What if the TSO performing the enhanced patdown is gay?
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Is it still not rape if male person TSA hides his identity while using his penis to vaginally penetrates a woman who has only consented to sexual contact with some non-TSA person(s) XYZ yet is vaginally penetrated by TSA?
Informed consent helps avoid being convicted for rape, so apparently granting informed consent makes a difference.
Informed consent helps avoid being convicted for rape, so apparently granting informed consent makes a difference.
Last edited by tkey75; Nov 9, 2010 at 3:15 pm Reason: finally made sense of your question.
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Originally Posted by tkey75
Show me a story where a TSO took off his badge, convinced a woman to consent to sex with him, whipped his penis and vaginally penetrated a female, than put his badge back on and said "Ha! I'm actually a TSO!!". Then I'll have a base on which with to provide an answer.
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When it comes to concern about sexual assault and other forms of sexual objectification beyond the confines of correctional facilities in the US, isn't there a pretty good reason why women in the US fear men more than they fear women when it comes to unwanted touching? I am guessing it has something to do with the far higher probability of a woman being sexually attacked or otherwise sexually objectified by a man than the other permutations involving same-sex or opposite-sex contact.
No, just not responding to your first post in this thread, which I just read. We're not talking about vaginal penetration here, just an airport frisking - but yet there's still no report of any vaginal penetration at any checkpoint. Maybe it comes to that to get a sexual misconduct (okay, call it rape at that point), but as for now, it's government sanctioned, whether a man or woman performs the enhanced patdown. So again, why does it matter what gender performs it?
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Originally Posted by tkey75
Therefore, it's no difference who does the security check - mon/woman, woman/man.
Originally Posted by tkey75
No, just not responding to your first post in this thread, which I just read. We're not talking about vaginal penetration here, just an airport frisking - but yet there's still no report of any vaginal penetration at any checkpoint. Maybe it comes to that to get a sexual misconduct (okay, call it rape at that point), but as for now, it's government sanctioned, whether a man or woman performs the enhanced patdown. So again, why does it matter what gender performs it?
Just because something is government sanctioned doesn't really move me one way or another as government engages in all sorts of disgusting filth.
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When it comes to concern about sexual assault and other forms of sexual objectification beyond the confines of correctional facilities in the US, isn't there a pretty good reason why women in the US fear men more than they fear women when it comes to unwanted touching? I am guessing it has something to do with the far higher probability of a woman being sexually attacked or otherwise sexually objectified by a man than the other permutations involving same-sex or opposite-sex contact.
While male PAX may not mind (or even prefer) a female TSO (regardless of her sexual orientation) to pat them down, I doubt that most female PAX would prefer a male TSO. I doubt it very much.
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I just dont accept and will not be touched by a stranger. Period.
Agreed. I was just asking the poster why she feels it indecent for a male TSO to screen a female pax and was provided with a 3rd grade answer of 'because it's a guy'.
Show me a story where a TSO took off his badge, convinced a woman to consent to sex with him, whipped his penis and vaginally penetrated a female, than put his badge back on and said "Ha! I'm actually a TSO!!". Then I'll have a base on which with to provide an answer.
Show me a story where a TSO took off his badge, convinced a woman to consent to sex with him, whipped his penis and vaginally penetrated a female, than put his badge back on and said "Ha! I'm actually a TSO!!". Then I'll have a base on which with to provide an answer.
To me it is very indecent to be touched by a TSO male and all over other males. Unless it is ok with me.
It is also indecent to me to be touched by an TSO female.
But less since it is a female.
If I say it ok it is not.
But since I will NEVER say it is ok. It is indecent.
But both makes me to be insulted and sick to even think about it.
Each to their own.
If you dont care if it male/female TSO who does the pat down on you.
Fine that is you and up to you.
But me and a lot of other people do care.
So you have actually no rite to question me. I dont question you and your desicion.
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So if a male pax must be screened by a male TSO and a female pax must be screened by a female TSO.....
Can a male pax ask the sexual orientation of a male TSO and vv for a female TSO?
What if the male TSO is gay and the male pax has an objection to that?
Not being a homophobe as I am far from it but think about it. In this situation, it might be the TSO getting wood and not the pax.
