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RSSrsvp Dec 9, 2011 11:58 am


Originally Posted by Jenbel (Post 17596703)
Or it will become the hang out ground for the minority who want the forum to be run in a different way, but where the majority don't want that to happen so they'll just spend their time quarterbacking in the thread to no effect, getting increasingly more and more bitter. It's a bit like how TB becomes the hang out place for those bitter about moderation?

You appear to live in a perfect world, where all people are reasonable. That, sadly, is not my experience. Some people just can't and won't accept boundaries - will they koko? ;)

koko, jenbel is being realistic in her assessment. We have to deal with taking care of the needs of the vast majority of FT's membership and not the tiny minority who are always complaining (pardon my bluntness). Remember that the key word here is realistic!

Jenbel Dec 9, 2011 12:01 pm


Originally Posted by kokonutz (Post 17596728)
I personally think you are wrong about this.

I think that many (most?) posters are under the (mistaken, btw, according to the current TOS) impression that ANY public discussion of moderation is strictly forbidden. I personally think some mods mistakenly believe this too, btw.

By creating a specific thread for collaborative feedback and discussion of a forum's day-to-day management you will get a robust group dynamic that simply cannot exist via one-to-one PMs. You will also get better participation as posters come to realize that their input is not only allowed, but can make a difference to their FT experience on a daily basis.

Either that or, as I say, the thread will fall away and/or be filled with compliments.

Win-win.

Well, I guess in a situation where it's your beliefs against my experience, my experience won't carry as much weight as your beliefs.

Par for the course on this thread.

kokonutz Dec 9, 2011 12:05 pm


Originally Posted by Jenbel (Post 17596703)
Or it will become the hang out ground for the minority who want the forum to be run in a different way, but where the majority don't want that to happen so they'll just spend their time quarterbacking in the thread to no effect, getting increasingly more and more bitter. It's a bit like how TB becomes the hang out place for those bitter about moderation?

So now we come to it. It's not that the posters don't trust the mods so much as the mods don't trust the posters. I....seeee. :p

Please re-read the proposed TOS amendment. It makes perfectly clear that abusive and/or uncivil posts will be deleted and that discussion of individual posters' suspension or ban are not allowed.

Further, I think you would be surprised...when people are allowed to say how they think and feel, even if it is not the majority opinion, they feel better about the final decisions taken. It's all about having a say, even if your say is not the final say, and it leads to far greater user satisfaction.


You appear to live in a perfect world, where all people are reasonable. That, sadly, is not my experience. Some people just can't and won't accept boundaries - will they koko? ;)
I live in a world where when I see something that can be done better to improve a place I love, I push hard to make it happen.

Especially when it makes good sense, will make FT more competitive by being more responsive to posters and will improve the overall FT experience.

If you mean to imply that I am a trouble-maker because I don't think that the status quo is perfect, then I wear that as a badge of honor.

Turning your point around at you, you appear to live in a world where you think FT is perfect. Where you know and do what is best for the forums you moderate. Maybe you do. But...here's the thing....maybe not. Why not find out?

If we change this TOS and the threads turn into a nightmare of non-constructive gripping then the TOS is easily changed again based on the lessons learnt.

But based on the experiences in the forums where this has been done so far, I doubt it will come to that.

kokonutz Dec 9, 2011 12:08 pm


Originally Posted by RSSrsvp (Post 17596762)
koko, jenbel is being realistic in her assessment. We have to deal with taking care of the needs of the vast majority of FT's membership and not the tiny minority who are always complaining (pardon my bluntness). Remember that the key word here is realistic!

And yet that is not what has happened in the DL forum moderation thread. @:-)

kipper Dec 9, 2011 12:12 pm


Originally Posted by RSSrsvp (Post 17596599)
You didn't answer my question, do you feel it is appropriate to simply post away on a public board instead of first trying to resolve the issue privately with the moderator?



For the record I am opposed to changing the TOS.

