Originally Posted by
travelingconsultant
let me add that ive asked these females to come out before afterwork and theyve gracefully said no..
admist the check in, the girl obviously side tracked forgot to ask me for my platinum gift.. i m new to the welcome gift game so i went to the front desk and was like, do i get a 100 bux.. shes like omg i forgot
let me just say this.. i have never EVER touched any of the females where as numerous colleagues have seen them come to my room, hand deliver me notes, and even put their arms around me in the lobby... fine.. its flirting no big deal.. no interaction besides the one instance where a note was hand delievered to my room has happened outside of the front desk... i ve never even asked for a phone number..
I think you need to google the standards for what constitutes sexual harassment and drop this issue quickly and quietly.
What you are freely admitting to on a public forum is a textbook example of harassment (repeated requests for dates after being told no resulting in interference with an individual's work performance).
It may seem like simple "flirting" and "no big deal" to you, but I think if you do a little research you'll find that you have definitely crossed the lines of the legal definition of harassment.
The manager is required by law to investigate/address the issue. It sounds like he is letting it drop since you are not planning to come back to the hotel.
Chalk this one up to experience and find a different hotel to stay in the next time you are in town.