Originally Posted by ijgordon
(Post 31582613)
I think fake/feigned is probably worse than apathetic, which most of us would probably be okay with -- IF THEY DO THEIR JOBS (serve food, provide refills). What really makes the difference is genuine smiles/concern, and I'm sorry if you've never experienced it. It exists. Even on airlines. And why can't it be part of the package of expectations in a premium class of service? Certainly those 3* Michelin restaurants, and the prices they command, have to meet an elevated level of service, or patrons will determine that it's not worth the cost and seek out better options.
High value customers have choices, especially in intl J. AA is making the same mistakes as UA did under Smisek - we all saw how that went down. |
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31582584)
So from what I read
1. The FAs didn't smile 2. The FAs made some brash announcements (given the stupidity of paxs I'm often relieved to hear those announcements) 3. The FAs (presumably) skipped by you during drink service. Did you say excuse me....? 4. The FA wrenched your tray away. In 18 years with flying AA I've never had a FA wrench my food/beverage away. Sounds like hyperbole to me. |
Originally Posted by AA100k
(Post 31580991)
Does anyone notice a difference between the LUS and LAA crews? Most of my international travel is out of PHL with LUS crews - are they the nice ones?
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Originally Posted by DCP2016
(Post 31582807)
In general LUS crews are definitely more customer service focused, especially on international flights.
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Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31582504)
By the announcement I assume you mean credit card. Got news for you credit card revenue keeps AA alive. Those tacky announcements aren't going anywhere and I'm sure FAs are being pushed to hawk credit cards. Sorry welcome to the era of low fares. Are you saying that a FA intentionally skipped you and did not take your food order (and you weren't sitting with eyes closed)? Even the worse of FAs I doubt would purposely decide "no meal for you." BTW do you think UA and DL are significantly better?
The days of glamour 1960s flying are over with, never coming back. The lucky ones are sitting up front, at least in a seat where they aren't rubbing skin with a total stranger. And anyone that would ever get excited by airline food? I've had FAs not be overly friendly but never to the point of rude. Yes I prefer a smiling and attentive FA (particularly in the premium cabin) but I don't count on it. |
Of all the things that could piss me off when I'm traveling surly FAs are way down on the list. Give me a premium seat (or PE), couple of free drinks (afternoon or evening flights) and a decent AVOD (because tablets are PITA to use in flight) and I'm happy as a pig in slop. The meal to me is no different that a Burger King meal.
This is the industry, all US major airlines. No one at AA is going to change that. Complaining on FT isn't going to change it. And we certainly aren't going back to the golden days of flying. If the FA is that miserable in life not my issue or problem. After living in Manhattan for 17 years I learned how to tune most people out, including less than happy FAs. |
Originally Posted by enviroian
(Post 31582996)
I'd go one step further and say legacy HP crews are the friendliest and service orientated folks out there.
The new hires a few years ago were certainly a breath of fresh air and the LHP FA's were another needed breath of fresh air. |
Originally Posted by AA100k
(Post 31580991)
I take a couple of international trips in J every month, tomorrow I’m going to Rome. I never experience this bad FA stuff I read about here. One time an FA forgot to offer me a dinner roll but it didn’t ruin the trip for me. Sometimes the wine has turned and is awful and the entree ghastly but the crew isn’t the issue. I never get the drill sergeant treatment and frankly I prefer the crew to disappear after the meal when it’s “bedtime” in the cabin. They always know my name and are super friendly.
Does anyone notice a difference between the LUS and LAA crews? Most of my international travel is out of PHL with LUS crews - are they the nice ones? consider yourself lucky. I am not high maintenance or demanding in the least bit. I don't mind lackluster service. What I do mind, and see (more than occasionally) on AA long haul, is nasty and rude F/A's. |
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583056)
Of all the things that could piss me off when I'm traveling surly FAs are way down on the list. Give me a premium seat (or PE), couple of free drinks (afternoon or evening flights) and a decent AVOD (because tablets are PITA to use in flight) and I'm happy as a pig in slop. The meal to me is no different that a Burger King meal.
