Abandoning Your Kids and Grabbing E+ seat
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Abandoning Your Kids and Grabbing E+ seat
This was definitely a first for me. I was on an early evening flight last week, IAD-LAS. A woman walks on the plane with two kids in front of her and (as I see when she turns around), a baby strapped to her back. She was dressed in some sort of African garb. As her kids continue to the back of the plane, she sees an empty window seat in front of me in E+ and grabs it with her baby.
At this point, I'm assuming the kids' father is in the back of the plane. As I'm making funny faces at her baby, the true owner of that seat shows up. This young lady says: "Oh, are you in the aisle? I'm in the window, but I'll take the aisle if you want to sit there with your baby."
Very nice of her, I think. The mother merely looks around. It seems to me like she speaks no English. The other passenger shrugs and takes the aisle.
Well, 5 minutes later, the true owner of the aisle seat shows up. The FA is notified and comes over to figure things out. She asks for the mother's BP. Again, she just looks around.
Now another FA comes over from the back of the plane with one of the kids in tow. She says: "Ma'am, is this your child? We found him wandering in the back of the plane. He was terrified. You can't just abandon your children!"
The two FAs tell her to stand up and they take her to the back of the plane with her kids. The mother is so non-chalant about the whole thing!
Anyway, it was one of the craziest things I've seen in a while.
At this point, I'm assuming the kids' father is in the back of the plane. As I'm making funny faces at her baby, the true owner of that seat shows up. This young lady says: "Oh, are you in the aisle? I'm in the window, but I'll take the aisle if you want to sit there with your baby."
Very nice of her, I think. The mother merely looks around. It seems to me like she speaks no English. The other passenger shrugs and takes the aisle.
Well, 5 minutes later, the true owner of the aisle seat shows up. The FA is notified and comes over to figure things out. She asks for the mother's BP. Again, she just looks around.
Now another FA comes over from the back of the plane with one of the kids in tow. She says: "Ma'am, is this your child? We found him wandering in the back of the plane. He was terrified. You can't just abandon your children!"
The two FAs tell her to stand up and they take her to the back of the plane with her kids. The mother is so non-chalant about the whole thing!
Anyway, it was one of the craziest things I've seen in a while.
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Interesting. I wonder if she just did not understand what to do, or if she was just trying to get the E+ seat..
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I've always wanted a parent to leave their child sitting next to me so I could do my part to increase their vocabulary during the flight...
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Maybe the lady thought it was Southwest?
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WOW! How incredibly irresponsible of her! Why would you just abandon your child to wander to the back of the plane just to get a better seat?!
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Never underestimate the power of 5 extra inches of legroom ^
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The craziest event I witnessed lately was on CO when a couple abandoned their kid in SEA security. The parents were traveling in F with a lap infant. Their three kids were in the back of Y. Two of the kids got on a little after their parents. As the GA was making sure everything was in place before the door shut the mom apparently got a text message from the third daughters explaining that she was still at security.
The plane was late departing and so after about 10 mins the GA was encouraging the parents to make a decision because clearly the kid was not insight. During this time the mom was having a nervous breakdown. In the end both parents deplaned and the two kids stayed on the plane. I could not understand how the parents were unable to keep track of three walking children!
The plane was late departing and so after about 10 mins the GA was encouraging the parents to make a decision because clearly the kid was not insight. During this time the mom was having a nervous breakdown. In the end both parents deplaned and the two kids stayed on the plane. I could not understand how the parents were unable to keep track of three walking children!
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With 3 kids I do not think that it was 5 inches of legroom that was to blame here.
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this thread is comedy gold. people get soo hyped for a few inches of legroom for just a few hours that they would abandon their kids for it.
also...
^^^^^
just... wow
at least the door was still open so she was still ok to use her cell phone =p
also...
at least the door was still open so she was still ok to use her cell phone =p
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Actually the person next to me suggested to the kids that they take their parents' seats. They asked the GA and she approved. So I guess the family got a good deal assuming the revenue F parents got rebooked in the same cabin on the next flight.
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I just hope you'd get upgraded so you didn't have to sit next to unattended children in the first place.