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I hate when the server keeps interrupting the conversation to ask whether everything is OK, etc.
If someone chooses not to finish a meal, the server shouldn't call attention to this fact. It can be very awkward.
My pet peeve is when servers remove plates before everyone has finished the course, or worse, distributes menus for dessert when some haven't finished their main course. Usually I refuse then to order dessert and tell them why.