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IAH-OIL-TRASH Sep 26, 2023 9:54 am


Originally Posted by lksf (Post 35612994)
Started just being extra loud, threw all his cups and bottles on the floor when it's "invading" her floor space as well (she was by the window, he was the isle), invading personal space, and knocked over his glasses, to her side, twice.

OK, sounds bad. Unless something happened that filing a police report would be a consideration, I’d move on. Your mom’s next step is file a complaint against UA w/ FAA. Your mom would have to do that, not you. Is it worth that? Your decision. Do you just want more money from UA or have the situation addressed by the regulatory agency?

There’s compensation for non-working entertainment system. Non-working entertainment system is not against FAA rules. Serving a drunk passenger is. If you’re not willing to file a complaint against FAA, it just seems you’re choosing to walk away - if you can extort more money from UA. If you (and your mom) are really upset by the situation, file a complaint against UA w/ the FAA. If you don’t think that’s worthwhile, how do you expect others to think how serious the situation was? If it was not serious enough to bother filing, it is not serious enough to just move on.

tcdtcd Sep 26, 2023 9:58 am


Originally Posted by Repooc17 (Post 35614005)
Last time I encountered a drunk seatmate on UA, there was a happy ending :p

😱

RK23 Sep 26, 2023 10:05 am


Originally Posted by moondog (Post 35613957)
Drinking $2000 worth of Salon is a logical extension of, "I got this ticket for 70k miles + $5.60, and see how much value I'm extracting."

I must admit that since I would (probably) never buy $1500/bottle wine, when it's offered for "free", I order a glass or two out of curiosity.

I am drinking the whole bottle, but my personality does not make me a belligerent drunk like the person in the original post. I would just be using the restroom every 5 minutes instead while watching my movie.

AJNEDC Sep 26, 2023 10:18 am


Originally Posted by paul21 (Post 35613967)
For better or worse it’s part of flying and being on vacation. The reality, however, is people can be terrible seatmates regardless of alcohol consumption. There’s no FAR against talking loudly or spilling drinks. When you remove the alcohol from this situation that’s all we are left with, no assault or unwanted touching just loud talking and spilling drinks.

Babies also do this often and they have been known to throw food and spill drinks and bottles.

Quite à propos to liken the boorish lout to a baby. The FA should have adopted the parent role therefore and handled the "baby".
Given the effects of alcohol on the body at altitude, I am askance that some people think that it's just a part of flying and being on vacation experience.

AugustusM Sep 26, 2023 10:40 am


Originally Posted by AJNEDC (Post 35613916)
This is one aspect of flying I do not understand. Especially some trip reports where the creator of the report goes to great pains to indicate the number of glasses of champagne and wines they imbibe. I was viewing one yesterday where two glasses of champagne were consumed in the lounge and 8 glass of alcoholic beverages for a 7 hour flight on board. I don't understand why...

If you want to have your mind blown try to find the FT story about the guy who had 8 bottles (might be more) of champagne on a TPAC flight.

moondog Sep 26, 2023 10:47 am


Originally Posted by lksf (Post 35612909)
My mom was travelling in PP and had a terrible experience with an intoxicated seatmate.
The FA took way too long to handle it, and as part of it offered HER to move to economy (rather than kicking him to the back).
I sent a very angered complaint to UA but their response was quite plain with a minimal flight credit voucher.

Is it worth fighting with them over it? Or just take the credit and leave it?

Assuming the drunk guy paid for his seat and didn't explicitly violate any rules, what grounds would there be for moving him to a different seat?

And, if he had been violent, I'm pretty sure protocol would still entail keeping him in the same seat, possibly with restraints.

halls120 Sep 26, 2023 12:21 pm


Originally Posted by scj (Post 35613505)
I agree with the other posters. Realistically there were no good options given the flight was in the air. No matter where the man was moved to he would just end up disrupting others (no one wins). Only vindication would be if the airline penalized him in some way (not sure if you would know about it though).

I disagree that there was no other option. Either the purser or the Captain should have pulled the individual aside and informed him quietly but firmly that unless he stopped annoying other passengers, he would be escorted off the plane upon arrival and referred for possible legal action. Why should a passenger who is behaving appropriately be asked to move? All that does is encourage other inconsiderate idiots to behave in the same manner.

If bad behavior in the air continues to be ignored, all we're doing is laying the groundwork for more of it.

moondog Sep 26, 2023 1:07 pm


Originally Posted by halls120 (Post 35614560)
I disagree that there was no other option. Either the purser or the Captain should have pulled the individual aside and informed him quietly but firmly that unless he stopped annoying other passengers, he would be escorted off the plane upon arrival and referred for possible legal action. Why should a passenger who is behaving appropriately be asked to move? All that does is encourage other inconsiderate idiots to behave in the same manner.

If bad behavior in the air continues to be ignored, all we're doing is laying the groundwork for more of it.

Sure, they could have and maybe should have taken such action, but moving him to a different seat isn't in that playbook.

venomtrilogy Sep 26, 2023 1:14 pm


Originally Posted by paul21 (Post 35613967)
For better or worse it’s part of flying and being on vacation. The reality, however, is people can be terrible seatmates regardless of alcohol consumption. There’s no FAR against talking loudly or spilling drinks. When you remove the alcohol from this situation that’s all we are left with, no assault or unwanted touching just loud talking and spilling drinks.

