Where would anyone recommend taking a couple of reasonably savvy 11 and 9 year old boys and the wife for a taste of S.E.Asia that's not too homogenised but on the other hand is not dangerous.
Not really after an organised beach holiday although time at the beach would be part of the itinerary.
Happy to travel with a couple of backpacks.
Obviously,Thailand is an option but many people seem to report how over-touristy it has become - Vietnam ?
All suggestions gratefully received.