Should X-Rated Movies Be Banned From Hotel Rooms?
#46
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Obviously none of you have ever watched regular tv after 11:00 pm in Montreal.
I once saw a guy wearing a frog mask hopping around going "rib it, rib it". Another guy showed up in a dog mask. I watched it for 20 min because I just so stunned I couldn't turn off.
I couldn't make that up if I tried.
Beat that Skofarrell
Edited to add: I caught this flipping through regular tv channels while looking for Jay Leno! Don't want to be labled like pointsgirl thought she was
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I once saw a guy wearing a frog mask hopping around going "rib it, rib it". Another guy showed up in a dog mask. I watched it for 20 min because I just so stunned I couldn't turn off.
I couldn't make that up if I tried.
Beat that Skofarrell
Edited to add: I caught this flipping through regular tv channels while looking for Jay Leno! Don't want to be labled like pointsgirl thought she was
[This message has been edited by cattle (edited 01-07-2003).]
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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Originally posted by KathyWdrf:
detrimental (?) effects of porn</font>
detrimental (?) effects of porn</font>
"In a 1985 study of 256 non-incarcerated perpetrators of sexual offenses who were undergoing treatment, 56% of rapists and 42% of women said they had been sexually abused by someone they knew as a direct result of his use of pornography."
"A 1986 Women's Day survey of 6,000 readers found that 21% of women said they had been sexually abused by someone they knew as a direct result of his use of pornography"
The victims can be the users, their wives (or husbands), and their families. If you want to see one of the end results of where a porn addiction CAN take someone, read the following interview with Ted Bundy, hours before he was excuted for the murder of 28 women:
http://www.pureintimacy.org/online1/bundy.html
NOTE: This is NOT what happens to most people, I am merely citing it as an example how destructive a porn addition can become (note Ted's comment about the other men he knew in prison). For most men, porn will merely detract from their ability to have as intimate a relationship with a single woman for their whole life.
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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Originally posted by gccgrad:
"In a 1985 study of 256 non-incarcerated perpetrators of sexual offenses who were undergoing treatment, 56% of rapists and 42% of women said they had been sexually abused by someone they knew as a direct result of his use of pornography."
"A 1986 Women's Day survey of 6,000 readers found that 21% of women said they had been sexually abused by someone they knew as a direct result of his use of pornography"</font>
"In a 1985 study of 256 non-incarcerated perpetrators of sexual offenses who were undergoing treatment, 56% of rapists and 42% of women said they had been sexually abused by someone they knew as a direct result of his use of pornography."
"A 1986 Women's Day survey of 6,000 readers found that 21% of women said they had been sexually abused by someone they knew as a direct result of his use of pornography"</font>
It reminds me of a spoof of "USA Today" put out by the Harvard Lampoon when I was an undergraduate. A colorful graphic below the fold screamed out, "Lead is heaviest element, poll shows."
"There are three kinds of lies: lies, **** lies, and statistics."
-- Mark Twain
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Gccgrad: For every study that shows that porn is harmful, there is another study that states it(porn) is not.
It is ironic that the internet has turned everything upside down and inside out. It used to be that you would really need to go out of your way to see porn. The internet has now broken down all of those walls and anybody who wants to view porn can do so in the privacy of their homes. The question I pose is if Porn is so harmful, then should we start seeing an increase in crimes motivated be watching porn?
It is ironic that the internet has turned everything upside down and inside out. It used to be that you would really need to go out of your way to see porn. The internet has now broken down all of those walls and anybody who wants to view porn can do so in the privacy of their homes. The question I pose is if Porn is so harmful, then should we start seeing an increase in crimes motivated be watching porn?
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Hmmm. Best (?) I've seen had about 90% softcore mixed in with about 10% hardcore shots. Really low quality, cheesy stuff. And no "money" shots. And no gay porn.
Hotel video systems definitely don't get my smut dollars! I'd rather start a crusade for BETTER porn in hotel rooms.
Hotel video systems definitely don't get my smut dollars! I'd rather start a crusade for BETTER porn in hotel rooms.
<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Originally posted by BigLar:
Did you grow up in your basement? Pretty much any hotel in America (well, maybe not Salt Lake City) has full-bore, let it all hang out (pun intended) porno. Tower shots, tunnel shots, it's like an anatomy lesson.
