, 2011 | 1:46 am
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My pet peeve in restaurants is hearing other diners complain about things that aren't really valid complaints.
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Old Feb 20, 2011 | 10:27 am
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Originally Posted by wiredboy10003
I'm not referring to oversized wine glasses but normal sized ones.
An "oversized" glass is or should be a normal glass.
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Old Feb 20, 2011 | 10:57 am
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A modern restaurant means many things. Not all of them require expensive wine glasses. It depends on the price of the restaurant.
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Old Feb 20, 2011 | 5:54 pm
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Originally Posted by cordelli
I think a better way to handle the bill part will be for the waiter to say let me run and get your change, giving you the chance to say "no keep it" if you don't want change. They should not ask if you would like change with that.
I've worked as a waiter, and that was the way I always did it. I was trained to never ask if a customer needed change. There have been times where I've had to bring back small amounts of change because the customer didn't say anything, but counting out change is not enough of a hassle to warrant taking a potential tip reduction, as some previous posters have mentioned.


As for my pet peeve, it would have to be sharing fees. I don't mind them when the kitchen will split the plate (splitting the protein, and giving nearly-full size servings of the sides), but I can't stand it when they charge a sharing fee when they just bring out the food and an extra plate.

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Old Feb 20, 2011 | 6:16 pm
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Wow, a fee for an extra plate

Fortunately I've never run into such a thing.
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Old Feb 20, 2011 | 8:40 pm
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When you order a second bottle of wine for the table (same brand/year) and the waiter pours into the same glass that you used for the first bottle. Is it too much to provide a fresh glass and not mix wines?
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Old Feb 20, 2011 | 9:01 pm
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Originally Posted by phillygold
When you order a second bottle of wine for the table (same brand/year) and the waiter pours into the same glass that you used for the first bottle. Is it too much to provide a fresh glass and not mix wines?
If you're sticking with the same varietal, it's standard to use the same glass. If you want a new glass, ask for one. If you're ordering a second bottle that is identical to the first, why would you need another glass?
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Old Feb 20, 2011 | 9:37 pm
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Originally Posted by gfunkdave
If you're sticking with the same varietal, it's standard to use the same glass. If you want a new glass, ask for one. If you're ordering a second bottle that is identical to the first, why would you need another glass?
Because there can be slight variations from bottle to bottle. In order to properly taste a wine, there should be no residue from a previous glass.
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Old Feb 20, 2011 | 9:50 pm
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Originally Posted by phillygold
Because there can be slight variations from bottle to bottle. In order to properly taste a wine, there should be no residue from a previous glass.
I guess we'll have to agree to disagree. If the wine isn't exceptionally old, variations between bottles are usually nonexistent.

If the wine in question is, say, a 1971 Romanee Conti...then yes, I'd probably want a clean glass on ordering a second bottle...and I'd probably also want a winning lottery ticket to pay for it.
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Old Feb 20, 2011 | 10:45 pm
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Old Feb 21, 2011 | 9:30 am
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Originally Posted by gfunkdave
I guess we'll have to agree to disagree. If the wine isn't exceptionally old, variations between bottles are usually nonexistent.

If the wine in question is, say, a 1971 Romanee Conti...then yes, I'd probably want a clean glass on ordering a second bottle...and I'd probably also want a winning lottery ticket to pay for it.
I'll agree with you, the variations are usually nonexistent. I have however on several occassions been able to taste a slight variation with some wines.

Regarding the '71 Romanee Conti....I'd gladly bring clean glasses to your uncorking!!!

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Old Feb 21, 2011 | 1:25 pm
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