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kokonutz Jun 17, 2011 11:23 pm

Like so many here, I am at a loss.

Dave was a friend, a mentor. Sh*t, he was who I wanted to be when I grew up.

I just pray that those who love him most can find comfort. I can only imagine what they are going through...to lose a man who was so amazing, so full of the joy of life. I am, literally, crying with them.

As an aside, it's nice to see so many super-old-timer FTers on this thread. I miss you guys too!

g-day Jun 18, 2011 12:09 am

]This news has stunned me. I first met Dave at the gate waiting for our flight to Hobart for OZFest 5 thanks to the yellow FT tags and again in Adelaide with Jeannie.
My condolences to his loved ones.

http://g-day.smugmug.com/Travel/Ozfe...87_aXQRU-M.jpg

Ray

opus17 Jun 18, 2011 12:10 am

Very sad news, my condolences to his family. Before we had moderators, we had deputy Catcops on FT.

General_Flyer Jun 18, 2011 12:20 am


Originally Posted by squeakr (Post 16581710)
I never met Dave but so many of my FT friends spoke of him with love and warmth so I always felt our paths would cross someday.

What a sad shock to everyone who knew him. My condolences to his wife, family and friends.

+1

Never met him either, but my condolences to his wife, family and friends and to all for your losses..

Here's to you, Sir.. One glass of bubbly and a farewell. Rest In Peace..

Jailer Jun 18, 2011 12:39 am

Sad, horrible news reaching me, appropriately enough, on a rainy and somber day in Manchester, UK. I am in tears.

Dave was a great guy in every way. I first met him at PIP, and joked that we must be a couple because in a number of FT pics we were standing next to each other. A fellow Long Beach Grand Prix fan, I saw him at any number of times around SoCal, and beyond; sometimes running into him randomly around town.

Sweet journey Dave...I know you will get upgraded by the big guy upstairs. Love, Barry

karenkay Jun 18, 2011 12:45 am

Oh, I'm so sad to hear this. What a shock.

My condolences to his wife and family. I met Dave in Singapore, and have fond memories of the fish pedicure we got there. He was a terrific guy and will be greatly missed. :(

ALIinSD Jun 18, 2011 12:59 am

With a heavy heart.....
 
I didn't see my first post so I'm trying this again....

I know none of you know me, but I am Dave's daughter-in-law. I found this thread which was posted on his FB page (Thank you to whoever it was that posted it). Your prayers are much appreciated as we are all in sheer disbelief and great sorrow at this time.

Reading the wonderful memories you have had with my father-in-law and seeing some of the pictures has meant a lot to me. I had no idea he had such a network of friends across the US, however I did know of his great love for travel. His eyes would always light up whenever he talked about his next great trip or meeting up with some of you for dinners and drinks. It wouldn't surprise me if some of his best memories were made with many of you. He was always looking for a new adventure and a great glass of wine. He was a wonderful man who will be truly missed.

We love you Dave.

Alicia Chesebro

Spiff Jun 18, 2011 1:43 am

RIP, Dave. I genuinely enjoyed all the time I was privileged to spend with you.

My condolences to your family and the rest of your friends.

mashav Jun 18, 2011 2:01 am


Originally Posted by ALIinSD (Post 16582218)
I didn't see my first post so I'm trying this again....

I know none of you know me, but I am Dave's daughter-in-law. I found this thread which was posted on his FB page (Thank you to whoever it was that posted it). Your prayers are much appreciated as we are all in sheer disbelief and great sorrow at this time.

Reading the wonderful memories you have had with my father-in-law and seeing some of the pictures has meant a lot to me. I had no idea he had such a network of friends across the US, however I did know of his great love for travel. His eyes would always light up whenever he talked about his next great trip or meeting up with some of you for dinners and drinks. It wouldn't surprise me if some of his best memories were made with many of you. He was always looking for a new adventure and a great glass of wine. He was a wonderful man who will be truly missed.

We love you Dave.

Alicia Chesebro

Alicia, thank you for your kind words.

While many of us were privileged to share share meals and drinks with Dave all over the world, his eyes *truly* lit up when to talked about his family, his boys and especially his grandchildren.

This is much too soon.
RIP, Grandpa Dave.

