After you visited some of the above heres a few more of my personal favorites.

Both SOMA ( South of Market St) For dim sum - Yank Sing still one of the best around.
Coco 5000 considered by some foodies among the cities top ten (or higher) eateries.
inventive, California cusine.

Gary Danko - near Lombard/Hyde great upscale fixe prixe dining.

Visit the Cable Car Museum much more interesting than it sounds.

Wine country - Somoma very good restuarant right on square - The Girl and the Fig.

And two of the best in the entire area ( including the city)
In the neat little town of Healdsburg - north of Petaluma but still in the wine reagion.
Cyrus and Dry Creek Kitchen both far better than any restuarant you will find in most major cities.

mike