Can a male pax ask the sexual orientation of a male TSO and vv for a female TSO?
What if the male TSO is gay and the male pax has an objection to that?
Not being a homophobe as I am far from it but think about it. In this situation, it might be the TSO getting wood and not the pax.
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No concern that the desensitization arising from frequent sexual contact may result in seeking heightened sexual adventurism? It shouldn't be a surprise that the intimate, "frisky" behavior results in TSA employees becoming more interested in same-sex adventurism.
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Amazed that this is a thread.
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The TSA is getting the criticism it deserves here and increasingly elsewhere.
Welcome to more and more TSA "news": "TSA making sex workers obsolete."
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*In other words, how long is the hand going to be exploring the crotch before a pax says, "OK, you can let go now"
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The reason I started this thread was after reading this thread but kinda in reverse. Personally, I think it's a valid issue and a valid question for a person to ask to another if that other person is about to grab their crotch. How do we, the traveling public know what is and what is not a sufficient search of the crotch* with the open palm as the TSA and many Line TSO's simply state that the answer is SSI and thus we (again, the traveling public) are left in the dark without an answer.
*In other words, how long is the hand going to be exploring the crotch before a pax says, "OK, you can let go now"
*In other words, how long is the hand going to be exploring the crotch before a pax says, "OK, you can let go now"
Cause now we dont now if it is a agy person taking their chances.
A child molester doing their thing.
Or a rapist doing their thing.
How do we The Passenger now that the TSO is just doing their job.
Or doing something else.
Seems like TSO cant get Away with a lot.
Not that I am against guys. My best male friend is gay.
I just dont want to be used and sexually harrassed.
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Oh for the love of cryin' out loud! There are very few advantages to being a short female but I have to admit, as the aforementioned short female, I have often felt fortunate not to "get" this type of phobia. I've been patted down/searched by women who were pretty obviously "of an alternative lifestyle" and you know what? Didn't hurt a bit. Who cares. Is it really about the person searching you or is it about your ego? Get over yourself. The lesbian/gay person searching you is NOT interested in you, any more than your lesbian/gay med tech is interested in you. It's at work. They're wishing they were somewhere else with someone younger and better looking.
A male pax is screened by a male/a female pax is screened by a female to humor the people w/ serious hang-ups...but in the real world, a female doctor can have a male patient, a male doctor can have a female patient, and eventually it will have to filter down to where we treat everybody on the job with respect until such time as they prove they don't deserve the job/respect.
You talk about the person "grabbing your crotch." OK, but if you're a woman, every single year you go to the doctor and have a person grab your crotch. Many of us have had OB/gyns who are of the opposite sex for DECADES...and somehow we have not cracked up from being touched by a black person/male person/etcetera person. When I hire someone to do a job (screen my airline, check out my cooties) I'm not interested in his or her sex life. I just want him or her to do the job, OK?
A male pax is screened by a male/a female pax is screened by a female to humor the people w/ serious hang-ups...but in the real world, a female doctor can have a male patient, a male doctor can have a female patient, and eventually it will have to filter down to where we treat everybody on the job with respect until such time as they prove they don't deserve the job/respect.
You talk about the person "grabbing your crotch." OK, but if you're a woman, every single year you go to the doctor and have a person grab your crotch. Many of us have had OB/gyns who are of the opposite sex for DECADES...and somehow we have not cracked up from being touched by a black person/male person/etcetera person. When I hire someone to do a job (screen my airline, check out my cooties) I'm not interested in his or her sex life. I just want him or her to do the job, OK?
So if a male pax must be screened by a male TSO and a female pax must be screened by a female TSO.....
Can a male pax ask the sexual orientation of a male TSO and vv for a female TSO?
What if the male TSO is gay and the male pax has an objection to that?
Not being a homophobe as I am far from it but think about it. In this situation, it might be the TSO getting wood and not the pax.
Can a male pax ask the sexual orientation of a male TSO and vv for a female TSO?
What if the male TSO is gay and the male pax has an objection to that?
Not being a homophobe as I am far from it but think about it. In this situation, it might be the TSO getting wood and not the pax.