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Old Dec 8, 2015 | 12:53 pm
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Sorry I never reported back... the trip ended up being delayed to just this past weekend.

Opted out from the NoS at both BOS and BUF... at Logan it took them a few minutes to locate a female TSO to do my pat down but from there it was really smooth. She moved my carry on, laptop, and boots to where I could have it in sight at all times, offered a private room (which I declined) and then explained everything she was doing as she searched me. I felt that I was treated with respect and despite needing to check my groin area my gender was never called into question. It was really not a big deal at all.

Still going to apply for GE before my next trip, precheck sounds wonderful and like it might be a huge time saver in the future.

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Old Dec 9, 2015 | 8:26 am
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Originally Posted by kmflinkle
Sorry I never reported back... the trip ended up being delayed to just this past weekend.

Opted out from the NoS at both BOS and BUF... at Logan it took them a few minutes to locate a female TSO to do my pat down but from there it was really smooth. She moved my carry on, laptop, and boots to where I could have it in sight at all times, offered a private room (which I declined) and then explained everything she was doing as she searched me. I felt that I was treated with respect and despite needing to check my groin area my gender was never called into question. It was really not a big deal at all.

Still going to apply for GE before my next trip, precheck sounds wonderful and like it might be a huge time saver in the future.
I'm glad it worked out well. Thanks for reporting back to us!

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Old Dec 24, 2015 | 12:52 am
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Originally Posted by Skatering
...Additionally, I think she declined requests I would consider reasonable, such as going back through the body scanner but with the 'male' button pushed instead, to see if the anomaly in the private parts disappears. ID documents, and any gender markers on them, should be irrelevant.
Hi. I talked with her, and she had no objections to being rescanned. She might have preferred that they scan with the "blue" button as the patdown would be in a less sensitive spot. However, that part of the story got emphasized due to the inarticulate language of the agent. Her delays all seemed to come from agents arguing with each other over what to do and waiting for superiors to arrive.
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Old Dec 29, 2015 | 9:54 pm
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I feel sorry for the female agent who got to sack tap you in your pat down. Glad you got what you wanted though.
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Old Jan 1, 2016 | 6:17 am
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Remember also, flight attendants have the ability to make your flight just miserable too. I had a really bad experience on Lufthansa I won't get into, just know it was humiliating and horrible.
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Old Jan 4, 2016 | 10:02 am
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I feel sorry for the female agent who got to sack tap you in your pat down. Glad you got what you wanted though.
Not sure who you're talking to, but whoever it is, I don't think anyone got what they wanted. I hate to have anyone have to do a "sensitive" pat down. I feel like I'M subjecting THEM to it, even though it's their requirements. And there's nothing I can do to avoid it.
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Old Jan 4, 2016 | 3:49 pm
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Originally Posted by Liz Lilly
Not sure who you're talking to, but whoever it is, I don't think anyone got what they wanted. I hate to have anyone have to do a "sensitive" pat down. I feel like I'M subjecting THEM to it, even though it's their requirements. And there's nothing I can do to avoid it.
ignore the stupid flaming... there's a few VERY queerphobic people on here...
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Old Jan 4, 2016 | 3:56 pm
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Originally Posted by AllieKat
ignore the stupid flaming... there's a few VERY queerphobic people on here...
We all come across people who dont accept others. I am 100% hetrosexual female. My "buddy" is 100 % gay male. So I get this more than peole know
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Old Jan 5, 2016 | 8:51 pm
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Originally Posted by Liz Lilly
Not sure who you're talking to, but whoever it is, I don't think anyone got what they wanted. I hate to have anyone have to do a "sensitive" pat down. I feel like I'M subjecting THEM to it, even though it's their requirements. And there's nothing I can do to avoid it.
I'm not trying to be offensive, it's an issue that I find interesting. Society will have some learning and adjustments to make.

I agree about TSA, and I'm sure it would be unpleasant for both, but it seems like if you have a penis you would get a male pat down.

It's not about being intolerant it's about being practical.

I don't think women TSA agents should have to come to work and touch penises.

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Old Jan 6, 2016 | 7:46 am
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I don't think women TSA agents should have to come to work and touch penises.
I don't think TSA agents should touch anybody's genitals.
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Old Jan 14, 2016 | 6:57 am
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Traveling while trans

It's come up a bunch before, but not had its own thread that I've seen, so here ya go.

To start it off:

http://trans-fusion.blogspot.com/201...romise-of.html
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Old Jan 14, 2016 | 7:07 am
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Originally Posted by saizai
It's come up a bunch before, but not had its own thread that I've seen, so here ya go.

To start it off:

http://trans-fusion.blogspot.com/201...romise-of.html
http://www.flyertalk.com/forum/pract...ansgender.html What about this thread?
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Old Jan 14, 2016 | 8:08 am
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Originally Posted by Randyk47
looks like I missed that. ><
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Old Jan 14, 2016 | 8:09 am
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http://trans-fusion.blogspot.com/201...romise-of.html
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Old Jan 14, 2016 | 10:00 am
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See also http://www.flyertalk.com/articles/tr...or-change.html
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