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Old Feb 24, 2018 | 9:23 am
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Originally Posted by HawaiiO
Not weird at all.
Originally Posted by T2A
Giving sealed commercially produced snacks/candy to the crew isn't weird, it's being nice.
Eh?

It's worse than weird, it's creepy, I know crew that think so too.
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Old Feb 24, 2018 | 10:37 am
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Sorry, but I'm in the camp that says it's just weird.

I never gave the bus driver anything when I used to ride the bus.

When United is going thru a bad PR event, or when I know the cabin staff are doing an awesome job, I sometimes remark to the service director that "United is the best IMHO and I won't fly anyone else and that I just wanted you to know that first hand".............they really appreciate that.
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Old Feb 25, 2018 | 2:17 am
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I wouldn't eat anything a random stranger gave me.
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Old Feb 25, 2018 | 3:26 pm
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Originally Posted by ft101
It's worse than weird, it's creepy, I know crew that think so too.
I'm a male who usually flies alone. In the current cultural moment I would never give a gift out of nowhere to a woman in a professional / service setting whom I did not know. Too easy to misinterpret my intentions or expectations.
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Old Feb 26, 2018 | 12:28 am
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Originally Posted by ft101
Eh?

It's worse than weird, it's creepy, I know crew that think so too.
To each their own, but most the people I know who do this are crew or their family members.
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Old Mar 3, 2018 | 9:50 am
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I do something a little different. My Aunt was the first female journalist for the Los Angeles times. In her effects after her passing I found a document from 1945 for the requirements to become an American Airlines "Stewardess" as part of the job application process. I make copies of the original document and give them to Flight Attendants when flying as a tribute to my Aunt. The enjoyment from current FA's in reading the document is so rewarding and it is a great way to honor my Aunt. The FA's are amazed at the restrictions and requirements in 1945 and admit that they wouldn't take a FA job today with the restrictions from 1945.
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Old Mar 4, 2018 | 6:23 pm
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Originally Posted by BearX220
I'm a male who usually flies alone. In the current cultural moment I would never give a gift out of nowhere to a woman in a professional / service setting whom I did not know. Too easy to misinterpret my intentions or expectations.
Especially these days when a mere accusation is enough to completely derail your life.
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Old Mar 4, 2018 | 6:28 pm
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It's a little weird.
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Old Mar 5, 2018 | 2:56 am
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Originally Posted by T2A
Giving sealed commercially produced snacks/candy to the crew isn't weird, it's being nice. Don't do it with expectations of an upgrade or anything though.

I've never once gotten a bad reaction. A family member who works at an airline got me started on doing it.
A commercially sealed snack can still be tampered with. My QF captain friend said he does not have the authority to upgrade so giving a few candies to a FA probably won't garner an upgrade either.

If they are not impressed do you think the FA's will say so. They'll just express their delight then throw it away when you are not watching.
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Old Mar 6, 2018 | 11:44 pm
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Originally Posted by Annalisa12
A commercially sealed snack can still be tampered with. My QF captain friend said he does not have the authority to upgrade so giving a few candies to a FA probably won't garner an upgrade either.

If they are not impressed do you think the FA's will say so. They'll just express their delight then throw it away when you are not watching.
Depends on the airline if the crew has the authority to move passengers, however I said don't expect an upgrade or special treatment. The point isn't to impress someone, it's just to be nice. If they don't want a box of chocolates, starbucks giftcards or whatever and toss it that's totally fine.
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Old Mar 7, 2018 | 4:48 am
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I'd have thought it was being sufficiently nice not to make trouble and say thank you when they bring you things. If you want to do something really nice for them, isn't it more effective - if your airline has them - to fill out those forms where you commend them for exceptionally good service and send them in?

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