B747-437B Jun 18, 2011 3:09 am

Very sad news to hear about the loss of a genuinely nice and friendly guy.

chchkiwi Jun 18, 2011 3:21 am

I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Dave's passing. He was one of the first FTers I met and had the pleasure of seeing him at many DOs since. Such a genuinely nice guy.

Heartfelt condolences to Jeanne, family and friends.

Rudi Jun 18, 2011 3:48 am

Dave
 
I will remember a very polite gentleman and friend. Thank you to have shared some (rare) short moments of my travel life.

I have been contacted through this night by many of his (and mine) friends and in add got the following information:

'Apparently he was at Starbucks and fainted. He woke up and did not know he fainted and the paramedics were there. They took him to the hospital. He talked to Jeanne and said he felt fine and he would call her when he know something or was ready to come home. He never called so she went to the hospital. He passed away before Jeanne got there. As you would expect she is devastated.'

boxo Jun 18, 2011 3:59 am

I only had the pleasure and privilege of meeting Dave once. It was May 2008 and I was in need of LAX RCC access while mileage-running (to some exotic locale like BUF or JAX, :rolleyes: no doubt) and he was on his way to OzFest V: Hobart. Unfortunately we only had 5-10 mins together before his boarding call and our paths never crossed again.

My thoughts are with his family and friends.

FlyinHawaiian Jun 18, 2011 4:18 am

I've had a little time to process this shocking news and I am still very hurt and sad. I think I'm mainly mad because I won't get a chance to see Dave for a while and I know he had just started a new chapter in his life that was bringing him such joy.

To me, Dave represented the best of what we as FlyerTalkers should try and be.

To me, Dave represented the best of what we as human beings should try and be.

Chorus angelorum te suscipiat...

Noelene Jun 18, 2011 4:36 am

So sad, really nice guy
Tho we all say at times like this.. live every day as if its your last etc.
Mostly we just go along doing the best we can, and I am sure he did.
Condolences to his family

stimpy Jun 18, 2011 4:59 am

I'm just waking up in London to the terrible news. I'm pretty sure that Dave was with us at the very first Flyertalk get together, in early 1999 I think, which was at the Queen Mary in Long Beach. Premex should have some pictures somewhere. Or maybe I can find some.

Dave and I were neighbors in Long Beach and we used to go out for beers at Legends and Joe Josts from time to time. I know for a fact that he was a much happier person thanks to the friends he met here and all the traveling he otherwise would not have done. He called himself Newself for a reason and he lived up to it. God bless him.

MileageAddict Jun 18, 2011 5:44 am

Dave and I crossed paths many times over the years. I'm glad I had the opportunity to know him and share many a beer with him.

ScottC Jun 18, 2011 8:17 am

Me > sad :(

RIP.

xanthuos Jun 18, 2011 8:23 am


Originally Posted by ALIinSD (Post 16582218)
I had no idea he had such a network of friends across the US

Friendship with Dave knew no bounds and circled the globe.

Rest in peace, good sir. You were a class act.

http://img233.imageshack.us/img233/3222/schooner.jpg

Tonight, I'll raise a schooner in your honor.

Sweet Willie Jun 18, 2011 8:36 am

I'm in shock, he looked great last month when we met for breakfast.

Great guy, excellent FT'er & person to travel with.:-:^:-:

My condolences to his wife and family.

ElmhurstNick Jun 18, 2011 8:37 am

I only met him once, maybe twice, back in the early days. But he always seemed to be able to conduct himself above the typical FT fray. Sad news.

Jenbel Jun 18, 2011 8:54 am

I'm sure I met him at a couple of the European dos - my thoughts go to his family at their untimely loss :(

CMK10 Jun 18, 2011 9:07 am

I'm sorry I never got to meet you Dave, but thank you for everything you did here. May your journey to the hereafter have Channel 9 on, unlimited drink refills, and a great purser.

Downunder girl Jun 18, 2011 9:08 am

I am very shocked to hear this sad news :(. I met Dave at one of the Singapore Do's and he was a lovely person.

My thoughts are with his family at this terrible time :(

RIP Dave.

dedehans Jun 18, 2011 9:38 am

I had met Dave at different DOs over the last few years. I remember a very nice man.

My sympathies to Dave's wife and family. He was too young!

miffSC Jun 18, 2011 10:45 am

Deepest sympathies and condolences for Dave's wife and family.

shadow Jun 18, 2011 10:48 am

How truly sad...
 