This is the industry, all US major airlines. No one at AA is going to change that. Complaining on FT isn't going to change it. And we certainly aren't going back to the golden days of flying. If the FA is that miserable in life not my issue or problem. After living in Manhattan for 17 years I learned how to tune most people out, including less than happy FAs. |
I've been at an Elite of various levels at AA since 2003. In the premium cabin I've never had a FA refuse me a refill (yes many FAs aren't very attentive) and I've never had one roll their eyes at me. I've had FAs in their 70s to a young FA working the F cabin for her first time. I just do not believe this hyperbole that there are FAs in the premium cabin that purposely won't take your food or beverage order, won't give you a refill (provided it's not shortly before landing) and snarl/roll their eyes if you make a reasonable request. Yes lots of AA FAs won't do PDBs, some are surly and hate their job (at least the part dealing with paxs) and some are down right lazy. Including and especially the younger ones.
But given all of AA's real deficiencies (inability to operate with banked hubs, inability to clearly communicate delays or post reasonable times, shoving more seats into Y while announcing plans to rip out AVOD, etc.) FAs are way down on my list. Most have been very good (including in Y when the service just by nature lacks), some are average, a smaller number below average and relatively few bottom of the barrel. In 16 years flying with AA I've never had a FA so bad I would even remotely consider writing AA. |
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583226)
I've been at an Elite of various levels at AA since 2003. In the premium cabin I've never had a FA refuse me a refill (yes many FAs aren't very attentive) and I've never had one roll their eyes at me. I've had FAs in their 70s to a young FA working the F cabin for her first time. I just do not believe this hyperbole that there are FAs in the premium cabin that purposely won't take your food or beverage order, won't give you a refill (provided it's not shortly before landing) and snarl/roll their eyes if you make a reasonable request. Yes lots of AA FAs won't do PDBs, some are surly and hate their job (at least the part dealing with paxs) and some are down right lazy. Including and especially the younger ones.
But given all of AA's real deficiencies (inability to operate with banked hubs, inability to clearly communicate delays or post reasonable times, shoving more seats into Y while announcing plans to rip out AVOD, etc.) FAs are way down on my list. Most have been very good (including in Y when the service just by nature lacks), some are average, a smaller number below average and relatively few bottom of the barrel. In 16 years flying with AA I've never had a FA so bad I would even remotely consider writing AA. |
There is an axiom in life that you get what you tolerate. Sadly for those of us over the age of 50 its a brand new world. Suddenly the world in which we were raised is obsolete. Respect, Patience, Manners have all flown out the door and its up to us to PIVOT and accept things and behaviors that were appalling when we were being raised. I see it in my own kids. I'm an outlier in demanding respect etc. I've found that if you treat people the way you want to be treated, they will usually treat you the same. This attitude doesn't permeate the fabric of our society today, so its rare to see it
Poor service is tolerated because to ..... about it, gets you arrested LOL In the end, we can speak volumes by our money. That axiom still exists, "money talks, bs walks." For me, AA is convenient to where I want to go. When it stops becoming that or the rules to maintain status worsen, I can go back to UA where I"m lifetime Platinum. Hopefully one day the pendulum will swing closer to the middle and we will treat each other with courtesy and respect. Until then we can all ..... on the forum just like I am. |
Originally Posted by nachosdelux
(Post 31583272)
Believe it. I have experienced it several times. You go on to say that "some are surly and hate their job". These are the ones that should not have this job. You pay good money to travel in J, and surly employees doesn't bother you in the least? No customer, in any class of travel, should have to put up with that crap. And AA is powerless to do anything about it.
