Socializing on the Plane
#16




Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: ELP
Programs: AAdvantage, Amex MR
Posts: 2,461
Usually I don't like to socialize on planes but sometimes you can learn a lot of things and meet some interesting people. On the way back from Dublin a few weeks back I sat next to a chatty Irish lady. She said she flies to Philadelphia a few times a year to spend time with her friend in Delaware. Saying she was going over for thanksgiving because everyone wants the Irish girl to make some sheperds pie and creamy mash. Haha although she said she is going to cut her flying down to once maybe twice a year as she was 76 and a TATL wears her down, even relatively short ones.
When I mentioned I flew to Dublin for the USA vs Ireland soccer game and that PHL wasn't my final destination, I still had to take a flight to DFW, then from there take a flight to ELP, then an hour drive home her jaw dropped and she said she would never do that for a football match. Then said that I was still young and it is great to travel when I can and enjoy it. She talked about how she used to fly even more frequently in her younger days, would get the occasional upgrade on Aer Lingus, also said that even though she hates the English they sure do know how to run a good airline. BA has always been good to her when she has flown them. She hates Ryanair though, said they charged her for a cup of water to take her medicine.
Was great and she was saying about how friendly the Irish are and Americans are always welcome. Her dad used to give weary travelers a place to stay and a meal for free when she was growing up. Kinda creeped out though when she said she used to live in Belfast for a bit and said Americans are welcome everywhere, but she said she couldn't go to a protestant area because she was Catholic and apparently there would be trouble.
The chatting, plus watching a bit of the movie and playing some video games on my phone plus a quick nap and that was the fastest 7 hour flight I have ever had.
When I mentioned I flew to Dublin for the USA vs Ireland soccer game and that PHL wasn't my final destination, I still had to take a flight to DFW, then from there take a flight to ELP, then an hour drive home her jaw dropped and she said she would never do that for a football match. Then said that I was still young and it is great to travel when I can and enjoy it. She talked about how she used to fly even more frequently in her younger days, would get the occasional upgrade on Aer Lingus, also said that even though she hates the English they sure do know how to run a good airline. BA has always been good to her when she has flown them. She hates Ryanair though, said they charged her for a cup of water to take her medicine.
Was great and she was saying about how friendly the Irish are and Americans are always welcome. Her dad used to give weary travelers a place to stay and a meal for free when she was growing up. Kinda creeped out though when she said she used to live in Belfast for a bit and said Americans are welcome everywhere, but she said she couldn't go to a protestant area because she was Catholic and apparently there would be trouble.

The chatting, plus watching a bit of the movie and playing some video games on my phone plus a quick nap and that was the fastest 7 hour flight I have ever had.
#17
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Udon Thani, Thailand
Programs: TK E,*G, A-Club G
Posts: 869
Since I had a guy telling me all of his life on a ten hour flight I fly business class and only airlines who provide seats without companion seat. I can eat, drink, sleep, watch a movie without being disturbed by any one.
#19
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 1,664
I've only chatted on one flight to Hawaii and that was for maybe a half hour, after I found out he was the brew master for Kona. I found out when I ordered a Longboard for breakfast and he was glad not to be the only one who would be doing so.
Other then that everyone that wanted to chat were either try to sell me insurance, Jesus, useless crap, old people who wanted to tell me their life stories or people that wanted a free shrink.
Other then that everyone that wanted to chat were either try to sell me insurance, Jesus, useless crap, old people who wanted to tell me their life stories or people that wanted a free shrink.
#20
Suspended
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Wesley Chapel, FL
Programs: American Airlines
Posts: 31,464
I want peace and quiet on a plane, please.
#21
Join Date: Jun 2014
Location: Over the North Atlantic
Programs: AA EXP
Posts: 494
Even if I do want to chat it's no longer convenient because a lot of new business cabins are designed to isolate the travelers from each other. Take AA's new J cabin on their 77Ws, I have to raise my voice and shift my body into an uncomfortable posture just to chat face to face with the person next to me.
#22
Suspended
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Atherton, CA
Programs: UA 1K, AA EXP; Owner, Green Bay Packers
Posts: 21,685
Weren't any of them on Tinder?
#24
Moderator: Manufactured Spending



Join Date: Jul 2011
Posts: 6,707
There's nothing wrong with socializing on a plane if both parties want to do so. If you want to socialize, try to talk to the person next to you and see if they are receptive. If they are, then great. If not, then take the hint and keep quiet.
#25




Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 2,814
Exactly. Personally, I offer a quick hello as my seat make sits, then nothing else. But there is nothing wrong with the those wanting to talk, as long as its mutual. And preferably not too loud.
#27




Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: BNA
Programs: Virtuoso, FSPP, RC STARS, Rosewood Elite, Bellini, SPG LP, Dorchester Diamond, PenClub
Posts: 357
I find it awkward to not even have a brief conversation with the person sitting next to me, especially on long flights. It just seems weird to sit in such close proximity for hours on end and not acknowledge the other person's presence.
Erin
Erin
#28


Join Date: Oct 2008
Posts: 802
I wish it were possible to separate the "socializers" from the "non-socializers" and group each type together. I recently had an awesome 3 hour delay at PBI (that I wish was longer), mostly because of who I met at the airport bar. For the airline that does this, the socializers will remember the fun times they had on their flights because of who they met.
#29
Join Date: Mar 2007
Posts: 3,784
Obviously, everyone is different, but I find nothing awkward about sitting near someone and not talking to them. I don't know them and they don't know me, so there's no obligation to interact. I have headphones in the entire time I travel, so as not to give anyone the impression that I have any interest whatsoever in interacting with them. I acknowledge my seatmate with a polite nod, nothing more.
#30
FlyerTalk Evangelist
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Formerly HPN, but then DCA and IAD for a while, and now back to HPN!
Programs: Honestly, I've been out of the travel game so long that I'm not even sure. Maybe Marriott Gold?
Posts: 10,677
Obviously, everyone is different, but I find nothing awkward about sitting near someone and not talking to them. I don't know them and they don't know me, so there's no obligation to interact. I have headphones in the entire time I travel, so as not to give anyone the impression that I have any interest whatsoever in interacting with them. I acknowledge my seatmate with a polite nod, nothing more.