In August of 1999 just after joining FT, I met Dave, stimpy and John Goldwater for dinner at the Yard House in LGB, then back to stimpy's home for Champagne after. To be acepted so readily by a group of total strangers I'd just met a few hours earlier was incredible.

My friendship with Dave and other SoCal FT'ers just got stronger when I moved there later that year.

This is just a terrible piece of news and want to wish Jeannie the best in her future.

We've ALL lost a great friend in Dave...

goalie Jun 18, 2011 11:04 am

I had the pleasure of meeting you once once and only once but when I say it was a pleasure, that it truly was. You will truly be missed and my condolences to your family.

May you go with God and continue to fly with us as an angel on our wings.

wijomas Jun 18, 2011 3:17 pm

Oh man, chchkiwi just told me the news about Dave. I had the pleasure of meeting him and his lovely wife Jeannie a couple of times and he was definitely one of those FTers that everyone could get along with and would help out anyone and everyone.

And I get this news at the beginning of the week in which we have a flight to remember another departed local FTer, Freeth. :(

RIP Dave. My condolences to Jeannie, Alicia, and all of Dave's family and friends. He'll be greatly missed!

wharvey Jun 18, 2011 6:52 pm

Dave was one of the first FTers I met when I was in Los Angeles.

Such sad news to our flyertalk family!

Bundy Bear Jun 18, 2011 6:56 pm

What a shock, :( Dave attended Ozfest Adelaide last year.

RIP Dave. My condolences to Jeannie and the rest of Daves family.

Thanks to Baze for passing on the sad news.

Gaucho100K Jun 18, 2011 7:40 pm

Terrible news... my condolences to his family.

shadow Jun 18, 2011 9:19 pm

wharvey, as soon as I saw your post it reminded me of the dinner you, Dave and I had in LA at Paco's Tacos a few years back.

Just one of the many memories that have come flooding back in the past 24 hours...

JY1024 Jun 18, 2011 11:01 pm

It's always sad to lose a member of our community. :(

Dave had obviously positively affected many of our members, and my thoughts are with his family and friends. RIP Newself.

kokonutz Jun 18, 2011 11:23 pm

So one time, at the bar in Long Beach where all the FT get-togethers seemed to occur at that moment in time, I walked in after a transcon and for some reaonn Dave sat me down and explained the secret to obtaining happiness in life to me.

He told me that happiness in life was about moments of pride. And that, at the end of the day, no one was proud of the money they'd made or the girls they'd laid. One was proud of the joy they had given others. Of the good they'd done for others.

And those of you who knew Dave know that look he could give. Of utter conviction. So that was that.

Yeah, he gave me that look as he said it. The man changed my life.

Eff you, death. You are a greedy basterd and I hate you.

squeakr Jun 18, 2011 11:42 pm

thanks for that memory...
 

Originally Posted by kokonutz (Post 16586536)
So one time, at the bar in Long Beach where all the FT get-togethers seemed to occur at that moment in time, I walked in after a transcon and for some reaonn Dave sat me down and explained the secret to obtaining happiness in life to me.

He told me that happiness in life was about moments of pride. And that, at the end of the day, no one was proud of the money they'd made or the girls they'd laid. One was proud of the joy they had given others. Of the good they'd done for others.

And those of you who knew Dave know that look he could give. Of utter conviction. So that was that.

Yeah, he gave me that look as he said it. The man changed my life.

Eff you, death. You are a greedy basterd and I hate you.

RIP Dave.

wsucougarchick05 Jun 19, 2011 2:06 am

*sigh*

That's the second death I've heard of in the last hour and a half. It was already a crap night for me, and the news of these two deaths just adds to it. :(

RIP, newself.

KathyWdrf Jun 19, 2011 3:04 am

I knew Dave only slightly, but it is evident that his passing is a horrible loss to many.

Condolences.

Catman Jun 19, 2011 7:46 pm

Im still thinking this is a dream and Newself will call to ask how Im doing and when I can get to Long Beach for Babes breakfast and beer at the Fishtail.

Still in shock but lots of good memories of him are coming back including the time he cleaned me up after an embarrassing incident. A friend would do that

Enjoy the Guinness in heaven Bud and we will see u later for a round.

tcook052 Jun 20, 2011 10:27 am

Condolences. :(


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