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Often1 Jul 21, 2011 1:20 pm


Originally Posted by kwtaper (Post 16762764)
BWI to PHX yesterday 4 or 5 children in First. Ugh. And yes, my spouse and I were in coach.

Not sure I understand. You bought Y tix and are upset that somebody else bought F tix and their kids sat in the class of service which they purchased?

Silver Fox Jul 21, 2011 1:48 pm


Originally Posted by Often1 (Post 16771484)
Not sure I understand. You bought Y tix and are upset that somebody else bought F tix and their kids sat in the class of service which they purchased?

You understand perfectly :D

Yuengling Jul 21, 2011 2:00 pm


Originally Posted by pinworm (Post 16768232)
I personally feel that children should not be allowed to fly at all except in documented emergencies, and then only in the last rows of the plane where smokers used to sit.

If you have a kid, get used to the idea that you should not be in bars, pubs, restraunts (aside from untermensch ones like Shoney's and McDonalds) and aircraft for at least 14 years.

Perhaps airlines could convert some portion of the baggage space for kid storage.

Trapezeus Jul 21, 2011 2:08 pm

To the OP, please note you are never allowed to be frustrated in the FT forums. From subtle lines of sarcasm to just outright scolding, the good members of this forum will put you in your place.

as for me, i think having a couple kids take 1st class seats kind of sucks and i can imagine it was frustrating for you to have to bypass the opportunity to get it for yourself. i'm sure you're over it and were just sharing the story for the sake of the moment you were in. i liked the post.

MiamiAirport Formerly NY George Jul 21, 2011 2:11 pm


Originally Posted by _ABB_ (Post 16770736)
What's the big deal? When i flew with my parents and grandparents as a kid they always put us in first. We were dressed in jacket and tie (tie only with grandparents) and were always well behaved - there were consequences for not being well behaved.

The only time I caught a look/grief was from JFK to LHR then onto NBO (Nairobi) in the 'old first class' on a 747 - someone made a comment when I ordered 3 steaks and 2 cheese platters (I was 14 and I ate it all).

Seeing kids up front does not bother me at all. If it bothers you, you will not enjoy flying as they are up front often.

Maybe we came from a different era in time. My parents understood the concept of "adult places" as my mother would say. When we were being taken to an "adult place" (such as F class or an airline lounge) we were nicely dressed and understood how we would behave. Unfortunately, today people see having a child as a fashion statement and are not prepared to deal with a totally dependent human being for the next 21 years. Nor are they willing to give up their lifesytle and expect others to put up with their children.

Analise Jul 21, 2011 2:20 pm


Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge (Post 16771848)
Maybe we came from a different era in time. My parents understood the concept of "adult places" as my mother would say. When we were being taken to an "adult place" (such as F class or an airline lounge) we were nicely dressed and understood how we would behave.

When we were kids, adult places as you call them weren't reserved for sitting in F class. Traveling by plane was a treat and we were nicely dressed when we sat in coach. If one of us misbehaved, we were told that next time, that child would be left at home with grandma. Talk about a simple way to make sure your kids are well-behaved. We wanted to travel so we knew we had to be on our best behavior. We knew our parents meant it. These were not threats to be left behind; they were promises.


Unfortunately, today people see having a child as a fashion statement and are not prepared to deal with a totally dependent human being for the next 21 years. Nor are they willing to give up their lifesytle and expect others to put up with their children.
On my most recent trip to Germany this past week, the kids on board were fine.

TWA884 Jul 21, 2011 2:25 pm


Originally Posted by Analise (Post 16768737)
Then you weren't bothered by them. What's your problem?

Must be jealousy, pure and simple.

mikeef Jul 21, 2011 2:26 pm

QUOTE=kwtaper;16762764]BWI to PHX yesterday 4 or 5 children in First. Ugh. And yes, my spouse and I were in coach.[/QUOTE]

You should book one of the many flights that come without kids. They are on private jets, and when you pay for them, you get to choose exactly who is on them.


Originally Posted by ShrinkRay (Post 16766253)
I remember getting dirty looks from a couple as I walked into a restaurant holding a sleeping baby (who stayed asleep the whole time). I think some people just wish the whole world was their private child-free zone.

I'm constantly amazed by the number of people who get so agitated at the sight of the child and the thought that there is even a possibility that the critter will be disruptive. Seriously, people need to get over it.


Originally Posted by CX HK (Post 16767642)
But if you had booked a first class ticket, looked forward to it for a long time, stepped onto the plane and saw 4-5 kids there, tell me with a straight face your heart wouldn't sink as you cringe and moan!! :P

Nope, wouldn't bother me. In fact, had a couple of Intl F flights over the past few weeks with lots of kids (On CX, no less!). Some of the kids even made noise! Those headphones came in awfully handy.


Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge (Post 16771848)
Maybe we came from a different era in time. My parents understood the concept of "adult places" as my mother would say. When we were being taken to an "adult place" (such as F class or an airline lounge) we were nicely dressed and understood how we would behave. Unfortunately, today people see having a child as a fashion statement and are not prepared to deal with a totally dependent human being for the next 21 years. Nor are they willing to give up their lifesytle and expect others to put up with their children.

