I had considered upgrading myself to F so that J seat becomes available for my fiance's upgrade to J - but F is full (QF load factors to US are excellent - especially up front).

On a related note, how can one find out the length of the waitlist ahead of one - I asked both QFF customers service, and QF sales agent and both said they can't see that. Any way to see or find out waitlist length and one's position in that waitlist?