Or so I've been told.
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Did you grow up in your basement? Pretty much any hotel in America (well, maybe not Salt Lake City) has full-bore, let it all hang out (pun intended) porno. Tower shots, tunnel shots, it's like an anatomy lesson.
Or so I've been told.
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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Originally posted by cattle:
Obviously none of you have ever watched regular tv after 11:00 pm in Montreal.
I once saw a guy wearing a frog mask hopping around going "rib it, rib it". Another guy showed up in a dog mask. I watched it for 20 min because I just so stunned I couldn't turn off.
I couldn't make that up if I tried.
Beat that Skofarrell
Edited to add: I caught this flipping through regular tv channels while looking for Jay Leno! Don't want to be labled like pointsgirl thought she was
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Obviously none of you have ever watched regular tv after 11:00 pm in Montreal.
I once saw a guy wearing a frog mask hopping around going "rib it, rib it". Another guy showed up in a dog mask. I watched it for 20 min because I just so stunned I couldn't turn off.
I couldn't make that up if I tried.
Beat that Skofarrell
Edited to add: I caught this flipping through regular tv channels while looking for Jay Leno! Don't want to be labled like pointsgirl thought she was
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I've seen it all.
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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Originally posted by WHBM:
Those of us who run consulting teams, where the expenses are billed on to the client with copies of the hotel account, may well be familiar with the hassle of finding that one of the team has had one of these films (in one case one every night for a week!). Contact hotel, get fresh copy of bill without The Evidence faxed over, deduct amount from employees' expense claim, write Priv&Conf memo to employee - it takes about 2 hours. So has anyone found a way to disable such films for supposed adults ??!!
Originally posted by jfe:
If you are traveling with kids, have it disabled the time you check in the hotel.</font>
If you are traveling with kids, have it disabled the time you check in the hotel.</font>
Option #2: These are the only movies that cost over $10, or so I heard
Option #3: Make them stay at Motel 6, which I don't think they have PPV's
Option#4: Give them a laptop with a DVD player and a gift certificate to your local adult store
Just suggestions
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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Should X-Rated Movies Be Banned From Hotel Rooms?</font>
Now that would probably make what's going on up on the screen, look like something from the Family Channel!
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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Originally posted by Canarsie:
...to ban adult movies from hotel rooms...</font>
...to ban adult movies from hotel rooms...</font>
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OK, don't ask me how I know this, but...
The Westin in Chicago has some.. "interesting" films on their pay per view system. In addition.. it is full blown XXX.. so none of the softcore stuff you guys are talking about.
I love it. I thread in TraveBuzz on porn.
The Westin in Chicago has some.. "interesting" films on their pay per view system. In addition.. it is full blown XXX.. so none of the softcore stuff you guys are talking about.
I love it. I thread in TraveBuzz on porn.
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At least the topic is not "Should X-Rated Movies Be Banned From Airline Entertainment Systems?"
Hmmm....a way for airlines to quickly return to profitability???....
Hmmm....a way for airlines to quickly return to profitability???....
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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Originally posted by Tango:
For every study that shows that porn is harmful, there is another study that states it(porn) is not.</font>
For every study that shows that porn is harmful, there is another study that states it(porn) is not.</font>
"…[C]linical and experimental research … [has] focused particularly on sexually violent material, [and] the conclusions have been virtually unanimous. In both clinical and experimental settings, exposure to sexually violent materials as indicated an increase in the likelihood of aggression. More specifically, the research, … shows a causal relationship between exposure to material of this type and aggressive behavior towards women."
Note, this does NOT say that "all those who use porn ...", it merely establishes a risk (just like all those who smoke 2 packs a day do not die of lung cancer but that does not eliminate the risk...). For a great article on the clinical risks and arguments, see:
http://mentalhealthlibrary.info/libr...porneffect.htm
<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Originally posted by Tango:
The question I pose is if Porn is so harmful, then should we start seeing an increase in crimes motivated be watching porn?</font>
The question I pose is if Porn is so harmful, then should we start seeing an increase in crimes motivated be watching porn?</font>
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GCCGRAD: The key word here is violence. There have been studies that show when two groups of males are shown porn movies--one with violence and the other without, the males who viewed the violent movies are more aggressive in their actions than the one's who watched the non violent porn.
