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Originally Posted by kokonutz
(Post 17590875)
It's about a lack of consistency combined with a lack of transparency leading to a feeling that poster input on the day-to-day management of FT is unwelcome in all but the most private of formats (individual PM).
Suppose for a minute the TOS requires posters to "Post your inquiry in a relevant thread. If no such thread exists, start a new thread." Most on FT view this as "requiring" mega-threads. Any new thread on subject X is merged into a single thread. This keeps the forums tidy with information is in a single, easy-to-find thead. While we're "supposing" here, I'll add that the search function has been improved, making it simple to search a mega-thread and quickly find information you need. But posters in one forum hate mega threads, as demonstrated by posts in the forum's "Discuss how mods can help improve the forum" thread. They would rather see 100 threads on the same topic started by different members, containing the same responses. This is viewed as "friendly" or "more personal" as each member receives individual responses. Should all forums be required to merge into mega-threads? |
Originally Posted by RSSrsvp
(Post 17596103)
I'm sorry but until the TOS is changed I cannot agree to what you are saying so IMHO it is a moot point.
Incidentally are you also saying that a member should or should not make an attempt by PM to discuss an issue with a moderator or that they should simply be posting their objections to a mod's action on one of these proposed threads without first making an attempt to discuss it in private beforehand? I'm not saying not to send a PM, but if you feel your suspension or whatever was very out of line, or you want to let everyone know what you did, so they can learn from your mistakes, and the TOS has been revised to allow for this, why not post it out there for everyone?
Originally Posted by RSSrsvp
(Post 17596238)
You are totally correct in your statement. However until it is changed what you are proposing to do will not be allowed.
By soliciting input from a wide range of people who are in those groups likely to be affected by a change like changing this portion of the TOS, the end result is likely to be something that most can embrace and not feel that it was done without some notice or input from stakeholders. |
Originally Posted by kipper
My question is to see if moderators would be open to it, if the TOS could/would be changed.
Sadly, we'd then get people who are pretty negative to mods automatically assuming that the mods are incorrect. We've already seen how the words of moderators are interpreted in this thread by some people to the worst possible meaning. I don't think it would be good for either members or mods to do this. FT is not about disputes about who did what and who is lying. It's about travel, points and miles. |
Originally Posted by Jenbel
(Post 17596541)
I personally wouldn't. I've seen too many members presenting what they have done as though they have been wronged - even to the point of bare-facedly lying about what they have done - when they think they can influence the court of public opinion. Many people just cannot accept that their behaviour has been at odds with what we expect on FT.
Sadly, we'd then get people who are pretty negative to mods automatically assuming that the mods are incorrect. We've already seen how the words of moderators are interpreted in this thread by some people to the worst possible meaning. I don't think it would be good for either members or mods to do this. FT is not about disputes about who did what and who is lying. It's about travel, points and miles. |
Originally Posted by scoow
(Post 17596285)
Which (to you) is more important? Consistency or responsiveness to a forum's posters?
So maybe forum A's posters love the mega-threading and don't mind how disjointed they become. Maybe forum B's posters despise the mega-threading and would prefer that every thread stand even if information is sometimes repeated....maybe the forum is slow enough that this does not bug. Maybe forum C's posters work with the mods to come up with a system where mega threads are timed, such that a common issue exists in a mega-thread for six months then a new mega-thread on that issue is started for the next six months. Maybe forum D's posters and mods collaboratively develop something neither you nor I can conceive of alone right here right now. The beauty of this approach is that it consistently and uniformly lets each forum's posters work directly with each forum's moderators to develop a unique management style that works best for that forum's posters as determined by a collaborative process between the mods and the posters rather than by fiat by the moderators. |
Hmmm. And many of us manage to do that without TB mandated threads :confused:
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Originally Posted by kipper
(Post 17596499)
My question is to see if moderators would be open to it, if the TOS could/would be changed.
I'm not saying not to send a PM, but if you feel your suspension or whatever was very out of line, or you want to let everyone know what you did, so they can learn from your mistakes, and the TOS has been revised to allow for this, why not post it out there for everyone?
