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Originally Posted by SeriouslyLost
(Post 25526124)
As an aside, might I suggest considering Global Entry rather than Pre-Check? There are greater advantages to it and it takes you one (small) further step away from having to deal with TSA.
It's definitely worth the extra $15 if you fly internationally at all. I mean, I'd pay $15 to miss just one bad line at immigration or customs (more likely both!) even if I only planned to fly internationally once in 5 years. For 2-4x a year, it was worth it even before it came with pre-check, but it was no help with the TSA checkpoints back then. |
Originally Posted by nkedel
(Post 25527878)
TSA treatment is the same either way, since it's just an alternative way to qualify for pre-check on domestic or outbound flying.
. IMO Yes GE is most certainly worth it, even if only flying once a year overseas let alone the scores of time people like me use it each year. |
Originally Posted by FlyingHoustonian
(Post 25528300)
One could presume pre would be slightly better in that scenario as a person has a better chance of WTMD which is not interested in "anomalies" but metal.
(Indeed, it's a huge win even without such deeply personal reasons to be concerned about privacy.) |
Originally Posted by nkedel
(Post 25527878)
TSA treatment is the same either way, since it's just an alternative way to qualify for pre-check on domestic or outbound flying.
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Originally Posted by SeriouslyLost
(Post 25531179)
I was thinking of that one small extra step being the application process itself. Even without the extra advantages GE brings over PreCheck, not having to go through TSA for the application is a benefit all by itself IMO.
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Sorry I never reported back... the trip ended up being delayed to just this past weekend.
Opted out from the NoS at both BOS and BUF... at Logan it took them a few minutes to locate a female TSO to do my pat down but from there it was really smooth. She moved my carry on, laptop, and boots to where I could have it in sight at all times, offered a private room (which I declined) and then explained everything she was doing as she searched me. I felt that I was treated with respect and despite needing to check my groin area my gender was never called into question. It was really not a big deal at all. Still going to apply for GE before my next trip, precheck sounds wonderful and like it might be a huge time saver in the future. |
Originally Posted by kmflinkle
(Post 25832820)
Sorry I never reported back... the trip ended up being delayed to just this past weekend.
Opted out from the NoS at both BOS and BUF... at Logan it took them a few minutes to locate a female TSO to do my pat down but from there it was really smooth. She moved my carry on, laptop, and boots to where I could have it in sight at all times, offered a private room (which I declined) and then explained everything she was doing as she searched me. I felt that I was treated with respect and despite needing to check my groin area my gender was never called into question. It was really not a big deal at all. Still going to apply for GE before my next trip, precheck sounds wonderful and like it might be a huge time saver in the future. Mike |
Originally Posted by Skatering
(Post 25512471)
...Additionally, I think she declined requests I would consider reasonable, such as going back through the body scanner but with the 'male' button pushed instead, to see if the anomaly in the private parts disappears. ID documents, and any gender markers on them, should be irrelevant.
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I feel sorry for the female agent who got to sack tap you in your pat down. Glad you got what you wanted though.
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Remember also, flight attendants have the ability to make your flight just miserable too. I had a really bad experience on Lufthansa I won't get into, just know it was humiliating and horrible.
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Originally Posted by Rotus12
(Post 25933741)
I feel sorry for the female agent who got to sack tap you in your pat down. Glad you got what you wanted though.
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Originally Posted by Liz Lilly
(Post 25959380)
Not sure who you're talking to, but whoever it is, I don't think anyone got what they wanted. I hate to have anyone have to do a "sensitive" pat down. I feel like I'M subjecting THEM to it, even though it's their requirements. And there's nothing I can do to avoid it.
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Originally Posted by AllieKat
(Post 25961626)
:( ignore the stupid flaming... there's a few VERY queerphobic people on here...
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Originally Posted by Liz Lilly
(Post 25959380)
Not sure who you're talking to, but whoever it is, I don't think anyone got what they wanted. I hate to have anyone have to do a "sensitive" pat down. I feel like I'M subjecting THEM to it, even though it's their requirements. And there's nothing I can do to avoid it.
I agree about TSA, and I'm sure it would be unpleasant for both, but it seems like if you have a penis you would get a male pat down. It's not about being intolerant it's about being practical. I don't think women TSA agents should have to come to work and touch penises. |
Originally Posted by Rotus12
(Post 25969218)
I don't think women TSA agents should have to come to work and touch penises.
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Traveling while trans
It's come up a bunch before, but not had its own thread that I've seen, so… here ya go.
To start it off: http://trans-fusion.blogspot.com/201...romise-of.html |
Originally Posted by saizai
(Post 26016898)
It's come up a bunch before, but not had its own thread that I've seen, so… here ya go.
To start it off: http://trans-fusion.blogspot.com/201...romise-of.html |
Originally Posted by Randyk47
(Post 26016951)
http://www.flyertalk.com/forum/pract...ansgender.html What about this thread?
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Originally Posted by Rotus12
(Post 25933741)
I feel sorry for the female agent who got to sack tap you in your pat down. Glad you got what you wanted though.
