3rd trip to Japan - can't decide on middle of itinerary
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Sort of the latter - basically, the thing works in that a guy comes up and asks if you speak English, they then ask to have a tea with you and talk so they can practice their English and they go to a tea shop whereupon you are "asked" to buy several boxes of very supposedly expensive teas or else two guys behind you will get very upset. Whilst it has not happened to me personally, a friend of mine had it happen to them some years back and lost a few hundred quid. Any attempt to alert local police will sometimes get results but often as like not
I believe this is much the same as in China where the scam happens too
I believe this is much the same as in China where the scam happens too
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Sort of the latter - basically, the thing works in that a guy comes up and asks if you speak English, they then ask to have a tea with you and talk so they can practice their English and they go to a tea shop whereupon you are "asked" to buy several boxes of very supposedly expensive teas or else two guys behind you will get very upset. Whilst it has not happened to me personally, a friend of mine had it happen to them some years back and lost a few hundred quid.
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I also tend to bring only the cash I think I need, one easily replaced credit card, and leave my passport at hotel whenever I think i may be in a scenario where I'm convinced to go into a place that might scam me. Was worried about a girl bar/hostess bar I decided to visit in Kabukicho once but it turned out to be Japanese run and on the up and up just expensive. Have heard bad things about the Chinese run establishments though...
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I think being approached by some random JP person wanting to practice English would be more likely to be cult recruitment?
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Foreign visitors are legally required to carry their passports, and residents their alien registration cards. Although the chances of being asked to show your passport to a policeman are quite low, not carrying it in public is a breach of the law. I once went out for a walk around midnight in Meguro-ku (in Tokyo) before bedtime with neither my passport nor alien card on me. Even though I was walking in a busy area with quite a few other people around, a policeman spotted me and asked for my papers (the only time I'd ever been asked in 40 years in Japan). Since I had none, he hauled me to the police station because I was technically breaking the law and I was given a hard time for my disrespect for Japanese law. They called my home phone number and asked my wife to come to the station with my ID. I think I even had to sign a form apologizing and promising not to do it again. Lesson learned, now I never forget to carry my alien resident card.
Being Japanese-run is no guarantee that you're protected from a scam of this sort.
Being Japanese-run is no guarantee that you're protected from a scam of this sort.
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https://www.denverpost.com/2012/03/2...teahouse-scam/
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It's entirely possible that your friend got scammed by touts in Japan, but I have a feeling that they told you a fib about where it happened. Ripping tourists off at a tea house is a well-known MO for scammers in other countries, but I think it's pretty much unheard of in Japan:
https://www.denverpost.com/2012/03/2...teahouse-scam/
https://www.denverpost.com/2012/03/2...teahouse-scam/
There are tea houses within public parks run by local districts that can be cheaply hired for a day or half a day. Those are sometimes taken up by sales people, perhaps for fittings or viewings of their commissioned products. Who knows what kind of sales techniques are being applied at these events. That’s about the only scenario where I could conceive of a scam like that being tried out. Perhaps an R&D trial using this very temporary kind of base as a one off “pop up” to see if one could expand from the licor and skimpy clothing rube traps.
Or maybe it was something so odd and/or embarrassing that the friend did indeed just say “tea house scam” to explain the premise rather than go into the cringey details of what happened.
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Well maybe I screwed up, maybe not.
Since I can't change my Kinosaki reservations I cut the Osaka part down to 1 day with a flight to Sapporo the following day. I'm going to spend 3 days in Sapporo/Otaru area, then head down to Sendai for a couple of days before heading to Tokyo.
BTW, I am a beer, whiskey, and food guy. Sapporo brewery and food is at the top of the list. I was going to hit up Yamazaki when I was spending more time in Osaka, but the tours are always full for English speaking.
Since I can't change my Kinosaki reservations I cut the Osaka part down to 1 day with a flight to Sapporo the following day. I'm going to spend 3 days in Sapporo/Otaru area, then head down to Sendai for a couple of days before heading to Tokyo.
BTW, I am a beer, whiskey, and food guy. Sapporo brewery and food is at the top of the list. I was going to hit up Yamazaki when I was spending more time in Osaka, but the tours are always full for English speaking.
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Foreign visitors are legally required to carry their passports, and residents their alien registration cards. Although the chances of being asked to show your passport to a policeman are quite low, not carrying it in public is a breach of the law. I once went out for a walk around midnight in Meguro-ku (in Tokyo) before bedtime with neither my passport nor alien card on me. Even though I was walking in a busy area with quite a few other people around, a policeman spotted me and asked for my papers (the only time I'd ever been asked in 40 years in Japan). Since I had none, he hauled me to the police station because I was technically breaking the law and I was given a hard time for my disrespect for Japanese law. They called my home phone number and asked my wife to come to the station with my ID. I think I even had to sign a form apologizing and promising not to do it again. Lesson learned, now I never forget to carry my alien resident card.
That said, I mostly only worry about such things in places with a lot of pickpockets (which is to say, not Japan!) — and I figure in such places local authorities are fairly likely to understand the value of protecting one's passport.