In some cases, yes. In cases where a poster feels a moderator is simply taking an opposing viewpoint or deleting posts because that poster has previously disagreed with a moderator, then yes. I can completely understand why a poster would refrain from trying to resolve the issue privately with the moderator and would opt to post something in public, in part because that way, everyone can see what a poster said to a moderator, and if they choose, what the moderator says to the poster, and everyone can see how both parties act.

Jenbel Dec 9, 2011 12:19 pm


Originally Posted by kokonutz (Post 17596807)
So now we come to it. It's not that the posters don't trust the mods so much as the mods don't trust the posters. I....seeee. :p

All I'm doing is sharing with you my experience as a moderator.

You can chose to mischaracterise that, but it does exactly underline why earlier in the thread I chose not to do that, and I'm now wondering why I even bothered.

The issue is that your mind is already made up. You won't listen to our genuine concerns because they will not outweigh your belief that this will be good:

Further, I think you would be surprised...when people are allowed to say how they think and feel, even if it is not the majority opinion, they feel better about the final decisions taken. It's all about having a say, even if your say is not the final say, and it leads to far greater user satisfaction.
That's only your opinion. Please feel free to cite some evidence to support that viewpoint. I've seen the very opposite happen, where the users needs cannot be met, and they get increasingly frustrated instead.

But, as I say, your mind is made up. I'm disappointed that I tried to engage, it's pointless - and of course, all the usual mischaracterisations and trying to put the worst spin possible onto my words will now happen, as I predicted up thread :(

kokonutz Dec 9, 2011 12:31 pm


Originally Posted by Jenbel (Post 17596912)
All I'm doing is sharing with you my experience as a moderator.

You can chose to mischaracterise that, but it does exactly underline why earlier in the thread I chose not to do that, and I'm now wondering why I even bothered.

The issue is that your mind is already made up. You won't listen to our genuine concerns because they will not outweigh your belief that this will be good:


That's only your opinion. Please feel free to cite some evidence to support that viewpoint. I've seen the very opposite happen, where the users needs cannot be met, and they get increasingly frustrated instead.

But, as I say, your mind is made up. I'm disappointed that I tried to engage, it's pointless - and of course, all the usual mischaracterisations and trying to put the worst spin possible onto my words will now happen, as I predicted up thread :(

lol, oh, Jenbel, let's not be so hangdog, shall we!?

You are so afraid of a backlash to your opinion that you seem reticent to share that opinion. That's no way to be! If you have examples and facts to bring to the discussion, bring them. I swear I don't bite!

But if you are just going to say "I'm a moderator, so I KNOW this is a bad idea so you just have to believe me," well, no. Make your case!

And this is not directed at you, necessarily, but look, I get it that the notion of having these threads is going to make some folks nervous. No one wants to deal with criticisms...often even when it is constructive.

If I were a moderator, I would view this proposal as a wonderful opportunity to engage with the posters in my forum, not as a burden or nuisance. But then I am not someone who has spent years as a moderator doing things a certain way.

I never expected this proposal to be very popular with moderators. It opens them to some amounts of accountability and might make them change 'the way it has always been done' in their day-to-day management of forums. But if we want to make FT more responsive to what the posters want, that's what it will take.

For moderators who are doing a good job of managing the way the posters want, though, or for moderators like RSSrsvp whose forums already have this mechanism in place, it will mean nothing, other than validating that you are doing things right.

MikeMpls Dec 9, 2011 12:37 pm


Originally Posted by RichMSN (Post 17596642)
Number of suspensions overturned is not exactly the metric I'd use to show how well someone is performing as a mod.


The appeals process has a reputation for being extremely non-responsive, to the point of being pretty much a joke.

essxjay Dec 9, 2011 12:38 pm


Originally Posted by DeaconFlyer (Post 17596284)
I hope these threads (if they are created) would not be used to ask about specific deletions/suspensions. I do agree those situations are better handled in private. I'm thinking they would be more about larger, more general issues.

I'll bet the farm that no matter how clearly stated up front the intended purpose and scope of such a thread, it will slide into one about specific actions. Resulting in, of course, moderators moderating threads about moderation!


