You aren't being over-sensitive.
Recently on my flight from Queenstown to Sydney I had several issues with the business meal presented by Qantas.
First of all the salmon listed on the menu as starter was actually not salmon, but shrimp!
Oven wasn't even functional so they couldn't heat our meals.
My main meal which was supposed to be chicken, was actually duck!,
Eventually they gave me a cold dysfunctional meal from the economy cabin which was at least chicken but was disgusting.
I don't understand the point of the "Rockpool inspired menu" promised to provide a personalized experience when the options listed aren't even available. You'd hope this was just bad luck, but based on the way the cabin crew reacted to the situation this seemed like normal situation.
Also only one champagne was offered and of course it was the cheapest on the list.