On the flip side I've had some FAs do some amazing things for me. Give me a goodie bag to go (or a bottle of wine which I assume is against the rules), ask me about my job and life, thank me personally for my business. I'm assuming bottom of the barrel FAs can be found at every US domestic airline. Even airlines known for their customer service such as B6 and WN have them. Years back some FA at B6 flipped out. As the a/c approached the gate he grabbed a six pack of beer, pulled the emergency shot, slide down and took off in the airport. Like I said if you want to volunteer to give up your J seat so that a mystery shopper can ride along and ferret out those few bad apples be my guest. I'll take my upgrade and deal with a surly FA from time to time. How exactly should AA get rid of these so called evil FAs? Someone complains and they are instantly fired? Given the way some paxs act I don't blame the way they come off at times. If someone is constantly dealing with so many so called bad apples I have to wonder if it's the pax or the FA. Again, as someone that has no issue expressing his anger I've never remotely thought about lodging a formal complaint against a FA. |
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583226)
I've been at an Elite of various levels at AA since 2003. In the premium cabin I've never had a FA refuse me a refill (yes many FAs aren't very attentive) and I've never had one roll their eyes at me. I've had FAs in their 70s to a young FA working the F cabin for her first time. I just do not believe this hyperbole that there are FAs in the premium cabin that purposely won't take your food or beverage order, won't give you a refill (provided it's not shortly before landing) and snarl/roll their eyes if you make a reasonable request. Yes lots of AA FAs won't do PDBs, some are surly and hate their job (at least the part dealing with paxs) and some are down right lazy. Including and especially the younger ones.
But given all of AA's real deficiencies (inability to operate with banked hubs, inability to clearly communicate delays or post reasonable times, shoving more seats into Y while announcing plans to rip out AVOD, etc.) FAs are way down on my list. Most have been very good (including in Y when the service just by nature lacks), some are average, a smaller number below average and relatively few bottom of the barrel. In 16 years flying with AA I've never had a FA so bad I would even remotely consider writing AA. If you don't care about it then fine, good for you. But 5 pages later you can see that a) lots of other people have had similar experiences and b) they DO see it as a problem. |
Originally Posted by bostontraveler
(Post 31583343)
Well I've been an elite since 1992 and I can tell you that I've seen it all. Good, bad and horrendous. Who said the FAs refused to take my order? They just walked by me- twice. When I said excuse me they were already long gone... and when I confronted them I got the nasty stare... And throughout the whole flight it was the same thing....rushing through the cabin for everything... I have food on my plate and I'm eating and they have their hand on my tray to take it away... Plus a purser who was constantly making long-winded aggressive announcements with endless unnecessary commentary. I don't want fake smiles. I want professionalism and common courtesy.
If you don't care about it then fine, good for you. But 5 pages later you can see that a) lots of other people have had similar experiences and b) they DO see it as a problem. |
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583370)
Because in posting on FT since 2005 I've come to realize lots of people here somehow think AA can (and would) bring back the glory days of flying. I watch YouTube videos flying from the 1960s and sans the smoking I think what a treat that must have been. Today if your flying Y it's a tab above the NYC subway, J maybe Metro North. You had a FA that threw you attitude and liked making announcements. At least in J you get noise cancelling headsets. I've had a few FA give me attitude and I usually just laugh at them (because in the grand scheme of things they are nobodies) and if their life is that miserable I feel sorry for them. They should experience some real tragedy in life (like I have).
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Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583370)
Because in posting on FT since 2005 I've come to realize lots of people here somehow think AA can (and would) bring back the glory days of flying. I watch YouTube videos flying from the 1960s and sans the smoking I think what a treat that must have been. Today if your flying Y it's a tab above the NYC subway, J maybe Metro North. You had a FA that threw you attitude and liked making announcements. At least in J you get noise cancelling headsets. I've had a few FA give me attitude and I usually just laugh at them (because in the grand scheme of things they are nobodies) and if their life is that miserable I feel sorry for them. They should experience some real tragedy in life (like I have).
