My spouse has died. What do i need to do to transfer Skymiles
#1
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My spouse has died. What do i need to do to transfer Skymiles
Is there a process to do this?
#3
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Sorry for loss.
Do not tell DL. Account will be closed immediately, miles lost.
Do not tell DL. Account will be closed immediately, miles lost.
Last edited by flyerCO; Jan 24, 2024 at 5:59 am
#5
Join Date: Jul 2002
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Don't feel in any way bad about doing this, your spouse earned the benefits and its only fair that they go to good use for family and friends.
#7
Join Date: May 2002
Posts: 213
Condolences to you and your family.
Process in today's world, real life and online life.
Get access to as much of the following
1. Emails, personal and business (es).
This might tell you all subscriptions, loyalty memberships (airline, hotel, etc), employer if worker/customers if a business, LinkedIn, FB, messengers, SMS, banking, etc
2. Employer / Colleagues
3. Subscriptions ...website domain ownership providers, newsletters, etc
4. Loyalty Memberships (airline, hotel, etc)
5. Banking (credit cards, accounts, etc)
6. Insurance policies ...car, home, medical, life
7. Twitter / Linkedin / FB / IG etc
8. SMS and Messenger Apps (FB, WhatsApp, Viber, Telegram, etc)
Most websites/apps/loyalty programs consider(ed) only their users as being alive. Gmail has a nice way of Inactive User after __ months, contact ___. FB put smth also.
For sibling who died...started in email looking for key items, but also cancelling "clutter" (newsletters not for money, notifications from postings in social media/etc) to better "see" the important items.
Again, condolences.
Process in today's world, real life and online life.
Get access to as much of the following
1. Emails, personal and business (es).
This might tell you all subscriptions, loyalty memberships (airline, hotel, etc), employer if worker/customers if a business, LinkedIn, FB, messengers, SMS, banking, etc
2. Employer / Colleagues
3. Subscriptions ...website domain ownership providers, newsletters, etc
4. Loyalty Memberships (airline, hotel, etc)
5. Banking (credit cards, accounts, etc)
6. Insurance policies ...car, home, medical, life
7. Twitter / Linkedin / FB / IG etc
8. SMS and Messenger Apps (FB, WhatsApp, Viber, Telegram, etc)
Most websites/apps/loyalty programs consider(ed) only their users as being alive. Gmail has a nice way of Inactive User after __ months, contact ___. FB put smth also.
For sibling who died...started in email looking for key items, but also cancelling "clutter" (newsletters not for money, notifications from postings in social media/etc) to better "see" the important items.
Again, condolences.
#9
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No they don't. DL doesn't have your SSN number to begin with. 2nd, there's plenty of non-American DL FF members.
Sorry, but this made me laugh.
#10
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Atlanta
Posts: 5,189
When my father passed away suddenly 2 years ago this is exactly what happened so unfortunately I speak from experience. His SM account was immediately closed by DL and all miles were forfeited. Not quite sure why this is so funny to you. I pray that your family doesn’t experience a similar tragedy.
Last edited by sydneyracquelle; Jan 24, 2024 at 5:03 am
#12
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I'm sorry for your loss, OP.
Wouldn't/Couldn't Delta come back sometime later and say 'hey OP you booked trips under a false identity" or something similar and claim fraud? Just don't want to OP to do something they might regret later due to some buried T&C's somewhere that no one probably can see or find.
Wouldn't/Couldn't Delta come back sometime later and say 'hey OP you booked trips under a false identity" or something similar and claim fraud? Just don't want to OP to do something they might regret later due to some buried T&C's somewhere that no one probably can see or find.
#13
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When my father passed away suddenly 2 years ago this is exactly what happened so unfortunately I speak from experience. His SM account was immediately closed by DL and all miles were forfeited. Not quite sure why this is so funny to you. I pray that your family doesn’t experience a similar tragedy.
Even banks aren't notified. The exception being the bank where any SSA funds are edeposited. They are notified solely for purposes of returning the funds.
Ive handled number of estates for family/friends. Im well versed in this aspect of things.
#14
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I'm sorry for your loss, OP.
Wouldn't/Couldn't Delta come back sometime later and say 'hey OP you booked trips under a false identity" or something similar and claim fraud? Just don't want to OP to do something they might regret later due to some buried T&C's somewhere that no one probably can see or find.
Wouldn't/Couldn't Delta come back sometime later and say 'hey OP you booked trips under a false identity" or something similar and claim fraud? Just don't want to OP to do something they might regret later due to some buried T&C's somewhere that no one probably can see or find.
#15
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: AMS
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When my father passed away suddenly 2 years ago this is exactly what happened so unfortunately I speak from experience. His SM account was immediately closed by DL and all miles were forfeited. Not quite sure why this is so funny to you. I pray that your family doesn’t experience a similar tragedy.