Originally Posted by sunrisegirl
(Post 18665588)
That makes two of us then! There's a world of difference between a light smack and child abuse. Plenty of us more 'mature' folk remember getting that, and it did us no harm whatsoever. Just taught us a little more respect and how to behave.
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Originally Posted by mumblemumble
(Post 18665771)
Drug the children. Hit the children. Can this debate sink any lower?
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I've always drugged my kids when flying, didn't hurt them and made everyone's life easier while flying. They haven't suffered at all. Ivy league graduates...antihistamine was great.
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I said to my 5 year old niece when she was having a particularly big tantrum, and her parents were being useless - "Oi love - there's only room for one loud attention seeking princess and I was here first"
She was so shocked she shut up instantly. The world sighs in relief that I won't ever had children. |
Originally Posted by MNManInKen
(Post 18665175)
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As I have explained above, I don't feel the world revolves around me, which is why, when I use public transport, I will quite actively seek not to impose on others. I keep myself to myself and I very much try to be considerate to others. I think it's very good if no one really notices me and I would very much like not to have to notice others because of their boorish, selfish or otherwise inconsiderate behaviour.
Originally Posted by mumblemumble
(Post 18665771)
Drug the children. Hit the children. Can this debate sink any lower?
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Originally Posted by dark_horse
(Post 18665559)
I'm amazed at the predictability of the process. 1. Dismissive comment about children 2. Indignant response in their defence 3. Over-reaction in reply 4. Go to point 3 and repeat. Then they watch intently for more replies http://i74.photobucket.com/albums/i2...ile_tongue.gif |
Originally Posted by Marsden
(Post 18669673)
The attacks you are getting are telling and not a little perverse. "You are selfish to complain when I disturb other people in a public place. I have every right to do so and you have no right to object!" And then you're the one being selfish. Nice.
Like it or not, when you travel on any form of public transport (and disregard the snobbery that surrounds first and business class travel on planes, they are still public transport) you have to share the space with other members of the public. many of them will have habits you don't like. Some will be noisy, some will be smelly, some will be rude, some will be all three. But that is the risk that one takes when one goes by public transport. Of course people should be considerate to the people around them. Like I said earlier, however, in 5 years of flying long haul overnight flights I can't remember EVER being woken up by children, crying or otherwise. I would estimate, however that I am disturbed on 30% of nightflights by inconsiderate adults. A 7 month old baby knows no better. The adults that disturb me certainly should. I think it is entirely reasonable that a parent should be allowed to take a holiday and take their children with them. Provided they make every effort to pacify their baby should the infant is upset, then they are doing their part. The solution for the noise is simple: earplugs and/or noise cancelling earphones. When I have been disturbed it is by a man in his 50s kicking the back of my UD seat, there is no way of shutting it out. It is however part and parcel of travelling on public transport no matter how annoying it is. |
there is absolutely nothing more British about a debate on how children should be seen and not heard and everyone getting a bit tense about personal space.
All we need are some scones and TMS on the wireless in the background. Magic. |
Originally Posted by dark_horse
(Post 18665559)
I'm sure it's considered bad form to quote oneself. Nevertheless, I shall, because this whole thread follows the steps I outlined last year:
Quote: Originally Posted by dark_horse Quote: Originally Posted by prof These rants about children always amaze me. I'm amazed at the predictability of the process. Dismissive comment about children Indignant response in their defence Over-reaction in reply Go to point 3 and repeat. QUOTE I know FT'ers come and go, so not all will have been through it before. Maybe that's it: it just requires a critical mass of members to have retired, and new ones joined, before it all starts up again? There's probably a mathematical ratio for it somewhere... :rolleyes: Anyway, don't let me disturb a perfectly good, predictable, tired subject. I'm sure you'll crack it this time! :) (I am running out of popcorn though. PUCCI: I'm with you; time to unsubscribe from this thread)
Originally Posted by Marsden
(Post 18669710)
You forgot "5. Protestations of shock and horror from old-timers at how a discussion in this forum could ever have sunk to such a horrifying and depraved level, followed by announcements that one is leaving this thread (or even the forum) forever!"
Then they watch intently for more replies http://i74.photobucket.com/albums/i2...ile_tongue.gif |
Originally Posted by Marsden
(Post 18669673)
It won't be for lack of effort; thanks for your contributions.
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Originally Posted by Yahillwe
(Post 18665882)
I've always drugged my kids when flying, didn't hurt them and made everyone's life easier while flying. They haven't suffered at all. Ivy league graduates...antihistamine was great.
I would point out for anyone considering this that there are always risks of dangerous side-effects to any medication, and that some children in fact have the opposite reaction to sedatives, i.e. it makes them hyperactive instead of calm. |
I'll be flying to Newark on the 14th in First with my wife and 21-month old daughter. She'll be sat in 1K with me.
She doesn't generally get upset to the extent that she would become annoying to others so I think the only people she could potentially irritate would be those that find children irritating fullstop. No drugs please we're British. |
Originally Posted by BA66
(Post 18671429)
I'll be flying to Newark on the 14th in First with my wife and 21-month old daughter. She'll be sat in 1K with me.
She doesn't generally get upset to the extent that she would become annoying to others so I think the only people she could potentially irritate would be those that find children irritating fullstop. No drugs please we're British. If it was not for you, something else would make these miserable individuals unhappy. The irony is it is those very whiners that complain on a crying baby |
Originally Posted by Yahillwe
(Post 18665573)
+1 ^ :D
They are arguing about something that has no solution. Just like who came first the chicken or the egg. |
Originally Posted by dubbin
(Post 18673395)
It's the egg. Something that was not a chicken laid an egg from which the first chicken hatched. QED
1. A key chicken protein, ovocleidin-17, which helps in the formation of the egg's hard shell, developed after the evolution of the original chicken species. It's possible before this time that there were proto-chickens with non-egg reproduction. 2. You can argue there was not an arbitrary chicken/non-chicken threshold but a gradual evolution of both chicken and egg meaning that neither can be said to exist before the other. 3. Finally there is the creationist argument that God planted chickens on the Earth like geraniums and said "Let There Be KFC". |
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