I simply expect people to do a decent job at their.... job. Its not rocket science, or expecting some "glory days". If a Courtyard or Towne Place Marriott can give a consistently better experience, why can't American Airlines manage in International J? |
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583335)
No I've come to the conclusion it's part of the travel experience.
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Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583335)
I'll take my upgrade and deal with a surly FA from time to time.
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Originally Posted by ijgordon
(Post 31582613)
I think fake/feigned is probably worse than apathetic, which most of us would probably be okay with -- IF THEY DO THEIR JOBS (serve food, provide refills). What really makes the difference is genuine smiles/concern, and I'm sorry if you've never experienced it. It exists. Even on airlines. And why can't it be part of the package of expectations in a premium class of service? Certainly those 3* Michelin restaurants, and the prices they command, have to meet an elevated level of service, or patrons will determine that it's not worth the cost and seek out better options.
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Originally Posted by tomj888
(Post 31583307)
I've found that if you treat people the way you want to be treated, they will usually treat you the same.
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I'm sorry I just don't believe that if the FA skipped over you and if you said excuse me miss/sir but you forgot to take my order they'd roll their eyes. Possibly if they asked and you were so engrossed in something you ignored their original request. I certainly don't see a FA grabbing the plate away from you with fork and knife still in hand. Sure if you're slowly eating (as I do because flying is the only time I ever seem to eat a meal slowly) they might think you're done. Simply say "oh I'm still working on that."
I find that if you treat the FAs well and professionally (they are not flying waitresses) they're treat you right. Sure some are not much into their job, might even hate their job. Those kind of people are everywhere in every profession. BTW most flight crew have no clue who is upgraded or paid and they really don't care. They know what the service is for a premium cabin for a particular flight, what the Y service is. Sometimes you get service plus, sometimes you barely get the service. I've seen grannies hustle up and down Y constantly offering drink refills and even seconds on snacks. I've seen 20 somethings have no interest in anything other than their phone. I've seen sometimes how FAs get treated in the premium cabins. I've seen FAs ask for desired beverage or meal choice only to be barked at by some DYKWIA type. If I had to put up with what they put up I'd might be a bit surly too. Of course management shoving more seats into the a/c making sure that each seat has a butt then finding a way to charge for everything makes the experience like ridding the NYC subway at 5PM. |
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583991)
I'm sorry I just don't believe that if the FA skipped over you and if you said excuse me miss/sir but you forgot to take my order they'd roll their eyes. Possibly if they asked and you were so engrossed in something you ignored their original request. I certainly don't see a FA grabbing the plate away from you with fork and knife still in hand. Sure if you're slowly eating (as I do because flying is the only time I ever seem to eat a meal slowly) they might think you're done. Simply say "oh I'm still working on that."
I find that if you treat the FAs well and professionally (they are not flying waitresses) they're treat you right. Sure some are not much into their job, might even hate their job. Those kind of people are everywhere in every profession. BTW most flight crew have no clue who is upgraded or paid and they really don't care. They know what the service is for a premium cabin for a particular flight, what the Y service is. Sometimes you get service plus, sometimes you barely get the service. I've seen grannies hustle up and down Y constantly offering drink refills and even seconds on snacks. I've seen 20 somethings have no interest in anything other than their phone. I've seen sometimes how FAs get treated in the premium cabins. I've seen FAs ask for desired beverage or meal choice only to be barked at by some DYKWIA type. If I had to put up with what they put up I'd might be a bit surly too. Of course management shoving more seats into the a/c making sure that each seat has a butt then finding a way to charge for everything makes the experience like ridding the NYC subway at 5PM. |
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583370)
<snip> because in the grand scheme of things they are nobodies
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583370)
<snip>They should experience some real tragedy in life (like I have).