When I feel safe with my surroundings, I'm generally open and comfortable about who I am. I don't wear my trans identity on my sleeve, but I also don't go out of my way to hide it (or "pass" as we sometimes call it in our community.) I'm privileged to live in an area where I usually feel both physically and emotionally safe being myself, and blessed to have friends and colleagues who support me unconditionally, along with stability in my life. Traveling, especially by air, is a time where I don't feel as safe with my surroundings. I meet a larger cross-section of people when traveling who may or may not tolerant of trans folk. Yes, there are bigots in my hometown just as much as anywhere else, but unlike in my normal day to day life, where if I feel physically or emotionally threatened I can sometimes do things to make the situation safer or if all else fails get in my car and leave, in an airport thousands of miles from home, or in a metal tube 35,000 feet in the air, I don't have that option. Hence flying is one of the few instances I do try to blend in. The last thing I want is to be clocked as a trans woman (or a man) at the checkpoint, by airport or airline staff, have someone on my flight witness it and find out they're transphobic. Had a male officer performed my patdown, in addition to being extremely uncomfortable for me as a woman (and trans women are women) it would have outed me to anybody paying attention. |
Originally Posted by Rotus12
(Post 25969218)
I'm not trying to be offensive, it's an issue that I find interesting. Society will have some learning and adjustments to make.
I agree about TSA, and I'm sure it would be unpleasant for both, but it seems like if you have a penis you would get a male pat down. It's not about being intolerant it's about being practical. I don't think women TSA agents should have to come to work and touch penises. I don't think male TSA agents should have to come to work and grope penises and dip into butt cracks. <redacted by moderator> eta: There is never any excuse for a pax to have to wait 15-20 minutes or longer for a 'qualified' <redacted by moderator>. I have never had to wait for a <redacted by moderator> at any US airport overseas. Ask one of the LTSOs or STSOs or BDOs standing around to put their cellphones away, suspend their personal chitchat, put on the gloves and make themselves useful for a change. Do something to earn that fat paycheck and benefits package. |
Originally Posted by Rotus12
(Post 25969218)
I agree about TSA, and I'm sure it would be unpleasant for both, but it seems like if you have a penis you would get a male pat down.
I don't think women TSA agents should have to come to work and touch penises. Additionally, not everybody who has a penis is male, not all men have a penis. Anatomy doesn't define one's gender. GRS is not something that every trans* person can or wants to obtain. Only ten states (plus the District of Columbia) require health insurers to cover certain gender affirming surgeries. Beyond the financial part of the equation - many of us don't obtain certain surgeries for any number of reasons: potential medical complications, reproductive concerns, religious beliefs, or (such as in my case) simply not wanting it. |
Originally Posted by kmflinkle
(Post 26475826)
I don't think female travelers should have to be pat down by male officers. I hate to use this as an example... but I have trans sisters who are virtually indistinguishable from cisgender (non-trans) women and frequently get attention (whether desired or not) from straight men - if a male officer is doing the searching there's a huge potential for abuse. In my case, people usually figure out I'm trans* fairly quickly, but that doesn't make me any less of a woman. Why shouldn't I be afforded the same respect and protection as my sisters who do pass? Not that passibility determine's a trans* person's worth, or makes us any less or more of who we are.
Additionally, not everybody who has a penis is male, not all men have a penis. Anatomy doesn't define one's gender. GRS is not something that every trans* person can or wants to obtain. Only ten states (plus the District of Columbia) require health insurers to cover certain gender affirming surgeries. Beyond the financial part of the equation - many of us don't obtain certain surgeries for any number of reasons: potential medical complications, reproductive concerns, religious beliefs, or (such as in my case) simply not wanting it. |
Originally Posted by tanja
(Post 26475966)
you have my 100 % support. I am a female hetrosexual born and I am one. You are in my eyes/mind a female. So all the honor and strength to you.
I wasn't trying to make this a social justice or advocacy thread (FT isn't the place for that), but as a trans lesbian I feel obligated to call out transphobic or queerphobic comments when I see them. Sometimes those sentiments comes from a place of bigotry, sometimes just plain ignorance, but my hope is that I can plant a seed in either case. Judging from people in my own life, I've found that it is possible to develop a more open mind and become more accepting of diversity. |
Originally Posted by kmflinkle
(Post 26479420)
Thank you, we need more people like you in the world :D
I wasn't trying to make this a social justice or advocacy thread (FT isn't the place for that), but as a trans lesbian I feel obligated to call out transphobic or queerphobic comments when I see them. Sometimes those sentiments comes from a place of bigotry, sometimes just plain ignorance, but my hope is that I can plant a seed in either case. Judging from people in my own life, I've found that it is possible to develop a more open mind and become more accepting of diversity. |
Originally Posted by Boggie Dog
(Post 26479907)
I think it boils down to anatomy. If you have male genitalia then a male you do any pat downs. Same for female genitalia and females doing the pat down.
