Originally Posted by Kumulani

You only get miles on UA if the HA flight is part of a UA ticket. On AA, you get miles flown plus a 50% bonus for first class. Award miles only, no EQMs unless it's an AA codeshare. On DL, you get miles flown, award miles and EQMs.

HA's website does not allow for adding third party frequent flyer numbers, so you will need to call them to make these arrangements.