Sorry if this has been posted before but need help and advice for my SO and myself. She is a million mile file with current Gold status. I am officially her companion with the million mile flyer status and also have Gold. She regularly books us on flights together and it seems every time we get to the gate, she is the first person on the upgrade list (Always gets her upgrade) but I don't even get on the upgrade list. Is there a process we need to follow to both get on the list? Or are we out of luck and she will continue to get upgraded and I will stay in coach?