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Moderator's Note:
Originally Posted by Boggie Dog
(Post 26479907)
I think it boils down to anatomy. If you have male genitalia then a male you do any pat downs. Same for female genitalia and females doing the pat down.
Thanks for understanding. TWA884 Co-moderator |
Originally Posted by cestmoi123
(Post 26480048)
The reason we generally have men screen men and women screen women is to protect the _passenger_ from contact the passenger might find inappropriate, since the contact isn't consensual for them. When the choice is between requiring somebody to out themselves as trans (exposing themselves to potential risk, and at least social discomfort), and having a female screener potentially touch a penis through a couple of layers of clothing as part of her job, the balance comes down in favor of the passenger. If that risk (which is realistically tiny) is too much for a screener to take, then the job probably isn't for them.
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Originally Posted by kmflinkle
(Post 26480706)
Well said
It is like going to the doctor and we have to make sure the doctor feels good when they examen a patient? That does not even get close to make any kind of sence to me. |
Originally Posted by cestmoi123
(Post 26480048)
I think it boils down to the passenger's preference. The reason we generally have men screen men and women screen women is to protect the _passenger_ from contact the passenger might find inappropriate, since the contact isn't consensual for them. When the choice is between requiring somebody to out themselves as trans (exposing themselves to potential risk, and at least social discomfort), and having a female screener potentially touch a penis through a couple of layers of clothing as part of her job, the balance comes down in favor of the passenger. If that risk (which is realistically tiny) is too much for a screener to take, then the job probably isn't for them.
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Originally Posted by ND Sol
(Post 26484263)
So if I as a male would prefer that a female touch me as opposed to a male, then that should happen? I think that many males would prefer to be screened by a female than a male.
Some TSOs have posted here that under certain conditions they are allowed to handle the opposite gender. |
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Reminder:
Originally Posted by TWA884
(Post 26480116)
We are treading awfully close to OMNI/PR territory here.
Thanks for understanding. TWA884 Co-moderator Thank you |
Choosing gender of TSA officer?
Not to go off topic but can people choose the gender of the officer performing a frisk search?
The reason I ask is because with all these new 'gender decleration' policies by the US, Canada, and other European countries that do seem to become a bit ridiculous, you would think that if you're a man or woman you can choose to get inspected by someone who is the opposite sex but apparently that's not true :confused: |
Originally Posted by acidicsystems
(Post 28592318)
Not to go off topic but can people choose the gender of the officer performing a frisk search?
The reason I ask is because with all these new 'gender decleration' policies by the US, Canada, and other European countries that do seem to become a bit ridiculous, you would think that if you're a man or woman you can choose to get inspected by someone who is the opposite sex but apparently that's not true :confused: https://www.tsa.gov/travel/security-screening You will receive a pat-down by an officer of the same gender. |
Originally Posted by Boggie Dog
(Post 28593117)
https://www.tsa.gov/travel/security-screening
You will receive a pat-down by an officer of the same gender. |
Originally Posted by Loren Pechtel
(Post 28594404)
So what do they do when faced with someone intersexed? Do they have an intersexed screener to do the patdown??
(Insert the usual "but TSA screeners don't always follow published policy" ranting here.) |
Originally Posted by Loren Pechtel
(Post 28594404)
So what do they do when faced with someone intersexed? Do they have an intersexed screener to do the patdown??
If a TSA officer can't determine someone's gender from appearance, they ask "What gender are you?" or equivalent. I was asked this once. I didn't give her a clear answer (not intentionally...just got thrown by the question). At that point she asked "Do you want to be patted down by a male or female officer?" I said female. She prodded my leg a bit. I was good to go. |
Originally Posted by Skatering
(Post 28596160)
Their biological sex might be indeterminate but there's a good probability that their gender is male or female.
If a TSA officer can't determine someone's gender from appearance, they ask "What gender are you?" or equivalent. I was asked this once. I didn't give her a clear answer (not intentionally...just got thrown by the question). At that point she asked "Do you want to be patted down by a male or female officer?" I said female. She prodded my leg a bit. I was good to go. I was joking about it and figuring intersexed as a gender, thus they need to be patted down by someone else who is intersex. |
Originally Posted by Loren Pechtel
(Post 28596805)
While there is a good probability that the intersexed are mostly one gender there are a few where they are solidly in the middle. What gender is someone who has a penis and a vagina? (Naturally, not surgically.)
I was joking about it and figuring intersexed as a gender, thus they need to be patted down by someone else who is intersex. Are male screeners even trained to lift, separate, cup and squeeze? They do have to handle heterosexual males with breasts, I'm sure. Personally, I don't think a screener should have the right to refuse to screen a pax whose gender they don't identify with. If a pre-surgery Caitlyn Jenner, with full breasts, a bra, and a penis identifies as a woman and wants to be groped by a woman, it should be her choice, including to have the grope in public. TSA assures us there is nothing remotely sexual about the grope, so to any properly trained, professional screener, it's just a living piece of baggage. |
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