Housekeeper Gratuities
#31


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I'm sorry but to imply that housekeepers are so underpaid that it necessitates tipping (as seems to be a huge undertone here) is quite frankly a lie. Housekeepers may be underpaid, yes, but many professions are (educators, police officers, etc), but they're not paid so little that they could not make a living if tips were not involved (unless you're talking about supporting large families, of which I know middle class families who still struggle with this). A friend of mine's mom is a housekeeper here in Las Vegas and her dad is a simple mechanic, yet they still manage to get by, her having just graduated from Notre Dame (not a cheap school by any means) and the entire family having just moved to a rather nice (albeit modest) home on the SE side of town.
A more persuasive argument would be for us to know how much a housekeeper makes before and after tiips.
#32
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Business travel - I leave 0$ about 99% of the time. Sometimes there will be something that they will do which warrants a tip and this tends to happen more so with concierge lounge attendants rather than with maids.
Pleasure travel - I leave a tip...2-3$ per day.
I'm bothered ever so slightly by the whole tipping thing....Perhaps part of it is my personal experience with going from poverty and living on foodstamps and not having many luxuries in life to a half decent job and life style, that I look at it as a personal choice they make.
If they want to be successful, they can be and there's no need for me to subsidize their lack of desire for a better future. I tip usually because the person is doing something I don't have the skillset or desire to do. If they are providing a service they are employed to do (be it a Starbucks barrister to a maid) they are only doing their job.
Pleasure travel - I leave a tip...2-3$ per day.
I'm bothered ever so slightly by the whole tipping thing....Perhaps part of it is my personal experience with going from poverty and living on foodstamps and not having many luxuries in life to a half decent job and life style, that I look at it as a personal choice they make.
If they want to be successful, they can be and there's no need for me to subsidize their lack of desire for a better future. I tip usually because the person is doing something I don't have the skillset or desire to do. If they are providing a service they are employed to do (be it a Starbucks barrister to a maid) they are only doing their job.
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#34
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I understand the point that you are trying to make, but your example fails to set out a persuasive argument. We don't know what other sources of revenue the family may have such as other familial assistance, the deal/debt that they got on their home, and the sources of financial aid for college that they received. More importantly, we don't know if any of these would have been possible without tips.
A more persuasive argument would be for us to know how much a housekeeper makes before and after tiips.
A more persuasive argument would be for us to know how much a housekeeper makes before and after tiips.
#35
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Although earlier in my traveling life I did not tip, I have changed that attitude and am in the $1-2/day camp.
I greatly appreciate the daily tip idea as most of my stays are 6 nites and I do realize that this is not fair to the maid that has been there all week. I shall break a $20 at the beginning of my stays and begin to tip daily
Perry
I greatly appreciate the daily tip idea as most of my stays are 6 nites and I do realize that this is not fair to the maid that has been there all week. I shall break a $20 at the beginning of my stays and begin to tip daily
Perry
#36


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To quote yourself, "your example fails to set out a persuasive argument". Since you want to argue logic and linguistics, we is a collective term of which I would be a part of that collection. I DO know these things, as previously stated I have a personal relationship with this person, so it is in fact YOU who does not know not we. Or is the implication here that I am a liar? So go back to tipping your housekeepers and quit trying to dictate what I do and don't know about my own life.
#37
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"We" is actually an ambiguous form which cannot appropriately be used to exclude me without some qualifier which you did not provide (as in fact intent cannot be properly relayed under these circumstances). Since the FlyerTalk community is in fact one and not divided into sects, an ambiguous use of we would include everyone on the boards, which yes would include myself. An appropriate wording to further your case could have been along the lines of "those of us reading your posts" however the manner in which you initially presented it was linguistically inappropriate. I have no problem arguing linguistics. English is in fact my third language and I take great pride in my mastery of it. If you want to continue to argue semantics the go right ahead but I say we keep in the helpful nature of FlyerTalk and put it behind us 
I will even go so far as to say I'm sorry for my earlier post as I will admit I was a bit quick and brash to fly off the handle...

I will even go so far as to say I'm sorry for my earlier post as I will admit I was a bit quick and brash to fly off the handle...
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#38


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Agreed. We should let the linguistics drop. And congratulations on English being your third language. ^ I would never have guessed. I wish I had your skills in mastering foreign languages.
To bring it back on target, does anyone know how much housekeepers are paid?. My recollection ( which is often wrong ) is that in San Francisco major hotels, they were making about $11/hr at the expiration of the last contract. Not great money, especially for the Bay area, but not poverty, either.
To bring it back on target, does anyone know how much housekeepers are paid?. My recollection ( which is often wrong ) is that in San Francisco major hotels, they were making about $11/hr at the expiration of the last contract. Not great money, especially for the Bay area, but not poverty, either.
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It really depends but if the housekeeping is just doing their normal job i.e. ignoring the DND sign on the door etc. I don't tip.
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OK, I make a lot of hotel stays each year and I have never tipped the housekeeper. Truthfully, I've never even thought about it. But, by the looks of this thread it seems that I may be in a minority?
So, do others leave the cash on the bed? Where else? Do you tip every day, or at the end of the stay?
So, do others leave the cash on the bed? Where else? Do you tip every day, or at the end of the stay?
Why single out housekeepers? Everybody should get paid enough not to have to depend on tips.
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Agreed. We should let the linguistics drop. And congratulations on English being your third language. ^ I would never have guessed. I wish I had your skills in mastering foreign languages.
To bring it back on target, does anyone know how much housekeepers are paid?. My recollection ( which is often wrong ) is that in San Francisco major hotels, they were making about $11/hr at the expiration of the last contract. Not great money, especially for the Bay area, but not poverty, either.
To bring it back on target, does anyone know how much housekeepers are paid?. My recollection ( which is often wrong ) is that in San Francisco major hotels, they were making about $11/hr at the expiration of the last contract. Not great money, especially for the Bay area, but not poverty, either.
#42


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Sidetrack, I just got $500 in Dollar Coins directly from the US Mint and starting to travel with a $25 roll in my bag for tipping purposes. No tax, shipping cost and it shows up as a purchase earning me 500 MR points as well. Just a novelty that might work since I never seem to hold onto paper singles very well.
#43
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Nice!!!
This topic, tipping not the girlfriends, has come up a bunch over the years. I'm a 20%+ guy when dining but have never really left a top for a maid. I'm not against it per say but I truly travel with no cash most of the time so I don't think about it.
This topic, tipping not the girlfriends, has come up a bunch over the years. I'm a 20%+ guy when dining but have never really left a top for a maid. I'm not against it per say but I truly travel with no cash most of the time so I don't think about it.
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What an excellent suggestion. Very short and to the point. May I suggest "not applicable based on service received".
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Back on topic. I tip $1 to $2 per night and leave the tip on the pillow.


