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Old Dec 10, 2011 | 3:37 pm
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Originally Posted by SwissCircle

But at a place like the one in Rome I would expect the Sommelier to explain the wine choices for a set menue.
Or at least they are introduced by the waitress / waiter with the menue at the beginning of the dinner.
No matter how many wines a restaurant caters, the proper handling of the wine service is an assessment criterion.
this was my point....no one bothered to explain what wine pairings they offer for the tasting menu....since my wife doesn't drink...I would've preferred to have a single glass of wine per dish...to best match the food.
but it was never offered....
ended up ordering a bottle of red wine for the entire meal...and that didn't pair well with the first half of the tasting menu.
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Old Dec 17, 2011 | 10:19 pm
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There is a saying that the true character of someone is seen not by how he treats people above him, but rather by how he treats the people below him.
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Old Dec 23, 2011 | 12:14 am
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odd. i would have sworn michelin did not include service. dont really recall discussion of wine, but list is different than service.

this is confusing >
http://www.michelintravel.com/methodology/
Three stars...surroundings and service are part of this unique experience
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one to five forks and spoons for restaurants...take into consideration the decor, service, cleanliness and upkeep of the surroundings.
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Old Dec 24, 2011 | 11:15 am
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Originally Posted by Kagehitokiri
odd. i would have sworn michelin did not include service. dont really recall discussion of wine, but list is different than service.

this is confusing >
http://www.michelintravel.com/methodology/

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ask the guy who owns one, or the guy who dumps one. there probably is a 3* somewhere that serves out of plastic glasses, and uses cheap plates and paper napkins and wine by the carafe, but i have never seen it. (did have wine by carafe at La Palme d'Or[2*] in cannes when at the chef table)

all the chef owners with whom i have come in contact complain about the expense necessary to put on the show. the fancy wine room, the huge wine list, the large cloth napkins, the crystal, china, decor, etc. none if it is the food, which is the only thing the chef/owner wants to do. service is sort of in the middle. even the chef/owners like a big deal presentation.

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Old Dec 24, 2011 | 11:37 am
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i thought i recalled reading an article on/by michelin saying service is specifically not taken into account. maybe that is for 1/2 star but not 3 star?
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Old Dec 24, 2011 | 3:36 pm
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Originally Posted by Commie
Not sure what you mean by the wealthy not wearing labels...but the LV monograms are pretty noticeable, and the 1% crowd definitely wear them, carry their purses, or their luggages. Same for the famous 'CC' logo of Chanel...Its subtle but its there....I agree they are not into wearing the 'American' logos plastered everywhere.

As for the wine....I wasn't expecting the sommelier to read off every single bottle of wine they have. I have fair knowledge of wine myself, with my own wine cellar.
What I do expect is when I am ready to order my meal, to have the sommelier offer the wine options that he can pair with the 9 course tasting menu. In fact neither the waiter nor the sommelier even mention anything about any wine that they offer up.
I had to ask the waiter for the wine menu, then it was offered. Gotta admit it was pretty extensive list....and prices are not too bad compared to the normal markup i see in Toronto restaurants. Ended up with a bottle of the 2001 Tignanello, very nice indeed.
I tend to agree. I tend to be a novice wino (I just don't have the time to try many bottles of wine) and count on the sommelier to suggest something I have not tried before or for a new (to me) presentation. I consider it a fairly important duty.
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Old Dec 24, 2011 | 4:40 pm
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Originally Posted by SFflyer123
There is a saying that the true character of someone is seen not by how he treats people above him, but rather by how he treats the people below him.
"You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him." -Malcolm Forbes
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Old Dec 26, 2011 | 1:15 pm
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Washington DC is the DYKWIA mother-lode. It is not unusual to see some human sphincter throwing weight around in a restaurant. On such occasions I tell the following joke to my waiter:

A pompous, self-important stuffed shirt walks into a bar, a gorgeous parrot sitting on his shoulder. Bartender asks, "Wow, where did you get that?" The parrot replies, "Washington DC. There's millions of 'em."

One can then track progress of the joke among aggrieved staff by giggles and knowing glances at said bung-hole.
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Old Dec 27, 2011 | 12:20 am
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Originally Posted by scubadiver
Washington DC is the DYKWIA mother-lode. It is not unusual to see some human sphincter throwing weight around in a restaurant. On such occasions I tell the following joke to my waiter:

A pompous, self-important stuffed shirt walks into a bar, a gorgeous parrot sitting on his shoulder. Bartender asks, "Wow, where did you get that?" The parrot replies, "Washington DC. There's millions of 'em."

One can then track progress of the joke among aggrieved staff by giggles and knowing glances at said bung-hole.
Maybe I have not been on DC long enough, 3 years now plan on at least 7 more, to have seen this at a restaurant. I frequent pretty nice establishments nothing ridiculous but maybe I have been lucky. It really makes me uncomfortable to see an A h*ol# treat a service employee with disrespect that it leaves a sour taste, no pun intended. The quote above is great it kind of reminds me of a lesson on my mother taught me about how you never disrespect the people you pass on your way up the ladder because it will be the same people you see on your way down.
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Old Dec 27, 2011 | 12:24 am
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One of my rules is to never piss off someone who makes or serves your meals. You never know what might end up in it.
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Old Dec 27, 2011 | 6:58 am
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the only dykawaz i run into in dc are the ones frequenting the congressional haunts. although a few of these restaurants get good reviews, i find them very over rated and extremely over priced when i accidental into one. a majority of them are steak houses, and i do not do steak houses.

now newyork and san fransisco, i find the restaurants presumptuous and the pricing out of line for both food and service. the whole purpose of the exercise is to treat the dkz as special.

3*restaurants in paris(and gordon ramsey in london) seem to me to be the completely at the beck and call of money, and dominated by dykawaz
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Old Dec 27, 2011 | 1:41 pm
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Originally Posted by Joshua
At the restaurants I frequent, the server often brings me a to-go bag of the complimentary house bread when she brings back my credit card slip to sign. But I don't generally treat my servers like dirt.

Some people have a strange cultural affectation to treat "servants" like dirt.
I've never seen anyone bring a doggie bag without prompting. Do you have to ask, or do they just bring it for you?
I generally like day old bread better than fresh. Strange, but that's the way I like it.
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Old Dec 27, 2011 | 1:45 pm
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Originally Posted by Michael El
One of my rules is to never piss off someone who makes or serves your meals. You never know what might end up in it.
Having worked in restaurants a good part of my youth, I would say that is EXCELLENT advice!
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Old Dec 27, 2011 | 7:05 pm
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[QUOTE=Commie;17594014]Not sure which forum to post this on..but last night just experienced something surreal and unusual. We're currently vacationing in Rome, last night we went to La Pergola for dinner. Its the only 3* Michelin restaurant in Rome and its inside the Rome Cavalieri.
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Thank you for your post, funny but not surprising. At least you got the free show with your dinner.

Could we call this "where European dining arrogance meets American doggybags".

Stereotypes apart I think we should always be humble and being so get probably a better service, especially in Italy.

A luxury place is where staff are more polished and well behaving than the guests .
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