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If I am truly concerned about my passport being stolen, I have sometimes kept my passport <em>card</em> on my person and left my passport <em>book</em> in the hotel safe. The (US) passport card is supposed to be valid for anything but crossing an international border by air;
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When I was in Japan as a student in the 1970s, people used to come up to me and ask, "May I talk to you?" This was their opening for wanting to practice English, which meant reciting textbook sentences or dialogues at me.
The question "may I talk to you?" always annoyed me, and I couldn't figure out why. In discussing this with an American expat friend, I realized that when an English speaker says, "May I talk to you?" something unpleasant is about to ensue, perhaps criticism of one's performance at work or a friend wanting to discuss an unpleasant personal problem.
When I tried to explain this to Japanese people, they were puzzled, so I asked, "What would you say if you wanted to talk to a stranger who was Japanese?"
"We wouldn't talk to a stranger."
The word must have gotten around, since I never had anyone ask "May I talk to you?" on my return trips in the 1980s and beyond.
The question "may I talk to you?" always annoyed me, and I couldn't figure out why. In discussing this with an American expat friend, I realized that when an English speaker says, "May I talk to you?" something unpleasant is about to ensue, perhaps criticism of one's performance at work or a friend wanting to discuss an unpleasant personal problem.
When I tried to explain this to Japanese people, they were puzzled, so I asked, "What would you say if you wanted to talk to a stranger who was Japanese?"
"We wouldn't talk to a stranger."
The word must have gotten around, since I never had anyone ask "May I talk to you?" on my return trips in the 1980s and beyond.
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When I was in Japan as a student in the 1970s, people used to come up to me and ask, "May I talk to you?" This was their opening for wanting to practice English, which meant reciting textbook sentences or dialogues at me.
The question "may I talk to you?" always annoyed me, and I couldn't figure out why. In discussing this with an American expat friend, I realized that when an English speaker says, "May I talk to you?" something unpleasant is about to ensue, perhaps criticism of one's performance at work or a friend wanting to discuss an unpleasant personal problem.
When I tried to explain this to Japanese people, they were puzzled, so I asked, "What would you say if you wanted to talk to a stranger who was Japanese?"
"We wouldn't talk to a stranger."
The word must have gotten around, since I never had anyone ask "May I talk to you?" on my return trips in the 1980s and beyond.
The question "may I talk to you?" always annoyed me, and I couldn't figure out why. In discussing this with an American expat friend, I realized that when an English speaker says, "May I talk to you?" something unpleasant is about to ensue, perhaps criticism of one's performance at work or a friend wanting to discuss an unpleasant personal problem.
When I tried to explain this to Japanese people, they were puzzled, so I asked, "What would you say if you wanted to talk to a stranger who was Japanese?"
"We wouldn't talk to a stranger."
The word must have gotten around, since I never had anyone ask "May I talk to you?" on my return trips in the 1980s and beyond.
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I just assumed that becoming married, getting older, not doing so many things on my own (and any combination of these) affected the kind of interactions that happen on my visits.
My initial trips to Japan in the 00s did still include people approaching me asking if I spoke English and could we have a conversation. I was still using the kind of hotels and lodging frequented by backpackers and heard from other female visitors who were recounting their experiences of ending up in Karaoke booths with retired and bored men (it’s usually men) who wanted reassurance that their devotion to learning Bruce Springsteen lyrics had yielded something intelligible to an English speaker and such-like, mine have involved exchanges of encouragement about each other’s efforts on park benches, although I did once have a lovely evening chatting with a much, much younger man who approached me in a restaurant (his parents were near by, I think they were thrilled to see how the lessons with his Canadian tutor were paying off). Even my mum got caught up in a couple of these in Mid-Western Japan when she ambled away from my father.
On a handful of occasions it’s been weird and creepy and I’ve backed off immediately, but generally it’s been pleasant if slightly awkward. The interactions with females do run very differently and tend to start off in a more natural manner. No need to be asked “May I talk with you?” if we’ve already begun talking. This continues. In fact, having a young child with me has given opportunities for interaction extra momentum. Since my first visit to Japan and ever since then it’s been clear what my favourite part of Japan and Japanese culture is, and it’s the older women. And it’s a love affair that gets renewed over and over across the years.
My initial trips to Japan in the 00s did still include people approaching me asking if I spoke English and could we have a conversation. I was still using the kind of hotels and lodging frequented by backpackers and heard from other female visitors who were recounting their experiences of ending up in Karaoke booths with retired and bored men (it’s usually men) who wanted reassurance that their devotion to learning Bruce Springsteen lyrics had yielded something intelligible to an English speaker and such-like, mine have involved exchanges of encouragement about each other’s efforts on park benches, although I did once have a lovely evening chatting with a much, much younger man who approached me in a restaurant (his parents were near by, I think they were thrilled to see how the lessons with his Canadian tutor were paying off). Even my mum got caught up in a couple of these in Mid-Western Japan when she ambled away from my father.
On a handful of occasions it’s been weird and creepy and I’ve backed off immediately, but generally it’s been pleasant if slightly awkward. The interactions with females do run very differently and tend to start off in a more natural manner. No need to be asked “May I talk with you?” if we’ve already begun talking. This continues. In fact, having a young child with me has given opportunities for interaction extra momentum. Since my first visit to Japan and ever since then it’s been clear what my favourite part of Japan and Japanese culture is, and it’s the older women. And it’s a love affair that gets renewed over and over across the years.