Originally Posted by
tom911
That's actually pretty sad to hear from someone that has been around FT as long as you have been. A lot of time and effort goes into organizing events, be they small or large, and you'd be most welcome at any of them. I would certainly enjoy meeting you at an FT event.
I am not sure why it is sad. My lack of attendance does not stop others from attending so the time and effort in organizing the DO is not wasted. While I don't doubt you would indeed make me feel welcome, I can guarantee that other's would not. Tis ok though, I learned a long time ago that I can't be friends with everyone so I don't try. As for meeting me, it can happen as I do meet up with other FTr's for drinks/dinner etc. in my travels; it is just organized DO's I avoid.
I do think you're missing an opportunity to expand your travel/frequent flyer knowledge base.
Tis ok, I am happy with my knowledge base right now. Most of my travel is personal and what I have accumulated over the years serves me well. Can I always learn more, sure, but I don't need to attend a DO to gain that knowledge.