Pssh I used it a few times when nonreving for goodness sakes lol, so you should definitely use it for service if necessary as a revenue pax. I was thirsty and I noticed the FA's hadn't made any effort to check on people in quite awhile on a longhaul flt.


I would simply say it is all how you present yourself. If they come up and you are rude and say "I've been waiting for you to bring drinks forever" they probably won't be nice.

A simple "Hey, sorry to ring the bell but I was wonder if I could _____" would be just fine. Honestly, even though you are not really sorry nor should you be, just be fake nice enough in a mature conversation.

IF you get some rude FA who tells you it's only for emergencies, take their name down and report them upon landing. No need to get in an argument or get heated over it.


But alas by all means use the FA call button (within reason of course). If you can, try the restroom visit/ask. If you don't feel you should have to, then don't, ring the bell. FA's, although primarily there for safety, are also there to make pax comfort better. No matter how important some think they are.