Babies also do this often and they have been known to throw food and spill drinks and bottles.

But when I tell the FA that the loud person who spilled a drink also sexually assaulted me, the FA and anyone within earshot is going to believe me. That doesn't work for revenge against a baby.

LarryJ Sep 26, 2023 1:16 pm


Originally Posted by lincolnjkc (Post 35613665)
And if so the crew violated 14 CFR 121.575, if they were visibly intoxicated before takeoff they legally could not have been permitted to board,

As you note, the CFR uses the term "Appears to be intoxicated" but doesn't define that or give any guidance on how that standard should be applied.

That puts the G/As and F/As in a tough position. Some people are very obviously intoxicated, and make the decision easy, but many are not. There is no easy way to tell, just by behavior, how intoxicated a person is. How do you get the many tens-of-thousands of G/As and F/As, in the US airline industry, to consistently and accurately apply an undefined standard that essentially becomes a judgement call? I don't think you can.

I also don't have any suggestions on how to improve the regulation.

While we sit around typing about this incident, we imagine what we would have done to handle the situation and we imagine that our solution will work. Very frequently, it doesn't. The offender does not respond how we imagine they will.

bon mot Sep 26, 2023 1:29 pm


Originally Posted by halls120 (Post 35614560)
I disagree that there was no other option. Either the purser or the Captain should have pulled the individual aside and informed him quietly but firmly that unless he stopped annoying other passengers, he would be escorted off the plane upon arrival and referred for possible legal action. Why should a passenger who is behaving appropriately be asked to move? All that does is encourage other inconsiderate idiots to behave in the same manner.
If bad behavior in the air continues to be ignored, all we're doing is laying the groundwork for more of it.

Because it’s the path of least resistance. I had a somewhat similar situation earlier this year out of SEA going north on AS. In my situation, I quietly reported a clearly impaired man sitting in the middle seat next to me (from who knows what) prior to takeoff. The kerfuffle that ensued between the GA, FAs, and pilot deciding what to do ended with me being seen as the “problem” for holding up the plane. He was moved into another seat and that was that. Moving on.


The real issue began mid-flight. He was traveling on work orders with his crew, but I didn’t realize that one of his friends was sitting in the window seat in my row. That guy began to harass and threaten me for reporting his friend, even taking off his shoe and using that to intimidate me. My mistake was in reporting the issues to the FA. She looked at the guy’s shoe on the middle seat and decided to move me. No warning to the pax, no nothing except telling me she had drinks to serve. She could move me out of premium and into the tight seats. I moved to keep the peace. He sauntered off the plane without any repercussions.

lksf Sep 26, 2023 1:38 pm


Originally Posted by paul21 (Post 35613967)
For better or worse it’s part of flying and being on vacation. The reality, however, is people can be terrible seatmates regardless of alcohol consumption. There’s no FAR against talking loudly or spilling drinks. When you remove the alcohol from this situation that’s all we are left with, no assault or unwanted touching just loud talking and spilling drinks.
.

I am not sure you are allowed to spill your drinks over on other passengers. Once can be a tolerable accident, second time definitely calls for action

ezefllying Sep 26, 2023 1:39 pm


Originally Posted by IAH-OIL-TRASH (Post 35614044)
There’s compensation for non-working entertainment system. Non-working entertainment system is not against FAA rules. Serving a drunk passenger is. If you’re not willing to file a complaint against FAA, it just seems you’re choosing to walk away - if you can extort more money from UA. If you (and your mom) are really upset by the situation, file a complaint against UA w/ the FAA. If you don’t think that’s worthwhile, how do you expect others to think how serious the situation was? If it was not serious enough to bother filing, it is not serious enough to just move on.

I really disagree with this framing, which reads like it's blaming the victim. "Choosing to walk away" implies some dereliction of duty. It's not the passenger's duty to enforce compliance with federal regulation. And "extort"? Come on. Money (or comparable things of value) is usually how arm's-length parties compensate each other for harm in the Western world. It sounds (no, I wasn't there) like the flight attendant might have fallen short of FAA rules, to this passenger's modest harm. It's not "extortion" to request compensation here.

tkelvin69 Sep 26, 2023 1:39 pm


Originally Posted by Repooc17 (Post 35614005)
Last time I encountered a drunk seatmate on UA, there was a happy ending :p

you could be elected

lksf Sep 26, 2023 1:45 pm


Originally Posted by IAH-OIL-TRASH (Post 35614044)
OK, sounds bad. Unless something happened that filing a police report would be a consideration, I’d move on. Your mom’s next step is file a complaint against UA w/ FAA. Your mom would have to do that, not you. Is it worth that? Your decision. Do you just want more money from UA or have the situation addressed by the regulatory agency?

There’s compensation for non-working entertainment system. Non-working entertainment system is not against FAA rules. Serving a drunk passenger is. If you’re not willing to file a complaint against FAA, it just seems you’re choosing to walk away - if you can extort more money from UA. If you (and your mom) are really upset by the situation, file a complaint against UA w/ the FAA. If you don’t think that’s worthwhile, how do you expect others to think how serious the situation was? If it was not serious enough to bother filing, it is not serious enough to just move on.


We didn't say whether we think it's worthwhile or not. We will definitely consider filing with the FAA.

​​Expecting a considerable compensation is not about extorting UA, but more like not being too hard on them if they show they take responsibility of the mattet
So far they have Have not


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