To state that porn is harmful becuase of this is way too simplistic. Without violence, the most harm that porn can cause is getting people horny--and as far as I know that is not a crime except in Utah. If you want to address the issue of violence, let's not single out just porn--we should expand this to all sorts of things like violence in all movies, video games and TV. We can expand this to gun control but then it gets way to complicated.
To state that porn is harmful becuase of this is way too simplistic. Without violence, the most harm that porn can cause is getting people horny--and as far as I know that is not a crime except in Utah. If you want to address the issue of violence, let's not single out just porn--we should expand this to all sorts of things like violence in all movies, video games and TV. We can expand this to gun control but then it gets way to complicated.
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TANGO:
Excellent point on the violence. I couldn't agree with you more fully, and I definitely feel that violence in other forms of media should not be ignored in their influences. The difficulty of the study you mentioned is that it didn't address the progressive nature of porn, merely the effect of its imediate content. Human senuality often operates on a progressive continuum, in which increased license in one section of the continuum leads to dabbling in the next level due to the law of dimishing returns (again, this same thing is seen in the progression between types of drug use). Of course, if one takes this continuum to its endpoint, one arrives at societies in which a woman showing her ankles are considered erotic. This is too extreme (as is full public license of all sensual material - to the point of beastiality and violence/mutilation/murder). The key is finding a balance allowing some license but encouraging healthy self control. Unless that self-control is encouraged, there continues to be the danger of progression (which is issue with porn as a whole). But I certainly agree that the correlation occurs when the continent has progressed to sensual violence (which was the finding of the 1986 commission).
Excellent point on the violence. I couldn't agree with you more fully, and I definitely feel that violence in other forms of media should not be ignored in their influences. The difficulty of the study you mentioned is that it didn't address the progressive nature of porn, merely the effect of its imediate content. Human senuality often operates on a progressive continuum, in which increased license in one section of the continuum leads to dabbling in the next level due to the law of dimishing returns (again, this same thing is seen in the progression between types of drug use). Of course, if one takes this continuum to its endpoint, one arrives at societies in which a woman showing her ankles are considered erotic. This is too extreme (as is full public license of all sensual material - to the point of beastiality and violence/mutilation/murder). The key is finding a balance allowing some license but encouraging healthy self control. Unless that self-control is encouraged, there continues to be the danger of progression (which is issue with porn as a whole). But I certainly agree that the correlation occurs when the continent has progressed to sensual violence (which was the finding of the 1986 commission).
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While staying at a Hampton Inn near PHX last August. The hotel was supposed to have one of those PPV systems, but my room had a plain TV with a cable. No big deal.
Until I started flipping through the channels. When I reached channels 41 - 50, I encountered the TV spots which are apparently reserved for PPV movies and internet access. On 41, I'd see a movie that one person had rented. On 42, I'd see another. On 43, I'd see someone browsing the internet.
It was interesting because at any given time in this 80-100 room hotel, 4 - 5 channels were used at any given moment. One person was browsing the internet, checking his accounts at schwab.com. Another had rented Monsters, Inc. The other 2-3 movies were always a porn movie of some type.
I called down to the desk to notify them (after all, a child just flipping through could easily stumble across this stuff). They said there were renovating their video system.
Two lessons emerged.
1) Those porn channels are popular.
2) If you disconnect that control box and just run the cable to your TV, all the extra services are in a block of TV channels.
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"I will not be pushed, filed, stamped, indexed, briefed, debriefed or numbered. My life is my own."
Until I started flipping through the channels. When I reached channels 41 - 50, I encountered the TV spots which are apparently reserved for PPV movies and internet access. On 41, I'd see a movie that one person had rented. On 42, I'd see another. On 43, I'd see someone browsing the internet.
It was interesting because at any given time in this 80-100 room hotel, 4 - 5 channels were used at any given moment. One person was browsing the internet, checking his accounts at schwab.com. Another had rented Monsters, Inc. The other 2-3 movies were always a porn movie of some type.
I called down to the desk to notify them (after all, a child just flipping through could easily stumble across this stuff). They said there were renovating their video system.
Two lessons emerged.
1) Those porn channels are popular.
2) If you disconnect that control box and just run the cable to your TV, all the extra services are in a block of TV channels.
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"I will not be pushed, filed, stamped, indexed, briefed, debriefed or numbered. My life is my own."