I don't think people are disputing that you gave advanced warning of your decision and actions. I think they are upset with the lack of warning that the process was occurring, before those decisions were made.
Acceptance of the TOS is a condition of membership. How anyone can be ignorant of the warning-suspension process when it's clearly outlined in the TOS is perhaps the better question to delve into.

Furthermore, when we post on thread warnings, that's notification that the process is occurring. When we issue formal warnings via PM, that's notification that the process is occurring. So when we reach the point of a 7-day, 30-day or permanent suspension, plenty of prior notification has been served that the process is occurring. What the heck else are we supposed to do about notifications, DC, dress 'em up with frosting and candy buttons and deliver it via owl post? *LOL*

Being absurd here is part of my point, actually because at what point does it become absurd to keep advancing an agenda of moderator accountability if members fail to be follow the rules they originally agreed to?

RichMSN Dec 9, 2011 12:42 pm


Originally Posted by MikeMpls (Post 17597037)
The appeals process has a reputation for being extremely non-responsive, to the point of being pretty much a joke.

I've not had experience personally with the process, but I've had a few PMs sent to me describing exactly what you say here.

(Looking at your signature: I've avoided the TS/S forum since the split and since it's impossible to post my true feelings about the TSA and it's employees there without risking an imposed holiday.)

RSSrsvp Dec 9, 2011 12:47 pm


Originally Posted by RSSrsvp (Post 17596599)
You didn't answer my question, do you feel it is appropriate to simply post away on a public board instead of first trying to resolve the issue privately with the moderator?


Originally Posted by kipper (Post 17596863)
In some cases, yes. In cases where a poster feels a moderator is simply taking an opposing viewpoint or deleting posts because that poster has previously disagreed with a moderator, then yes. I can completely understand why a poster would refrain from trying to resolve the issue privately with the moderator and would opt to post something in public, in part because that way, everyone can see what a poster said to a moderator, and if they choose, what the moderator says to the poster, and everyone can see how both parties act.

So hypothetically speaking if you had a post deleted on an existing board on FT that did not have a mod discussion thread which would you do:
1) contact the moderator privately
2) start your own thread voicing your disagreement with the moderator's decision

RSSrsvp Dec 9, 2011 12:49 pm


Originally Posted by kokonutz (Post 17596831)
And yet that is not what has happened in the DL forum moderation thread. @:-)

Please elaborate on this statement as it is ambiguous at best.

DeaconFlyer Dec 9, 2011 12:51 pm


Originally Posted by essxjay (Post 17597048)
Acceptance of the TOS is a condition of membership. How anyone can be ignorant of the warning-suspension process when it's clearly outlined in the TOS is perhaps the better question to delve into.

Furthermore, when we post on thread warnings, that's notification that the process is occurring. When we issue formal warnings via PM, that's notification that the process is occurring. So when we reach the point of a 7-day, 30-day or permanent suspension, plenty of prior notification has been served that the process is occurring. What the heck else are we supposed to do about notifications, DC, dress 'em up with frosting and candy buttons and deliver it via owl post? *LOL*

Being absurd here is part of my point, actually because at what point does it become absurd to keep advancing an agenda of moderator accountability if members fail to be follow the rules they originally agreed to?

Wow. Did you just read the word "warning" and then go off on that rant?

The warning/suspension system was not was I was talking about at all.

essxjay Dec 9, 2011 12:55 pm


Originally Posted by kokonutz (Post 17596580)
What is important to me is that posters in every forum have a consistent opportunity to have collaborative input into how the forum is managed on a day-to-day basis.

We already have this.

SanDiego1K Dec 9, 2011 12:58 pm


Originally Posted by RichMSN (Post 17597079)
I've not had experience personally with the process, but I've had a few PMs sent to me describing exactly what you say here.

Appeals come to me (if the member follows the instructions given in the FT Guidelines, also given them in the suspension note). I am unaware of one single person who has appealed in the past 11 months who has yet to receive a response. Certainly there are those who take colorful issue with the response and might not consider it satisfactory - but that's a different matter.


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