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Old Jun 13, 2007 | 8:34 am
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If you're from an asian culture, I saw that sharing food is natural. Actually, they put all their side-dishes in the middle and pick from it... It's quite amusing and admirable, actually.
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Old Jun 13, 2007 | 9:25 am
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Originally Posted by mikex1337
If you're from an asian culture, I saw that sharing food is natural. Actually, they put all their side-dishes in the middle and pick from it... It's quite amusing and admirable, actually.
This is also how Spaniards eat - as do most other cultures from around the Mediterranean (think mezze). Didn't realise we were providing amusement in eating this way... ah well, some folks are easily entertained
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Old Jun 13, 2007 | 9:49 am
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At most restaurants, I dont food share, but when I am visiting home, we always go out to eat at Benihana, a family favorite, and there we have an elaborate routine that is basically a Chinese Fire Drill of food swapping...organized chaos that we have got down to a science...
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Old Jun 13, 2007 | 10:26 am
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I'm Jewish. Sharing food is not a choice, it's a law.

(Perhaps among Italians too?)
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Old Jun 16, 2007 | 10:30 pm
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Originally Posted by LapLap
This is also how Spaniards eat - as do most other cultures from around the Mediterranean (think mezze). Didn't realise we were providing amusement in eating this way... ah well, some folks are easily entertained
If I'm out eating tapas, or mezza, or family-style Chinese/Italian/your-fave-here etc., that's fine. It's supposed to be communal, therefore sharing in those contexts isn't an interesting discussion.

What I thought we were talking about was situations where ordering individual entrees is the norm, and whether sharing is acceptable. No?
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Old Jun 16, 2007 | 10:42 pm
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I've been told to share my food.. especially when the food on the
other plates looks better than mine
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Old Jun 17, 2007 | 12:25 am
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I love to share, and when at a restaurant where the menu has a number of enticing dishes I will push for sharing before we even order so that (assuming everyone agrees, which they usually do) we all get something different.

I belong to a neighborhood dining club where 12 of us dine at a nice restaurant once per month and basically take a bite, pass the plate. It is fun!
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Old Jun 17, 2007 | 2:01 am
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When I'm dining with Mrs. V407r, sharing is not a question. I HAVE to share. If she wants me to try something, shes cramming a fork or chopsticks in my face. If she wants something of mine she's taking it. It's a little annoying sometimes but what can I do????

As far as sharing with friends, I don't have a problem as long as they ask and hopefully offer something in return. I've been on flights with fellow travelers who have offered me a portion of their meal, if it was something they didn't care for. I'm a hearty eater so any extras are appreciated.
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Old Jun 17, 2007 | 2:02 am
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Originally Posted by mikex1337
If you're from an asian culture, I saw that sharing food is natural. Actually, they put all their side-dishes in the middle and pick from it... It's quite amusing and admirable, actually.

Yes, I've eaten with Filipinos, Koreans etc. They just put it in the middle and everyone helps themselves. It really fosters a sense of family and well, sharing...
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Old Jun 18, 2007 | 1:22 pm
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Originally Posted by essxjay
If I'm out eating tapas, or mezza, or family-style Chinese/Italian/your-fave-here etc., that's fine. It's supposed to be communal, therefore sharing in those contexts isn't an interesting discussion.

What I thought we were talking about was situations where ordering individual entrees is the norm, and whether sharing is acceptable. No?
Quite!^
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Old Jun 19, 2007 | 11:06 pm
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Another cuisine that I love to share is Indian/subcontinental food and the serving size is often small enough that it is virtually like ordering a selection of tapas.

Of course, this works in my favour when my co-diner(s) do not like a particular dish.

I'd happily put whatever I ordered into the centre of the table and share with others...unless it is a steak, which I would want cooked as rare as possible (non-negotiable!) - not a popular or practical shared food choice!
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Old Jun 19, 2007 | 11:23 pm
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Also with the filipino's their favorite way to eat is with their hands with sticky rice and they like to feed each other, most dont do it when a westerner is around they use forks and spoons but if you happen to marry one and are accepted into the family...there is no such hesitancy. I must say it takes a little getting used to but pretty soon it becomes pretty natural..just have to remember which country Im in when I eat
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Old Jun 20, 2007 | 12:05 am
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Originally Posted by jwrhn
Also with the filipino's their favorite way to eat is with their hands with sticky rice and they like to feed each other...
Presumably just between spouses, or parents feeding kids?
(Having used soap and warm/hot water to wash hands beforehand!)
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Old Jun 20, 2007 | 12:21 am
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Originally Posted by BiziBB
Presumably just between spouses, or parents feeding kids?
(Having used soap and warm/hot water to wash hands beforehand!)


Actually no... no.... and ... no....I've been in groups of 15 or more unrelated individuals, it tends to gross the westerners out

But they are all scrouplously clean in their personal hygine like almost all filipinos
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Old Jun 20, 2007 | 12:38 am
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Originally Posted by jwrhn
Actually no... no.... and ... no....I've been in groups of 15 or more unrelated individuals, it tends to gross the westerners out

But they are all scrouplously clean in their personal hygine like almost all filipinos
I'll keep my eyes open to this... have never noticed it before but I've never been to a filipino restaurant (or wedding)

I'm glad to hear the latter.
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