Is it possible to force a card or transaction to go through verified by visa and get the SMS confirmation code? I currently get the SMS only for one in 10 or so transactions.

I'm trying to add my BoA credit card to Grab and it's not working, it's stopping at the verified by visa screen, and Grab support told me they only accept cards that support 3d secure, which I believe is the same as verified by visa.

Also, many other international merchants requires verified by visa in order to accept the transaction. So is it possible to enable or force the verified transaction for a specific transaction, or turn it on all the time?

I tried calling BoA but gave up after being redirected to 5 different persons within BoA and Visa.