Originally Posted by Analise
That's a pet peeve of mine too. I think it's absolutely rude for waiters to remove plates until everyone had finished his/her meal. When they try to remove mine (I eat much too quickly unfortunately), I tell them that to wait until the other person is finished.
I share this view, though like
Doppy I like to be a little more subtle so as not to draw attention to those who haven't finished their meals yet. If I see that others aren't done yet, I'll slow down my pace or intentionally leave some food on the plate. That way the person clearing the table knows I'm not done yet, or if they ask, I will say "no" and try to finish up when my guests are done. I don't like feeling like I'm a slow eater, and I don't want any of my guests to feel rushed, either, but I think saying "wait until the other person is finished" is a little too conspicuous.