Should a server sit at your table?
Oct 15, 2007 | 7:14 pm
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Should a server sit at your table?
I had lunch at Logans Roadhouse today. It was my server's first day on the job and it wasn't going well. When she came to the table to take an order, she sat in one of the two empty seats. It felt odd, like her previous job had been in a strip club. Anyone else experience this?
Oct 15, 2007 | 7:33 pm
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That's unprofessional and I wouldn't like it, but then again I guess it could depend on the restaurant. Even my friends that have been servers never sat down to take our orders-it just looks bad IMO.
Oct 15, 2007 | 7:50 pm
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I had lunch at Logans Roadhouse today. It was my server's first day on the job and it wasn't going well. When she came to the table to take an order, she sat in one of the two empty seats. It felt odd, like her previous job had been in a strip club. Anyone else experience this?
Oct 15, 2007 | 7:51 pm
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Oct 15, 2007 | 9:08 pm
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I'll invite 'em to have a seat when they're rattling off a long list of specials! Really surprises them! Some do, some don't; but all get a really big smile on their face.....and the service throughout the rest of the meal is outstanding!
Oct 15, 2007 | 10:13 pm
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I'd like to help them take a break from all that walkin' in those tight outfits 
Oct 15, 2007 | 10:31 pm
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Yeah, it happened to me once at an Applebee's or something like that ... it was initially a little confusing, but there were empty chairs so it didn't really matter in the end. At least she got to take a load off for a minute. 
Oct 16, 2007 | 12:53 am
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If it is a neighborhood pub with sawdust on the floor or where the servers wear red and white plaid, then it is okay, but I kind of think that they should ask first, because it is kind of your space, right? But if it is not a neighborhood kind of a place or if it is more upscale, then I would say definitely not!
Oct 16, 2007 | 5:13 am
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To the OP, I would find it odd, but not particularly objectionable.
Oct 16, 2007 | 5:40 am
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Logan's is a casual steak chain. The server was young and attractive. I did not object. It simply felt strange, almost a come-on. She sat next to my co-worker. I'll have to ask his opinion.
Oct 16, 2007 | 5:47 am
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I don't think it's a huge faux-pas, but I think it's something that should be avoided.
However, there is one situation where I am fully behind the waiter/waitress sitting down at the table - when there's a group of people who all want seperate checks and he or she has to work out by hand how much everybody owes.
However, there is one situation where I am fully behind the waiter/waitress sitting down at the table - when there's a group of people who all want seperate checks and he or she has to work out by hand how much everybody owes.
Oct 16, 2007 | 6:26 am
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Haven't been to Outback in a while, but I do recall this happening there several times. Since they tended to hire young attractive ladies at the Outback I used to frequent, I kind of enjoyed the booth crashers as well.