Originally Posted by kipper
(Post 17596499)
What is your opinion of changing the TOS?
By soliciting input from a wide range of people who are in those groups likely to be affected by a change like changing this portion of the TOS, the end result is likely to be something that most can embrace and not feel that it was done without some notice or input from stakeholders. |
Originally Posted by RichMSN
(Post 17596571)
When everything is done in secrecy, it's easy for people (on both sides) to distort the truth. Allowing some sunlight into the process would be best for both general members and moderators over the long haul.
But hey, don't let my direct experience interfere with your perception. I can count on the fingers of one hand the people who have come back and acknowledged they were over the top. Most folks don't respond, while a number will argue until they are blue in the face that somehow, I was wrong. I can also count on the fingers of one hand the number of decisions I've had over-turned. |
Originally Posted by Jenbel
(Post 17596597)
Hmmm. And many of us manage to do that without TB mandated threads :confused:
How do the moderators know this is how the majority of the forum wants these things handled? |
Originally Posted by Jenbel
(Post 17596601)
Or just result in interminable wrangling from those who can never, ever accept that their warnings/suspensions were warranted.
But hey, don't let my direct experience interfere with your perception. I can count on the fingers of one hand the people who have come back and acknowledged they were over the top. Most folks don't respond, while a number will argue until they are blue in the face that somehow, I was wrong. I can also count on the fingers of one hand the number of decisions I've had over-turned. |
Originally Posted by Jenbel
(Post 17596597)
Hmmm. And many of us manage to do that without TB mandated threads :confused:
I consider you a very good, conscientious and fair moderator. I believe you try very hard to give the posters in the forums you moderate the sort of management they want. But unless a fully safe and collaborative system is put in place, you can never know for sure that the posters are getting the management they want. Look at it this way: if you are correct and this system is implemented it will result in one of two things: Either the thread will quickly fall from the front page of the forums you moderate never to be seen again or it will be filled with compliments and kudos on the way the forum is managed because it is done exactly the way the posters want. Again, there is no down-side potential to this idea. And lots of up-side potential. |
Originally Posted by RichMSN
(Post 17596642)
Number of suspensions overturned is not exactly the metric I'd use to show how well someone is performing as a mod.
Besides, you make complaints about lack of accountability, and then you tell me I should never have a decision over-turned? Seriously? You want accountability, but you expect us to be perfect? :confused: |
Originally Posted by DeaconFlyer
(Post 17596637)
Were posters consulted in these instances, or was it a unilateral decision by the moderators?
How do the moderators know this is how the majority of the forum wants these things handled? |
Originally Posted by kokonutz
(Post 17596655)
How can you possibly know that for sure?
I consider you a very good, conscientious and fair moderator. I believe you try very hard to give the posters in the forums you moderate the sort of management they want. But unless a fully safe and collaborative system is put in place, you can never know for sure that the posters are getting the management they want. Look at it this way: if you are correct and this system is implemented it will result in one of two things: Either the thread will quickly fall from the front page of the forums you moderate never to be seen again or it will be filled with compliments and kudos on the way the forum is managed because it is done exactly the way the posters want. Again, there is no down-side potential to this idea. And lots of up-side potential. You appear to live in a perfect world, where all people are reasonable. That, sadly, is not my experience. Some people just can't and won't accept boundaries - will they koko? ;) |
Originally Posted by Jenbel
(Post 17596696)
Because they'd hear from the members if the members were unhappy about how the forum was being run.
I think that many (most?) posters are under the (mistaken, btw, according to the current TOS) impression that ANY public discussion of moderation is strictly forbidden. I personally think some mods mistakenly believe this too, btw. By creating a specific thread for collaborative feedback and discussion of a forum's day-to-day management you will get a robust group dynamic that simply cannot exist via one-to-one PMs. You will also get better participation as posters come to realize that their input is not only allowed, but can make a difference to their FT experience on a daily basis. Either that or, as I say, the thread will fall away and/or be filled with compliments. Win-win. |
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