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Old Jan 26, 2016 | 12:04 am
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Originally Posted by Kate2015
Just like the title says - I'm curious who routinely does this or it's a relationship no-no. I know it depends on the couple, but do most couples have an issue with upgrading the same person each time, leaving the other in coach?
Why? I am sitting at Haneda airport on our flight back to Singapore right now, next to my wife. She flies Business, I am in Y. On way in she was in F on SQ (ticket bought on miles, obviously).

And this is standard setup - if we are flying together on long haul flights and there is an option to have her to fly in business - I will always do it.

Don't get why this could be relationship no-no. If you can do nice thing to your spouse by letting her flying with more comfort and knowing that she would appreciate it more - why don't do it? What is the problem?

Originally Posted by Calliopeflyer
I don't think any relationship would withstand that......not sitting together is one thing (and may be preferred by some couples), but allowing one to enjoy a better experience than the other would be a relationship killer, IMO. I would be planning on a separation (or maybe even calling a lawyer) before we even got on the plane if my husband tried to do that to me. And I would never accept it the other way around either (me in the upper cabin, him in coach).
So if both can't enjoy upgrade/comfort, then none should? I really feel sorry for people who are in relationship with people with this twisted logic...

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