Why don't you put the shovel down and take a breath for a little while? Regards |
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583991)
I'm sorry I just don't believe that if the FA skipped over you and if you said excuse me miss/sir but you forgot to take my order they'd roll their eyes. Possibly if they asked and you were so engrossed in something you ignored their original request. I certainly don't see a FA grabbing the plate away from you with fork and knife still in hand. Sure if you're slowly eating (as I do because flying is the only time I ever seem to eat a meal slowly) they might think you're done. Simply say "oh I'm still working on that."
I find that if you treat the FAs well and professionally (they are not flying waitresses) they're treat you right. Sure some are not much into their job, might even hate their job. Those kind of people are everywhere in every profession. BTW most flight crew have no clue who is upgraded or paid and they really don't care. They know what the service is for a premium cabin for a particular flight, what the Y service is. Sometimes you get service plus, sometimes you barely get the service. I've seen grannies hustle up and down Y constantly offering drink refills and even seconds on snacks. I've seen 20 somethings have no interest in anything other than their phone. I've seen sometimes how FAs get treated in the premium cabins. I've seen FAs ask for desired beverage or meal choice only to be barked at by some DYKWIA type. If I had to put up with what they put up I'd might be a bit surly too. Of course management shoving more seats into the a/c making sure that each seat has a butt then finding a way to charge for everything makes the experience like ridding the NYC subway at 5PM. AA 193 (LAX-HKG) entire F cabin IFE non-functional (compensation for flight issues) Best way to report FA in F, HKG-DFW Flight attendant fills overhead bin with personal items, rude to passenger HKG - LAX: Incredibly Rude FA, J Pax offloads himself! Review: American Airlines First Class 777-300ER Los Angeles To London |
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583991)
I'm sorry I just don't believe that if the FA skipped over you and if you said excuse me miss/sir but you forgot to take my order they'd roll their eyes. Possibly if they asked and you were so engrossed in something you ignored their original request. I certainly don't see a FA grabbing the plate away from you with fork and knife still in hand. Sure if you're slowly eating (as I do because flying is the only time I ever seem to eat a meal slowly) they might think you're done. Simply say "oh I'm still working on that."
I find that if you treat the FAs well and professionally (they are not flying waitresses) they're treat you right. I've seen sometimes how FAs get treated in the premium cabins. I've seen FAs ask for desired beverage or meal choice only to be barked at by some DYKWIA type. If I had to put up with what they put up I'd might be a bit surly too. And now you're suggesting I contributed to it or didn't handle the situation properly. Listen, I have traveled over 10 million miles all over the world for the past 30 years. I also have a good upbringing and treat people with deference and respect. It's actually humorous that you find it totally unfathomable that something like that could happen on AA, or anywhere. Well, hate to break it to you- it did. And it does. As some other folks have said- it might be time for you to get your passport out and try some foreign carriers to see how the real world treats customers. You really are an endless source of self-righteous, condescending nonsense. |
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31583370)
Because in posting on FT since 2005 I've come to realize lots of people here somehow think AA can (and would) bring back the glory days of flying. I watch YouTube videos flying from the 1960s and sans the smoking I think what a treat that must have been. Today if your flying Y it's a tab above the NYC subway, J maybe Metro North. You had a FA that threw you attitude and liked making announcements. At least in J you get noise cancelling headsets. I've had a few FA give me attitude and I usually just laugh at them (because in the grand scheme of things they are nobodies) and if their life is that miserable I feel sorry for them. They should experience some real tragedy in life (like I have).
"In the grand scheme of things they're nobodies". Wow. Well, that sums up your character and value system. A great way to see others. Sad actually. |
Interesting discussion. I travel a lot internationally, usually in F or Business. My negative experience on AA match what as been described here. AA has some good FAs, but most and especially on international flights are just dreadful. I just got off a few Air China flight. Pleasant experience. Nice attendants. Edible food. And Air China is nowhere near the top of the list of international airlines.
