If it's a busy night and you've completed your meal, they should offer to buy you a drink at the bar if they really want the table. They shouldn't rush you during or after the meal, however.
I also don't like it when they start picking up people's plates before everyone is finished with the course. That's a big no-no. It makes those who are still eating feel uncomfortable and rushed.
Sometimes when they try to do it, I'll tell them I'm not done yet and they shouldn't pick up my plate - even when it's completely empty. I shouldn't have to do that, but it's an effort to make my companions more comfortable.
Originally Posted by Dovster
Ironically, my pet peeve works in the opposite direction: When I finish eating, I want to get out of the restaurant -- and I hate it when I am unable to catch the waiter's eye to get the check.
I agree.