Umm, well why would you ask your question here rather than asking it of TA?

Personally, I never write reviews either good or bad. Thinking about your experience in this case, I do think it brings up a good point. If someone writes a bad review and names the hotel, why should a hotel not be able to name the person if they respond? That's 'tit for tat' isn't it? You are saying, you want to name them but do not want them to name you! Somehow, that does not strike me as fair.

You say you did not write anything you would not be willing to stand behind 'publicly'. Well, stand behind it publicly. Standing behind it publicly of course means being willing to put your name to it just as many people do when writing a 'letter to the editor' of a newspaper for example.