Pretty simple, but AA has no interest in your EXP business. Their EQD plan and RDM since August makes that pretty clear.
Your ability to find cheap fares is admirable. I hope you are flying based on need and not chasing miles or status anymore.
There is no need to show-off how low or high is your spending. Low spenders are getting affected the most and high spenders will benefit especially with more RDM.
Rasheed