Originally Posted by
beachfan
disagree 100%
if someone can’t handle a polite and respectful request, they need to deal with it, not the rest of the world.
The refuser in this case was not the person who decided to complain about it on this thread. If people can't handle a refusal, they need to stop asking
Originally Posted by
SteveinA2
It is OK to ask
It is OK to say no
And, that is where is should end rather than speculating the person rejecting the change might be some sort of weirdo.
The reason shouldn't matter, nor should they be intimidated into giving one.
My reasons for keeping the seat should not the concern of the asker