Sounds like a divorce to me, as well.

But here's a new wrinkle ... if the couple married in a community property jurisdiction, such as in Californnia or South Africa the miles would be deemed to be held in community. I believe it's incumbent upon each party not to waste the community assets ...

However, this is a large issue to any FT'er and it is hard to believe it would slip the mind of an FT'er going through a divorce. Certainly my property settlement dealt with this very same scenario and I enjoyed free first class travel during TWA's last years.

But I certainly did not rub my ex's nose it it ...

The only approach I would counsel is wait for the other party to make a request you are able to grant and ask for the quid pro quo.