Has anyone brought gifts to flight attendants when you board?
Jun 21, 2018, 5:36 pm
#76
Join Date: Nov 2016
Posts: 80
So far, we have had at least two examples of cabin crew declining a gift (money or goods)
I think it's safe to say that these are honest reactions which reflect their viewpoint and the airlines viewpoint.
When gifts are gratefully received, I'm curious to know whether that is a genuine reaction or is the
recipient taking the path of least resistance and/or simply being tactful.
Perhaps when there are indications of gratitude from an individual or a procession of cabin crew, are they
simply playing along with the donor's expectations?
I think it's safe to say that these are honest reactions which reflect their viewpoint and the airlines viewpoint.
When gifts are gratefully received, I'm curious to know whether that is a genuine reaction or is the
recipient taking the path of least resistance and/or simply being tactful.
Perhaps when there are indications of gratitude from an individual or a procession of cabin crew, are they
simply playing along with the donor's expectations?
Jun 21, 2018, 5:42 pm
#77
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: ORD
Programs: AA, UA, GE
Posts: 5,123
So far, we have had at least two examples of cabin crew declining a gift (money or goods)
I think it's safe to say that these are honest reactions which reflect their viewpoint and the airlines viewpoint.
When gifts are gratefully received, I'm curious to know whether that is a genuine reaction or is the
recipient taking the path of least resistance and/or simply being tactful.
Perhaps when there are indications of gratitude from an individual or a procession of cabin crew, are they
simply playing along with the donor's expectations?
I think it's safe to say that these are honest reactions which reflect their viewpoint and the airlines viewpoint.
When gifts are gratefully received, I'm curious to know whether that is a genuine reaction or is the
recipient taking the path of least resistance and/or simply being tactful.
Perhaps when there are indications of gratitude from an individual or a procession of cabin crew, are they
simply playing along with the donor's expectations?
Jun 21, 2018, 6:28 pm
#78
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Join Date: May 2012
Location: Sydney Australia
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My pilot friend said they should never eat a gift.
Jun 22, 2018, 2:36 am
#79
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: K+K
Programs: *G
Posts: 4,871
so i've done the DEC 31st PM flight now 5 years in a row. brought a token snack each time (chocolate covered pecans, that sort of stuff).
Jun 22, 2018, 6:13 am
#80
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Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posts: 8,355
Plastic wrap hardly makes it "impossible" to tamper with an item. A sensible person would take your gift, say thanks and then toss it once out of your presence.
Jun 23, 2018, 12:02 pm
#82
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: ATL
Programs: Delta PM
Posts: 62
Another possibility
I’ve never brought gifts for flight attendants, but if I’ve finished a magazine or paperback, I’ll offer it to them when I’m leaving, especially fun ones like People or Entertainment Weekly. They always seem to appreciate it.
Jun 24, 2018, 2:36 am
#83
Join Date: May 2013
Posts: 6,349
So off I went to the galley where a bunch of them were gathered, relaxing or chatting. Some were having a snack of their own. I thanked them for being there and ensuring the safety for all of us. I apologized on behalf of some prima donna pxs who were rather demanding. All of them thanked me back and asked if they could do anything for me. I politely declined and stated I didn't want anything but thanks for the offer. After a while I managed to catch the two FAs who were really going extra mile to help out. Quietly thanked them for what they were doing and handed the greeting card. It was unexpected for them and you could see the surprise.