Seriously, get off your high horse. First class and airline lounges are not exclusively "adult places." If they were, the airlines would have rules indicating as such. There was no indication in this thread that the children misbehaved. And the way you stereotype parents today is particularly disgraceful. How you dressed on an airline when you were a child is not relevant today and, for that matter, dress is no indication of how a person will behave.

I'll go back to my first statement: if you don't want kids on your plane, fly private.

Mike

TrojanHorse Jul 21, 2011 4:57 pm


Originally Posted by Trapezeus (Post 16771824)
To the OP, please note you are never allowed to be frustrated in the FT forums. From subtle lines of sarcasm to just outright scolding, the good members of this forum will put you in your place.

as for me, i think having a couple kids take 1st class seats kind of sucks and i can imagine it was frustrating for you to have to bypass the opportunity to get it for yourself. i'm sure you're over it and were just sharing the story for the sake of the moment you were in. i liked the post.

frustrated yes but when you are in the cabin you purchased a ticket for, you have no business caring who rides in the other classes and less business whining about it

Chatterbocks Jul 21, 2011 5:02 pm

oh dear...we have just gone through pages and pages of similar discussion on Australian Frequent Flyer...seems like this is a universal issue!

Ancien Maestro Jul 21, 2011 10:15 pm


Originally Posted by TWA884 (Post 16771949)
Must be jealousy, pure and simple.

I was just thinking that OP is jealous..

and the type of jealousy thinking that they should be upgraded first before children..

No mention of misbehavior.. just the presence of children..

SomeGuy Jul 21, 2011 10:35 pm

I don't like to be around children. That's half the reason I don't teach anymore.

I don't like to be around idiotic adults. That's the other half of the reason.


*I would suggest the OP try this restaurant about 15 miles east of Pittsburgh.

Leave your toddlers at home the next time you head to McDain's Restaurant and Golf Center in Monroeville.

"Beginning July 16, 2011 McDain's Restaurant will no longer admit children under 6 years of age," wrote the restaurant in an email to patrons. "We feel that McDain's is not a place for young children. Their volume can't be controlled and many, many times they have disturbed other customers."

McDain's atmosphere is intentionally adult, said owner Mike Vuick. The restaurant, which includes a bar, is connected to a driving range and has never offered a children's menu.

Read more at http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/11193/1159804-56.stm

Ancien Maestro Jul 21, 2011 10:40 pm


Originally Posted by SomeGuy (Post 16774280)
I don't like to be around children. That's half the reason I don't teach anymore.

I don't like to be around idiotic adults. That's the other half of the reason.


*I would suggest the OP try this restaurant about 15 miles east of Pittsburgh.

Leave your toddlers at home the next time you head to McDain's Restaurant and Golf Center in Monroeville.

"Beginning July 16, 2011 McDain's Restaurant will no longer admit children under 6 years of age," wrote the restaurant in an email to patrons. "We feel that McDain's is not a place for young children. Their volume can't be controlled and many, many times they have disturbed other customers."

McDain's atmosphere is intentionally adult, said owner Mike Vuick. The restaurant, which includes a bar, is connected to a driving range and has never offered a children's menu.

Read more at http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/11193/1159804-56.stm

Why doesn't this restaurant just turn entirely into a lounge allowing only drinking age adults in.. I don't think its' going to entirely solve the problem of children making noise as kids ages 6 to 18 are going to be in the restaurant..

SomeGuy Jul 21, 2011 10:49 pm


Originally Posted by Ancien Maestro (Post 16774291)
Why doesn't this restaurant just turn entirely into a lounge allowing only drinking age adults in.. I don't think its' going to entirely solve the problem of children making noise as kids ages 6 to 18 are going to be in the restaurant..

Unlike Rupert Murdoch, I don't make the news, I only report it.

MiamiAirport Formerly NY George Jul 22, 2011 6:47 am


Originally Posted by mikeef (Post 16771954)
QUOTE=kwtaper;16762764]BWI to PHX yesterday 4 or 5 children in First. Ugh. And yes, my spouse and I were in coach.

You should book one of the many flights that come without kids. They are on private jets, and when you pay for them, you get to choose exactly who is on them.



I'm constantly amazed by the number of people who get so agitated at the sight of the child and the thought that there is even a possibility that the critter will be disruptive. Seriously, people need to get over it.



Nope, wouldn't bother me. In fact, had a couple of Intl F flights over the past few weeks with lots of kids (On CX, no less!). Some of the kids even made noise! Those headphones came in awfully handy.



Seriously, get off your high horse. First class and airline lounges are not exclusively "adult places." If they were, the airlines would have rules indicating as such. There was no indication in this thread that the children misbehaved. And the way you stereotype parents today is particularly disgraceful. How you dressed on an airline when you were a child is not relevant today and, for that matter, dress is no indication of how a person will behave.

I'll go back to my first statement: if you don't want kids on your plane, fly private.

Mike[/QUOTE]

No, adult places are places that are designed primarily for adults. Like Disney is designed primarily for children. Sadly and yes, the number of children acting inappropriately in public seem to outweight the ones that don't. And I came from a family of two working professionals so the Mom needs to work excuse does not fly. I have had countless number of parents tell me this also.

Maybe its because you are one of those people that believe your children should go anywhere and behave in any manner and it should also be accepted by everyone around you.


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