I am lucky since I don't need to travel much in the US any more and have a choice of much better airlines than AA for most of my trips. I feel sorry for the posters here who are stuck with AA or most other US airlines. And I am amazed that people here defend AA. Looks like they have never experienced serice on a good airline. |
Originally Posted by lobo411
(Post 31583666)
IMO a FA can only reasonably care about me as much as I care about them: we owe each other basic human respect and courtesy, but...I don't know the person and they don't know me. I've flown first class to Asia where the FAs do a great job of providing service and acting concerned, but I was never sucked so far into the fantasy that I believed they really did care. It doesn't bother me one bit to not have that feigned-concern as long as the service (the tangible bit) is good.
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Originally Posted by Unterwegs
(Post 31584549)
Interesting discussion. I travel a lot internationally, usually in F or Business. My negative experience on AA match what as been described here. AA has some good FAs, but most and especially on international flights are just dreadful. I just got off a few Air China flight. Pleasant experience. Nice attendants. Edible food. And Air China is nowhere near the top of the list of international airlines.
I am lucky since I don't need to travel much in the US any more and have a choice of much better airlines than AA for most of my trips. I feel sorry for the posters here who are stuck with AA or most other US airlines. And I am amazed that people here defend AA. Looks like they have never experienced serice on a good airline. |
Originally Posted by lobo411
(Post 31583666)
IMO a FA can only reasonably care about me as much as I care about them: we owe each other basic human respect and courtesy,
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Less than enthusiastic FAs are nothing new at AA. They'be been around for years. Nothing unique about this, I see consultants that should have left the industry years ago. Like FAs for whatever reason they stay in a job that makes them miserable.
I also see young FAs that are already miserable and if they stay with the job are only going to get worst. Yes AA seems to need to do a better job in recruiting FAs that can withstand the vigor, hassle and stress of the job over time. However, I don't see FA proactively removing ill tempered FAs, particularly since it's not the easiest objective thing to do. Look at most flyers. So engrossed in their screen they wouldn't give a rat's behind of whether the FA was a saint or the recreation of the devil himself. Complaining isn't going to get you anywhere. Writing posts on FT certainly isn't going to get you anywhere. If you believe DL and UA don't have these snarling, unprofessional, careless FAs then by all means take your business there. My assumption is that the same kind of FAs are also present at both those airlines (as well as other US airlines). Or accept that from time to time you're going to get a less than stellar FA, maybe down right combative but move onto more worrisome issues in life. Miserable FAs are way, way down my list of concerns. |
Originally Posted by newyorkgeorge
(Post 31585987)
If you believe DL and UA don't have these snarling, unprofessional, careless FAs then by all means take your business there. My assumption is that the same kind of FAs are also present at both those airlines (as well as other US airlines).
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Originally Posted by ijgordon
(Post 31586402)
Yes they are, but far fewer of them.
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Originally Posted by enviroian
(Post 31586414)
I bet that DL and UA's respective mergers, contracts, etc went smoother than US/AA's is probably a contributing factor.
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Originally Posted by ijgordon
(Post 31586402)
Yes they are, but far fewer of them.
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Originally Posted by richarddd
(Post 31586568)
Last week is was flying DL in J TATL. I got up to go to the bathroom and passed a FA absorbed in busily texting and thought "it's not just AA". When I left the bathroom, she stopped texting, smiled nicely and asked if there was anything I needed.
If it were two, this story might have played out differently. |
Originally Posted by Antarius
(Post 31586443)
UA most certainly did not. For all my gripes with Parker, at least he isnt Smisek.
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Originally Posted by enpremiere
(Post 31586677)
It was probably because it was just one flush.
If it were two, this story might have played out differently. |
Originally Posted by tramm7
(Post 31583623)
In that scenario you may be right. If the premium cabin is a free upgrade....it beats the alternative any day. But as a paying J/F flyer i find it unacceptable.
+1. I think newyorkgeorge has low expectations/standards because they are getting a "free" upgrade. When you pay for J, your expectations tend to increase. |
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