Originally Posted by
zakami
I'm a So cal based travel advisor and SJD and PVR are two of my top destinations booked give the proximity. I've also stayed at all those hotels other than Las Ventanas. If seeking a great beach, I would streer you to Punta Mita and to avoid Cabo (other than Four Seasons and perhaps Montage). The beach at Palmilla is OK but I find its a bit too public. The challenge with the Four Seasons near Cabo is its isolation; you don't have great dining choices besides the hotel.
Susseros del Corazon is a great choice. Another place to consider is Zadun but the beach is tiny, though super private. I would skip Solaz and Cape as they are not in the same league as the other options you mention and you will be underwhelmed.
This isn't entirely accurate on the beach at Palmilla. While the beach that the Palmilla has their palapa bar and loungers set-up at is as you describe, the beach the opposite side of the break in front of Villas del Mar is practically private and is a great beach for walking.
San Jose has great food. The back road into town has become more like Cabo, and is to be avoided, but San Jose itself still retains its charm.