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Old Feb 11, 2009, 5:10 pm
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Originally Posted by fairviewroad
Can't the girlfriend come see you now and then? I'm certainly no advice columnist but if you're the only one doing the traveling you might want to think about this carefully.
Originally Posted by gglave
He's a Kiwi, so presumably he can visit the UK without a visa, whereas it might be more complicated for her to regularly visit Lebanon.

Doesn't mean they can't 'meet in thee middle' though
They could meet in France one trip, Italy the next, then Greece . . . this way they both earn miles for future travel.

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Old Feb 11, 2009, 8:53 pm
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Originally Posted by fairviewroad
Can't the girlfriend come see you now and then? I'm certainly no advice columnist but if you're the only one doing the traveling you might want to think about this carefully.
I would rather do all the traveling because I would earn more miles in my account. If the relationship lasts, we would have many miles to travel together. If, however, the relationship fails, I would be able to drown my sorrows on some beach!

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Old Feb 12, 2009, 3:43 am
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Welcome to Lebanon!

I think you have a lot of sound options here and I don't have much to add. London is a very popular destination for a lot of Lebanese people (large community there). BMI and MEA have a duopoly on that route, so not sure how discounted those fares can be.

Anyway, if there is anything you need while you're here in Beirut, please do let me know .
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Old Feb 12, 2009, 5:50 am
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Originally Posted by Open Jaw
I would rather do all the traveling because I would earn more miles in my account. If the relationship lasts, we would have many miles to travel together. If, however, the relationship fails, I would be able to drown my sorrows on some beach!

Good luck AAAZ and welcome to FT!
I do believe for a relationship to work, especially one that is long distance, there has to be a sharing of the responsibilities to include travel. If she is as serious about you as you are about her then she should be willing to assume some of the burden. Give, give, give does not a relationship make.
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Old Feb 12, 2009, 9:23 am
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Originally Posted by Italy98
I do believe for a relationship to work, especially one that is long distance, there has to be a sharing of the responsibilities to include travel. If she is as serious about you as you are about her then she should be willing to assume some of the burden. Give, give, give does not a relationship make.
I agree with you completely. I was just saying that I would perfer to do most of the traveling.
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Old Feb 12, 2009, 1:10 pm
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I agree. I know you may have heard some things about long distance relationships, but as the old saying goes, 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'
There are plusses and minuses to a LDR.

I often advise my European friends to credit the miles to a US based program, (esp US airways), it's easier to earn to redeem travel to/from europe from a US based program, as opposed to Flying Blue, etc.

You'll be 'flying blue' with those dreaded N fares on AF.

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Old Feb 12, 2009, 1:18 pm
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I would not recommend to "meet in the middle" as then in addition to the flights for 2 people they have hotel expenses.

It's also not less expensive to book a flight to FCO, FRA, CDG than going to LHR.

I understand how complicated it is. For the same reason I shuttle between LAX and FRA about 25 times a year

The travelling etc is on me but when we go out for dinners etc it's her part to contribute as well !
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Old Feb 12, 2009, 9:35 pm
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Originally Posted by meFIRST
I agree. I know you may have heard some things about long distance relationships, but as the old saying goes, 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'
There are plusses and minuses to a LDR.

I often advise my European friends to credit the miles to a US based program, (esp US airways), it's easier to earn to redeem travel to/from europe from a US based program, as opposed to Flying Blue, etc.

You'll be 'flying blue' with those dreaded N fares on AF.
I understand that it is easier to redeem travel with a US based program, but is US that much easier than UA? Will CO be a good choice once it is part of *A? What do you think?

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Old Feb 13, 2009, 3:37 pm
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Originally Posted by skywalkerLAX
I understand how complicated it is. For the same reason I shuttle between LAX and FRA about 25 times a year
Oh my! I do EWR-ORF constantly -my sailor is stationed down there right now- but those flights are usually cheap, and more importantly, SHORT. I'm in awe of LAX-FRA!

Sad fact, we've been together for over 7 years but we've only lived in the same state for 9 months. The airlines love us, I'm sure.
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Old Feb 14, 2009, 2:19 am
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Originally Posted by wck4
Sad fact, we've been together for over 7 years but we've only lived in the same state for 9 months. The airlines love us, I'm sure.
Thats sounds well !

I guess the airlines HATE me as I never pay more than 300$ for an overseas flight due to compensations, VDB, miles
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